Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You’ve heard me say that “online dating” is for the birds.  Speed Seduction® is NOT designed to help you get laid from a personals ad.

At the same time, you also hear me say often that one of the real geniuses of Speed Seduction® is that it doesn’t just give you a bunch of pickup lines; rather, it gives you the tools and the skill mastery to apply the teachings to YOUR situation with ANY woman.

Listen to this student tell you, in his own words, about his success making the “online thing” work for him:

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Hello Ross, I wanted to give your ideas of seduction the toughest challenge possible; bitter men-hating women on dating websites. As a result of using only information from your free products on your site and using only words on MSN, I have given women the most powerful orgasms of their lives.

I have had teenage women squirt and older women send me videos of them masturbating. I have had women fall in love with me simply using your ideas of language. I have had women send me pictures that would make your granny faint. [Well, maybe not YOUR granny!]  I tell them that they need to talk to just me for 20 minutes and the rest is history. Some have such powerful orgasms that they delete me and log of their sites because they’ve never come so hard and they freak.

One young woman ordered me to drive over to her house and sleep with her.

And all of this by using the theories you outline in your free products. I should also point out, that unlike many online PUAS suggest, my profile has a crappy little picture and hardly any information.

This, perhaps, is not how you intended Speed Seduction® to be used, but I am highlighting how your theories can be used and expanded.

No top hats, no vanishing coins and no pictures of me with tons of women, just words and ideas from your free products.  Thank you.

Lee Masters
Birmingham, West Midlands, UK

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RJ again.  First of all, good on Lee!  Lee, I am SO proud of you for claiming YOUR choice and achieving success with women you truly desire.

You’re not the first student who, despite what I teach, have met and had sex with women from the “dating sites.”  It’s all in HOW you apply the skills.

Again, take note of what Lee has said, in his own words, about how this has improved his life.

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Mastering the skills for approaching and seducing the women you truly desire can be achieved with the right tools and knowledge on your side and in your corner.

But with all the BS social programming going on via the dreck spewed out by the “romance industry,” small wonder many smart men who otherwise have the whole world by the balls, are going through life doubled over in constant, searing, skewering emotional (and even physical) pain from chronic blue balls.

There’s a different bullshit idea for every day of the week and it can be downright confusing.

It’s possible you’ve studied PUAs who tell you to go to the club wearing a top hat, make-up, and 5 inch heels and acting like a clown to meet women.

Maybe you’ve bought into “just be yourself and be a friend” B.S.

Could be you’re screwing around randomly typing “37/m/downtown looking for a nice lady for naughty times” in chat rooms, dangling bait from your rod hoping an actual woman nibbles on your worm.

And as a result, the very notion of getting laid, meeting lots of hot women, or finding your life partner (whatever your goal is) seems like a heavy solid oak door, dead-bolted shut, and through the steel-barred window, on the other side you see your success vision sneering, laughing, and pointing while jingling the keys.

If only you could unlock that door.

Well, in just 3 weeks from today, get me fast, get me good, and get me LIVE at our 3-Day Speed Seduction® Seminar in Montreal.

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Will I see you in the front row in Montreal?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At our recent 3-day seminar in Copenhagen, one of my students gave me a print out of a online dating profile and asked me to help him find her “trance words” and otherwise dissect the profile.

Click Play and watch how I dissected it:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I do my best work as a teacher when I respond directly to a student’s question or need for assistance in mastering his girl-getting game.  The above video is one of MANY examples where I do this within my 3-day seminars.  We also do demos and exercises.  And we’re doing it all in Montreal, coming up REAL soon.  Click here to grab your seat right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I’ve seen “online dating” evolve from being what guys didn’t admit to using to meet that latest “hot babe,” to being so common that you can barely watch a half hour of TV without seeing a commercial for one of the major online-dating websites.

I know a number of guys who have had success Sarging online. A few told me how they applied my girl-getting techniques to the online scene and used them to screen out the time-wasters, pic-collectors, and c#%k-teasers and score with the “prime hotties” on the “dating sites.” I’ve said before, good on them for making it work and I wish them continued success.

More common, however, is what I received two days ago from one of my students who has, up until now, insisted that the chatroom is just as good as the coffee shop, bookstore, grocery store, pottery class, running club, rock star’s fan club meetings, local networking group, or favourite club for meeting hot women:

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You know Ross, I’ve had some success finding women online, meeting them in person. I’ve gotten laid a couple times and even dated a few. Good times. More often, though, chicks on the dating sites talk a big game about being ready to “go for it” until it comes time to take things to a higher level.

Right at the point where things are ready to progress from a little fun online chat to “things actually happening” is where many women online suddenly change. They’ll make up bulls#%t excuses. They’ll suddenly change from lively chats that could go on all night if I would have let them, to all they say in the chat window is “hi” “ok” “cool” and “bye” without any smiley faces or “lol” or “roflmao” like before. They’ll disappear without a trace. In about 1 out of 5 cases, they suddenly pick some stupid fight, blame it on me, and call me an a$@hole from behind their keyboard.

Even after we meet in person, most of the time it doesn’t take long before they retreat back behind their computer or texting on their Crackberry or i(Don’t-Actually-Talk-On-The)Phone.

Frankly, I’d rather occasionally have some stuck-up chick shoot me down in public while her gal-pals laugh at me than deal with online nonsense anymore. I’ve canceled my online dating profiles and deleted everyone off my IM buddy list who isn’t an actual “real life” friend. For a couple days it was weird with my IM being silent and no “she just winked at you” notifications, but I don’t miss it now. I’m done with work for the day and now I’m off to my regular club to see who’s hanging out tonight.

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I’ve been working closely with this student for two years now. He was playing the online game smart, using it as a means to get her quickly to the next phase (the phone, then an in-person meet). He wasn’t using the internet as a crutch or excuse to avoid taking bold in-person seduction moves himself.

Remember: the anonymity of the internet allows people to pretend without having to face the music.

Plus, you don’t know who she really is, no matter how good she is at typing “just the right things” in the “naughty box.” All those “pics” she sends you that show you how cute and yummy she looks… how do you know they’re really HER? And if they are her, how do you know they aren’t 10 years old, from before she went to hell in a handbasket?

In this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it’s hard to get out of the office enough to Sarge, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It’s tempting and easy – I appreciate this.

But look: save the online chat stuff for women you’ve already been sleeping with for a while, as a way of keeping them tittilated when they’re home alone waiting for you to get back from that 3-day seminar you’re away at and show them even more hot, steaming adventure in person.

All around you, OFFLINE, the women are waiting – what, my friend, are you waiting FOR?

Peace, peace, and here’s LOOKING at her IN PERSON,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In this digital, instant-messaging age, more and more Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters as well as dating relationships begin with online chat on a dating site. Personally, I don’t think that’s very effective, because you can’t use many of the in-person techniques for approaching women.

But a lot of my students are trying their hand at Speed Seduction® using Match.com, Plentyoffish, e-Harmony, Singlesnet, Chemistry.com, or Friend Finder. A student of mine who is working on his “online Sarge” wrote to me the other day:

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Hey Ross! One thing I’ve learned is that I am not very good at seducing women online, at least with someone I have not already met in person. I’m having a hard time making the patterns work well with the woman when it’s typed words rather than face-to-face. For one thing, it is hard, maybe impossible, to be sure they link it to you. For another, you can’t watch them, and see how they are taking what you are saying. You can’t really calibrate.

Personally, I try to use online sarging only as a means of getting a face to face meeting set up. However, I’m sure many of you out there are expert internet sargers. Any tips on how I can improve my internet sarging, especially with women I either haven’t met, or only had time to swap e-mail addresses?

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You’re right when you say that it’s hard, maybe even impossible, to make sure she links the words you type back to you, and not to the images in her mind, which for all you know have nothing to do with you despite all the “oooo” and “aaahhh” and “you’ve got me so wet, babe” she’s typing back to you in that chat window.

The one possible advantage I see to chatting online is that sometimes you can get her to open up more, since she might be less nervous than if you had just approached her in person because she perceives less “risk.”

That said, here’s the deal: If you haven’t spent time talking to her face to face, use (limited) time online to do information gathering. One of the key principles of Speed Seduction® is how to use the information she gives you to reframe her to get her soaking wet hot-and-bothered … and to then associate those erotic feelings with YOU so YOU are the one she attacks like a wild woman on the kitchen floor when you meet in person.

Good luck, peace, and piece!

- RJ

P.S. Listen: when I first started teaching Speed Seduction® almost 20 years ago (back in the days of Usenet) I had no idea how far this would all go, and how much a part of our culture the internet would become for making erotic connections.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video from our May 8th consult, Bob reports that he is not doing the “put-on/humorous” approaches I assigned him to do.

He’s showing a typical pattern; which is falling back on what he feels familiar with, what he calls “being sincere”.

I’m going to push him here to go a bit outside of his comfort zone; Bob has a great sense of humor and he may as well use it in a structured, and challenging way, and follow up with being sincere, rather than starting out with being sincere.

I also want Bob to get the idea of screening women-he ought to become comfortable in having a set of standards for women and being willing to walk away if they don’t respond well to humor.

More BCB videos over the next few days. Comments below, please.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. As you powerfully realize how much you want  to learn some of these great walk-up/approach women tools, how excited will you be as you check out my Gold Walk Up DVD?

Dear Speed Seduction(R) and Basket-Case Bob Fans,

I just finished my next consulting session with BCB!

Man, has he ever made some great improvements!

I’m processing the video now, and will have fresh segments up Friday, Saturday and Sunday.

So do be sure to tune in to watch, because Bob is on the true path to pink abundance!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. I just posted a new video on the MindFrame Persuasion(R) blog detailing the 5 smoking-hot, SICK free bonuses I’ll be giving away to the first 30 people who enroll when we open up registration on Monday, May 11, at 12 Noon pacific time.  (Check out bonus #5 for Christ’s sakes!)

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Today is the second year anniversary of my beloved mother, Sylvia’s, passing.

Reflecting on her life, I can only repeat what I’ve said many times: her influence on me is what made it possible for me to be the teacher(and learner) that I am today.

My mother modeled for me the notion that if you didn’t have the answer to a problem, you should go find it.

Don’t pretend you know if you don’t. Admit it, and then go find out. And if there isn’t any answer, go be the one to create it, and prove it.

Mom also taught me in stories and metaphors. Rather than saying directly, “don’t get too sure of yourself” she would say, “Watch out for your Achilles heel”. She would then go on to explain the story of how Achilles’ mother dipped him in the river Styx to make him invulnerable to harm, but of course since she held him upside down by the feet, that spot was left vulnerable.

Now, if you’ve ever wondered why I seem so determined to stick my finger in the eye of traditional thinking, and even the less traditional world of the PUA community, I can give you another story about my Mom.

One day, when I was around 7 years old, I was sassing her and back-talking. She shook her index finger at me as she would often do when I pissed her off(although I suspect she also found me amusing too) and said, “Kid, if you don’t watch it, you’re going to be an iconoclast when you grow up.”

“What’s that?” I inquired.

She answered, “That’s someone who goes around knocking over other people’s sacred idols”.

“Cool!” I remember thinking to myself. “I want to be THAT!”

And so I am. Sometimes perhaps to my own social detriment, but as Mom also used to say, “Fuck ‘em if they can’t take a joke”.

For real.

Piece, peace, and we will love you forever, Sylvia

RJ
93/93 “Love under Will shall be the whole of the Law”

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video of my first session with Bob, he tells his story of how he is deeply stuck.

He can “open” women in lots of situations, but he virtually never gets to see them again.

As you can see, he is experiencing a lot of confusion.

I know you’ll find this informative on many levels.

Let me know what you think.

Tomorrow and Wednesday, I’ll post video of a critique I gave Bob of a recent sarge he did.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

As you may know, I’ve chosen to help two seduction “basket cases” who have been really stuck with women.

Bob, who is in his early thirties, has not been with a woman in 5 years. Jesse, who is in his late 40’s, has not had sex in 20 years.

I’ve decided to work with both of them for free, in exchange for keeping this log of their progress.

This video is a recording of my private thoughts the day before my first private session with Bob.

In it, I discuss getting through the concept of Bob and Jesse creating “spaciousness” in their consciousness from which they can make new and better choices….and watch old patterns emerge without getting sucked back into them.

Please give me your comments below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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