Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Within the walls of our 3-day seminar rooms, burned into the discs of our recorded teaching products, and locked snugly inside our instant-online-access Secret Training Collection…

… you’ll hear a lot about new directions, what happens below me, and how I close off the past so that today is the last day of the way I used to be.

Some skeptics say, “pretty much any intelligent woman is going to pick up on these double entendres and think you’re stupid.  Not for me, thanks.”

That’s a little misplaced, especially when many of my students get vaginally-victorious results just by asking women what they do for fun.

Exactly right. 

As I keep saying, there are certain questions and themes that are most likely to open up the trains of thought, waves of emotion, flows of feeling that lead a woman to feel strongly attracted, aroused, etc.

Knowing how to get these themes introduced into a “harmless” or “normal” conversation is a key skill.

Here are a few of my “tried and true” seduction questions:

• “When you really want to cut loose… escape… indulge yourself..what is it you love to do? And what’s something you’d like to do… but haven’t found a way to try (pointing to myself subtly).”
• “If you were to meet someone… when you just… feel… that… you know… and it’s not just that but also… you know… it’s ON… now… today(nodding my head)… what do you think is the one thing about you that would keep this person coming back for more….beyond just a one time thing”
• “Do you think men understand women? I don’t know if they do, but I think I can explain the psychology of men to women in just one joke…”  (I then tell them one or more suggestion laden filthy jokes!)

Finally, here’s how a student of mine explained, how HE made it work:

Personally I like to ask them about what they do for fun.  1 chick I was sargin went into a long drawn out description of how she loves to ride a motor bike. She was going thru all the motions as well, really describing it and acting like she was on a bike as she pretended to go around a corner making the noises.  You could actually see her reliving the scene out in realtime. It was even exciting for me to listen to her describe it so I was kinda getting her to relive what she likes to do most and she gets all those feelings of excitement back as she’s thinking about it and describing it.

I thought it was pretty damn cool it was like as if she was entertaining me

Keep learning.  Keep mastering.  Keep Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection, one of the many video module segments is called “Patterns, Language Skills, And Poetry” – so you’ll get a lot more of what I just described above.  Think maybe THIS will get you tight trim triumph?

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you make the decision, right now, that today is the last day of the way I used to be, you’ll see the impact it has not only on your girl-getting game, but on your life in general.

Let’s hear from a student with whom I had a private coaching call not too long ago:

Hi, Ross.

I have to thank you for the stuff you shared on our private coaching call.

We spoke on the phone a bit earlier this year, and I have to thank you for the path of evolution and personal growth your seminars in 1998 started me on. Back then I was an insecure, somewhat feminized male — basically below average socially, financially and very frustrated.

Your work inspired me to study and become certified in hypnosis, NLP and some energy work and change my life. Your teaching back then really helped me and other men break the code on female psychology. Also, other trainers have commended your products and skill in teaching embedded commands.

Now I have a satisfying professional life, personal life and can deal with frustrations quickly, calmly and easily. Relating to all people is really quite easy now.

Michael Dreyer
Fitchburg, Wisconsin

Think about Michael’s experience.  If this is a vision you’d like to see for your own life, what can you do, right now, today, to get started on your journey?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. A very easy yet powerful way to take a first step forward is to try out my Coaching Program.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?

Why, yes, my horny disciples.  Yes indeedy do!

Here is an example:

Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.

In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.

Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).

She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”

I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH.  When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”

She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”

I said, “That’s right.  French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”.  (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”

Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened.  As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.

At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.

(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray.  Once I hook ‘em, I gotta overlook ‘em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)

In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:

“So hard…”

“Hard inside you”

“New direction/nude erection”

“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”

“Suck seed/succeed”

“Go down”

“Put it in your mouth”

When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself.  Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!

Have fun and let me know how it goes…

Piece and peace,
RJ

P.S. I am seriously contemplating designing an on line program dedicated to the topic of different ways to quickly sexualize your interactions with wonen: verbal, vibe and touch.  What say ye to this?  It would probably run about 5-7 video modules, plus, when I create it, some live video broadcasts with Q and A. Maybe sell it for $97.

P.P.S. In the meantime, for an instant-access vaginal victory vault, stuffed with over 120 videos bursting with girl-getting teaching that gets you tight trim triumph, click here right now.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I love teaching so much, I just can’t go without it.

So I am this close to deciding to do something radical. Something that will let those who live in the So Cal area come see me live, once a month, teaching my latest improvements and discoveries in sexual languaging, meeting women anytime, anywhere, and inner game mastery.

Here’s what I am thinking:

One Sunday a month, we’d meet for 4 hours from 1PM-5pm at a local spa, right down the block from my home in Marina Del Rey.

Their room only seats 50 people, so it will be a pretty intimate gathering.

I teach my latest and best stuff for 2 hours. The second two hours I spend answering your questions on any of your stuck points, doing change work on stage(remember I’m the only person in this community with over 5,000 hours of coaching, teaching and change work mastery, and the only one with 20 years experience in NLP and Hypnosis).

I want to keep this small, so it’s only 50 people, seriously.

I’m this close to doing this, but I want your feedback.

(For those of you not in the So Cal area and who aren’t willing to travel, we’d record it all and make the DVD available a few days later, for the same as the admission price $50.)

Give me your opinion below. What do you think?

If you guys say “yes” then I think the first one would be October 25 in Marina del Rey.

Let me know below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. The location is about one block from the beach and right near restaurants, bars etc. Plenty of places to sarge afterwards.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

I love showing off the teaching I do for my exclusive coaching club members.

This video is from this month’s Instructional Video series, and it’s about creating arousal and connection in minutes.

Please tell me below what you’ve learned, and remember your comments are welcomed.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out the first month of my coaching program-including 3 opportunities a month to talk live with me-for just $1. Click here now.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Holy crap.

I’ve gotten some emails from some of you Euro-Trash telling me that you are not going to attend my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar, Aug 21, 22, 23.

Even though it is almost certainly the last time I’ll be in Europe until 2010, and even though I’ve re-tooled and updated Speed Seduction(R) so that you can handle clubs, bars and “group game”, some of you guys are still saying that you want to wait.

Ok. There’s no arguing with bad decisions.

But for those of you who powerfully now want to share my latest and deepest insights-to join me as we peer deep down into the emotional matrix and neurological code that runs the female psyche-I want you to get your asses there!

To whet your appetite, here are some clips of past seminars.

These first two clips show the power of the NLP personal change work I do at these events. Speaking to you as someone who is deeply committed to personal change and massive success with women, I’m sure you can agree that having my change-work skills at your beck and call is a powerful motivator to attend this seminar. And that no one else in the seduction community even pretends to come close to these skills that you want to have at your service and command.

This is a powerful statement, and yet a picture speaks a thousand words, and a video speaks like ten thousand pictures. So check out these;

You’ll note in this first video, which was from my London 2007 seminar, how totally incoherent and even “spaz-like” Garrett was.  He reported that people just couldn’t stand to be around him, and with his hyper-active personality, spewing nonsense, you can probably see why.

Now notice the incredible change in Garrett. It’s like he’s a different person. Notice how in control he is of his pacing, his posture, his gestures, everything. This took about 7 minutes to do.  Also listen again to how it has freed him up as a person in multiple contexts. What would it be like to have me work like that with you?

Screw Personal Change Ross, I Just Want To Know What To Say To Chicks  Get Laid Like I Had A Fist-full Of Pardons In A Women’s Prison

Right on, Buckwheat. I can appreciate that aim. So here are a few peeks from teachings at past seminars where I go into how to use sexual languaging to get ‘em hot, get ‘em steaming, and get’em riding your bonedaddy in minutes!

This first video is all about how to ask the right kinds of questions to get women thinking in that “new direction” and then how to give a suggestion that keeps her looping on those sexual thoughts and feelings.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Pretty cool, huh? Here’s another good one. It’s about using jokes, stories and metaphors to trigger her socially programmed romantic memes to get her locked into you sexually:

Click here to view the embedded video.

What Cootch Catching Secrets Have I Recently Created In My Seduction Lab?

Now listen: I’ve been feverishly  working in my “seduction lab” since I broke up with my Swedish girlfriend about 6 weeks ago. And I’ve come up with some hot new stuff that revolves around doing group game. This is really fantastic stuff and you have to see it.(Hint: you won’t need a top hat, eye-makeup, and 10 inch platform shoes to pull this off!)

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Look guys: I founded this whole thing 20 years ago. I don’t care if you’ve never been to anyone’s even before, have seen other “gurus” or are a returning student of mine. You owe it to yourself to get this area of your life not only handled, but joyously mastered.  Come learn the emotional matrix and neurological machine language of women, and master the game beyond your wildest dreams. Click here to find out more.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. I give you 100% total  permission to embed any and all of these videos in your blog, Facebook, or other social media.

P.P.S. I am on fire to teach. Being single again has kicked my seduction mind(and skill) into over-drive. Come learn what I now know. Click here to find out more or claim your seat!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, a student of mine asked me what to do when dealing with women who knew him before he became a Speed Seduction® Master.  In other words, back when he was an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) who got in his own way when it came to succeeding with women.

Now that he’s speaking to them in ways that capture and excite their deepest emotions, aren’t they going to feel strange when they compare it to how he used to act with them? How they used to feel around him?

I immediately asked him,

“If you suddenly won the Euro Lottery and went from having no money
to having $500 million, would you worry about how other people adjusted to it?
Would they have a problem adjusting to it?”

I don’t think so.

In the same vein, how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you and even how you used to see yourself.

Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. Do this, and that hot chick from college who shot you down as an Average Frustrated Chump will quickly learn to see you as an Amazing Fascinating Champ.

I’ve been both. And I can tell you Amazing Fascinating Champ feels a whole hell of a lot better.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Remember, it’s not about who you were then.  It’s about who you design yourself to be right now. All of this is completely under your control. Find out how here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video-number 8 of my 10 part Beyond Dating Tips/Advice To Men Mastery Series-I teach you how to use an NLP principle to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

I like the comment/question/observation method because it pretty much self-generates what you say to open, unique to the situation in which you find yourself.

Please give it a good watching and comment either below, or on Youtube.  Once again, the title is NLP Training: The Comment, Question, Observation Tactic.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. My Gold Walk Up DVD covers all of this and more, in detail. Find it here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

What you are watching here is a very early, sneak peak, first edit of my MindFrame Persuasion Home Study Course.

This is a few minutes from the Sunday morning session which was, in my humble opinion, simply the best teaching I’ve ever done.

Enjoy, comment below, and be patient. It will be at least 30 days before a course is ready, probably even longer.

RJ

P.S. The early notification list for the course is here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Today is the second year anniversary of my beloved mother, Sylvia’s, passing.

Reflecting on her life, I can only repeat what I’ve said many times: her influence on me is what made it possible for me to be the teacher(and learner) that I am today.

My mother modeled for me the notion that if you didn’t have the answer to a problem, you should go find it.

Don’t pretend you know if you don’t. Admit it, and then go find out. And if there isn’t any answer, go be the one to create it, and prove it.

Mom also taught me in stories and metaphors. Rather than saying directly, “don’t get too sure of yourself” she would say, “Watch out for your Achilles heel”. She would then go on to explain the story of how Achilles’ mother dipped him in the river Styx to make him invulnerable to harm, but of course since she held him upside down by the feet, that spot was left vulnerable.

Now, if you’ve ever wondered why I seem so determined to stick my finger in the eye of traditional thinking, and even the less traditional world of the PUA community, I can give you another story about my Mom.

One day, when I was around 7 years old, I was sassing her and back-talking. She shook her index finger at me as she would often do when I pissed her off(although I suspect she also found me amusing too) and said, “Kid, if you don’t watch it, you’re going to be an iconoclast when you grow up.”

“What’s that?” I inquired.

She answered, “That’s someone who goes around knocking over other people’s sacred idols”.

“Cool!” I remember thinking to myself. “I want to be THAT!”

And so I am. Sometimes perhaps to my own social detriment, but as Mom also used to say, “Fuck ‘em if they can’t take a joke”.

For real.

Piece, peace, and we will love you forever, Sylvia

RJ
93/93 “Love under Will shall be the whole of the Law”