Dear Speed Seduction® Fans And Student
The other day I got an email from a very frustrated 43 year old guy.
You see, he had used my Speed Seduction® material to get a very hot 19 year old lady in a rather intimate position, but then encountered the dreaded, “last minute resistance”.
I’ll spare you the steamy details of his email, but essentially he had this flawless beauty one small article of clothing away from being in her birthday suit and got stopped at the last minute with the famous phrase, “This is happening too fast”.
Now, in his case, he choked. He simply couldn’t think of any response, backed off, and by the time he got back to trying again, she was out the door.
If you’ve ever had this happen to you, you know how screamingly frustrating and confusing this kind of thing can be, and also how common.
How He Blew It And What To Do Differently
The problem with this guy is that he made one of the two fatal choices in dealing with any kind of objection or resistance from women, whether sexual, emotional or any other kind: he gave up, which is as big a mistake as the other bad option: arguing or pushing.
(Have you ever tried arguing a woman into doing anything, much less going to bed with you? This works about as well as trying to put the milk back in the cow).
Here’s What He Should Have Done, And What You Should Do Too!
What this guy should have done is quite simple: rather than argue and push or give up, he should have:
1. Recognized her emotional need that she was trying to express: feeling safe and comfortable and not being pressured into something she might later regret.
2. Expressed his understanding and agreement with that need.
Now notice, I didn’t say he had to actually go along with the need. He just needs to demonstrate that he understands.
Here Are His Magic Words He Could Have Used To Skin Her Right Out Of Her Skivvies
In his case, the magic words would have been, “Of course I don’t want you to feel pressured. I hate feeling pressured too. Let’s just relax and see what we can both feel comfortable and enjoy.”
Then he should have backed off and resumed just a few minutes later, because this time when he did, she would have experienced her arousal for him in the context of also feeling safety.
And arousal + safety= hot women eagerly and willingly getting naked.
That sure beats a poke in the eye…doesn’t it?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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