Why In The World Are You Still “Dating” Women?


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Dear Speed Seduction ® Student,

Have a look at this video a fan sent me.  While this is an extreme example-the woman here is clearly a bitch from hell-it is not extreme in how it illustrates that “dating” is pretty much a HUGE waste of time for the guy who really wants success, satisfaction, and choice with the women he desires.

Look: whether a particular “date” goes well or not, the method overall sucks.

Essentially, it is a crap shoot.  I don’t care what all the dating tips, dating advice, or even the online dating sites try to tell you and sell you.  When you wade through the misinformation, brainwashing and very rare and occasional glimpses of truth, you are still relying on getting lucky.

Hey-if you were getting on an airplane flying from London to Los Angeles, and you asked the pilot, “How are you going to make sure we get to LA?” and his answer was “I dunno; maybe we’ll get lucky” would you not get the fuck off the plane?

I hope I don’t have to push the metaphor to help you get the picture any clearer.

You know, this post is kind of inspiring me to conduct a free video series; why dating sucks and why you should do everything in your power to avoid it.

What say you?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Of course the real key to success, power and satisfaction with  the women you really desire can be found right here with my newest and best program: Speed Seduction 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction Students,

 My smoking hot Swedish sweetheart, Pernilla, gets hit on all the time.  The stories she tells me about these lame attempts are pretty damn funny and sometimes just sad.

 But her experience yesterday illustrates a point I’ve brought up time and again about what does NOT work with women and what you should NEVER do!

Here is the story: as Pernilla  waited for the bus near her college, a guy in his thirties strolls up to her and says,  “I’ve got a song I want to sing for you.”

 He then proceeds to sing a love song, describing how wonderful she is.  (The funniest thing to Pernilla is that this guy emphasized the words by periodically beating on his chest, like a gorilla.)

 As she suppressed her laughter, she told me she also wondered if the guy was having any clue as to how badly he was doing with her.  

 He looked at her and said “I can tell my song really got to you! You’re thinking about it!”

 Well, yes. But not in the way he expected or imagined.

 Then this guy looks at her and says, “Where would you like to go on our first date?”

 Now, even after Pernilla point blank told him that she was not in any way interested, this chump insisted that she take his number.  (To quote Pernilla by the way, “American guys just will not take “no” for an answer. So I always just get their number and then I NEVER call them”.

 Isn’t it interesting that this guy tried two of the “B’s: bullshitting and begging, just to set up an opportunity to engage in another “B” that doesn’t work: buying!(What else do you think a “date” is?)

 Of course, I’m sure that you would never try anything quite so dumb or extreme. But don’t think that the constant societal brainwashing to act this way isn’t humming along somewhere in your mind. After all, this guy wasn’t born hard-wired to act or talk this way with Pernilla. It had to get into his mind and his behavior through a process of social programming. 

 Just a reminder of what NOT to do when it comes to women, and especially my lovely Pernilla.

 Peace and piece,

RJ

 P.S. If you really want to find out what works to bring complete success and satisfaction with the hottest women that you truly desire, check out my latest and best course: Speed Seduction 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Please read what I am about to write very carefully.

The response to our launch of Speedseductionfree.com was so great, that we crashed the servers the first hour!

Over 9,000 of you visited in the first 24 hours.

Now, I have received lots of feedback, both on the blog, and in email, telling me that you guys loved the 5 part Free Course.  Many of you are saying how the videos not only cleared up years of confusion around women, but also made Speed Seduction(R) easier to understand, and greatly enhanced your ability to use the tools in my paid courses.

What I would like to ask you to do, if you received benefit from the videos, is please help me spread the word.

Look: I need your help here.   So I’m asking for it.

Here is why: in today’s economy, if I am going to survive and thrive as your teacher, I need to offer MASSIVE proof to potential students and clients, before I even think of selling them anything.

If you think about it, it makes sense: it’s the only way any newbie wanting to learn this stuff can tell for sure that a teacher is worthwhile and a system is workable and true, in a sea of frauds, phonies, impersonations and counterfeits.

Here is how you do it in 3 easy steps:

1. Go back to the site again, and click on your favorite video.  It really doesn’t matter which one it is.

2. You’ll see several ways to share the video.  If you have a blog or website, feel free to grab the embed code and put it right up. Or you’ll see icons for every major social network and social bookmark site.   And you will even see a link that makes it easy for you to email friends the video’s URL.

3. Use the method of your choice to spread the word about the video of your choice.

It’s that simple. And as I see more traffic to the site, I will  reward you guys by continue to add fresh content, and even host monthly live  broadcast video seminars where I discuss a topic that YOU guys vote on and choose.

Listen: I believe in giving value to receive value. Nowadays, with a shrinking economy and a shattered trust in virtually every institution, trust and giving first is swiftly becoming the ONLY  “currency” that counts.

Help me spread the word about SS, and I’ll keep spreading the leg-spreading goodies with you, no charge.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If the videos have already convinced you and you are looking for my best course to buy, I recommend the latest and greatest: Speed Seduction 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the things I teach newbies who are looking for ways to meet women wherever they might be is this:  “90% of the time, the worst that will happen is nothing will happen”.

If a woman doesn’t happen to like your particular approach or opening, it is very rare indeed for her to get nasty, mean or offensive.

 Usually, in these cases, she just won’t respond.  She’ll simply ignore you or shrug and give very little by way of an answer.

 However, sometimes, on rare occasions, women can have what looks like rude reactions.

 I say “looks like” because rude implies it is about you and that she is intending to be hurtful.

 I have a rule I follow that enables me to meet women and turn around even the seemingly worst first responses that they have.

 Here it is:  I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It is almost always a function and reflection of what she is thinking, feeling and believing in that moment, and almost always subject to change.

So even if she does yell, call names, etc, I just view it as having nothing to do with me: after all, she doesn’t even know me.

 My first interpretation is that she is having a bad day, has some other problem in life, or she has just encountered a guy who tried out some “negging” from  Misery Method or the cocky/funny crap from  Double Your Masturbating!

 In which case, who could blame her for assuming men are clueless twits until they prove otherwise?

What are your choices if this occurs?

1.     Discharge it with humor.  “I’m sorry…could you repeat that? I was just thinking about my favorite verse from the Bible.”

 2.    Call her on it by speaking the truth of it:   “Hey….nothing I just said deserves that kind of answer. So      whomever you are angry at, it isn’t me. “

 Personally, I’m not of a mind to give the gift of my attention to someone who isn’t of a mind to receive it, so nowadays I just shrug and move on.

But do understand it is always your choice in how you respond, when you know the tools of Speed Seduction®.

Peace and piece,

RJ

 P.S.  Do you need a “bail out” when it comes to Booty Calls?  Do you lack lovely ladies in your life to provide that all important “Stimulus” for your  “package”?    Is your sex life in a  seemingly unending “recession?”  Time to claim your sexual prosperity with my Speed Seduction 3.0 course. 

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Fans And Students,

“This is where we hold on to them by the nose, and kick them in the ass”….

From all of the comments I’m getting here on the blog, it looks like all of you are as excited as I am about the big smackdown I am going to levy on the entire seduction community, tomorrow, Friday the 13th, at 12 Noon Pacific Time.

A few-just a very few-people have been given a sneak-peek at what I’ll be taking live in a little less than 24 hours from now.

Here is what one of them said:

“Oh man, now you did it!!!!

The goddamn genie is out of the bottle and there’s no putting it back.

If you get assassinated, can I have your lil’ black book and your work notes?”

Now, I don’t think it is going to go that far. And I’ve got a friend or two from Mr. Smith and Mr. Wesson, so I don’t worry about my safety too much.

Hell, if push comes to shove, I’ll just pick up Tabbatha and throw her at an attacker.

But I do think that the entire  “give me your email address and I’ll send you my free report/PDF/video” model that the whole seduction community relies upon will  sink like the Titanic after tomorrow.

(I happen to be on the mailing lists of nearly a dozen “competitors” and I NEVER read their emails anymore. I just give them all a never-opened yahoo mail account and then I get my free “whatever” which is usually pure crap in any case, or a “teaser” with a little bit of value and a whole lot of shit.  Does anyone out there still really give their primary email address to these clowns?)

One way you know you are in control of the marketplace is when every other player is forced to change their game to adapt to YOU and what YOU are doing.

But what can idiots who offer nothing of value, offer of true value, for free?

NOTHING.

So stay tuned here, because tomorrow, 12 Noon Pacific Time, is where we give out the link to get the most amazing, truly free, NO FUCKING EMAIL SIGN UP REQUIRED, seduction program in the world.

Hell, you don’t  even have to be one of MY students. Frankly, I hope this attracts people who up until now have NOT been my students, who think I am the biggest asshole loser in the world and that Speed Seduction(R) can’t possibly work.

Please, if you are one of those unwashed masses, tune in here tomorrow.

Because what I am about to unleash so clearly demonstrates my superior skills as a teacher of a clearly superior system, that even you  knuckleheads and misled children of “cocky/funny” will see the light and come to Sargy.

Ok. Gotta go calm down, meditate and enjoy the last few remaining hours before I let rip on the imitators, impersonators, peacockers and counterfeiters.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Get my latest and best seduction program right here, right now.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

This Friday, February 13th, at 12 Noon, PST, I am going to “thrown down” on the entire seduction community and declare open war on the fakes, liars, peacockers, Double Your Masturbaters, neggers and fools.

Since this past September, I’ve been experimenting with moving the free line, right here on this blog.

You have responded beautifully and proven to me, beyond any doubt, that you both respond to and REQUIRE massive free proof and value.

So this Friday, I am not just going to move the free line.

I am going to destroy it completely,

You are about to receive  a massive, truly free and complete version of my work and my teaching. Any person watching will be immediately convinced that anyone else out there pretending to teach seduction or pick-up is a liar, a fool, a piss-poor imitation or just a full-of-shit wanker who needs to go get a day-job or move back to mommy’s basement.

My friends, make no mistake: THIS IS MY DECLARATION OF WAR AGAINST ALL OF THEM.

Double Your Masturbating, I am coming for you. Misery Method, I am coming for you.  Mehahaha, I am coming for you.  Stick-up 101, Retarded Suckwad Dumb-nanas,  I am coming for you. Punks, peacockers, rip-off former students, I AM COMING FOR YOU.

I am about to offer such massive, free, unquestionable proof of my utter superiority as a teacher and of Speed Seduction(R) as a system, that I hope these turds will be out of business within 6 months.

Get ready because the announcement will be made here, Friday the 13th, at 12 Noon Pacific.

It will truly be an unlucky day for them. But a VERY luck day for you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Check out my latest, best program, Speed Seduction 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The other day on my blog I received the following post. My answers to this guy’s challenges could be crucial for your success with women, so read on to the end even though this is a long ezine.

Here is his post:

“Ok I have a bit of a problem here that’s similar to this I guess.

I met a woman online and we went out and there WAS chemistry. I could have kissed her many times but I didn’t have the balls to. We parted ways and that was that. Whatever we had ended there.

My problem is that for some reason whenever I see this woman negative feelings stir up inside of me. I feel like I’m not good enough anymore, that I’m a failure, a loser. Seeing her reminds me of how I failed, reminds me of how I was a chump around her. I also see how she’s changed and I’ve stayed the same. The feeling is hard to describe.

It’s something that’s holding me back and I have no idea what to do. Meditation and bringing myself into the moment works but whenever I bump into her again the negative feelings stir up. If anyone can help a brother out it would be really appreciated, I figure this is the only place I can turn to for solid advice.”

Ok. RJ here again.

The first problem this guy has is that he has the wrong orientation to understanding what happened.  He’s so focused on what he did wrong, or what he left out, that he is not paying attention to what he did right.

Let me make a point that is very important to your success with women: in an area of life that has been very frustrating and difficult…..

It Takes Training To Recognize Progress!

Of course it is important to see where you need to improve. It is equally important to see what you are doing correctly.

His second problem is even more serious: he views the “chemistry” between him and this woman to be an “event” that happened, rather than a result of a skill set which he can repeat over and over again, whenever he wishes.

Listen: we don’t obsess over losing that which we can easily recreate. We only obsess over losing that which is rare(or perceived as being so).

So his real problem is he is relying on “luck” rather than ability.

Luck, by definition is rare and undependable. Skill is repeatable and with you as long as you choose to invest in it.

Hope this makes sense and that this guy reads this answer and gets it.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Want the skills to meet women anytime, anywhere, and use your language and vibe to get them interested, attracted, aroused and ready, with NO guess work ever? Check out my new 3.0 Course: my first complete new Home Study Course in 12 years.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Man, am I EVER moving the free line!

In this new video series, I get into the tools of Speed Seduction(R). Learn step by step how language patterns work.

Of course, as always, I invite you to check out my best and latest program, Speed Seduction 3.0.

Please pass the video around and leave your comments below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Also, check out my Coaching Program.  You can get me as your master seduction teacher, coach and guide for $1 right here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

The other day, someone on my member’s only Yahoo group posted something quite interesting.

He had met a woman on-line and they had gone out on a “date”(Something I usually warn against: remember with Speed Seduction®, dating is for women you are already sleeping with! So much for “dating tips” and “dating advice”!)

Anyway, shortly into their evening, she looked at him and said, “I think we are only good for friends. I don’t think there is any chemistry.”

He just ignored that comment, and went right on with his sarging her.

Not long after that, she brought up the “friends” thing again.

Rather than be upset by it, he was following one of my key rules:  “I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It’s almost always a response to what she is thinking, feeling or believing in THAT moment, and almost always subject to change”.

So he said to her, “You are right. There’s obviously no chemistry here. So let’s just be friends.  Better yet, let’s be each other’s “wingman” and go see what else is out there!”

So off they go to a bar and start looking over the crowd, imagining introducing each other to different people.

Now, wouldn’t you know it, but by changing the context, and playing a game that excited her imagination, guess what happened?

She looks at him with lust in her eye, pulls him into her and LOCKS A BIG ONE ON HIM!

What is the lesson here?

Rather than fighting a woman’s first response, let her have it. In fact, agree with it, and use it to power both of you into a better direction by changing the setting, the context, and playfully engaging her imagination.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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