Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You’ve heard me say that “online dating” is for the birds.  Speed Seduction® is NOT designed to help you get laid from a personals ad.

At the same time, you also hear me say often that one of the real geniuses of Speed Seduction® is that it doesn’t just give you a bunch of pickup lines; rather, it gives you the tools and the skill mastery to apply the teachings to YOUR situation with ANY woman.

Listen to this student tell you, in his own words, about his success making the “online thing” work for him:

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Hello Ross, I wanted to give your ideas of seduction the toughest challenge possible; bitter men-hating women on dating websites. As a result of using only information from your free products on your site and using only words on MSN, I have given women the most powerful orgasms of their lives.

I have had teenage women squirt and older women send me videos of them masturbating. I have had women fall in love with me simply using your ideas of language. I have had women send me pictures that would make your granny faint. [Well, maybe not YOUR granny!]  I tell them that they need to talk to just me for 20 minutes and the rest is history. Some have such powerful orgasms that they delete me and log of their sites because they’ve never come so hard and they freak.

One young woman ordered me to drive over to her house and sleep with her.

And all of this by using the theories you outline in your free products. I should also point out, that unlike many online PUAS suggest, my profile has a crappy little picture and hardly any information.

This, perhaps, is not how you intended Speed Seduction® to be used, but I am highlighting how your theories can be used and expanded.

No top hats, no vanishing coins and no pictures of me with tons of women, just words and ideas from your free products.  Thank you.

Lee Masters
Birmingham, West Midlands, UK

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RJ again.  First of all, good on Lee!  Lee, I am SO proud of you for claiming YOUR choice and achieving success with women you truly desire.

You’re not the first student who, despite what I teach, have met and had sex with women from the “dating sites.”  It’s all in HOW you apply the skills.

Again, take note of what Lee has said, in his own words, about how this has improved his life.

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At our recent 3-day seminar in Copenhagen, one of my students gave me a print out of a online dating profile and asked me to help him find her “trance words” and otherwise dissect the profile.

Click Play and watch how I dissected it:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I do my best work as a teacher when I respond directly to a student’s question or need for assistance in mastering his girl-getting game.  The above video is one of MANY examples where I do this within my 3-day seminars.  We also do demos and exercises.  And we’re doing it all in Montreal, coming up REAL soon.  Click here to grab your seat right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s nothing I love more than a successful and wildly happy student relating his horny-tale of seduction suck-cess!

Today, I want to share one of my favorite student e-mails of all time. Here is his email, word for word. Yes, it is a long one, but I wanted to give it to you unedited.

Here it is:

Dear Almighty Guru Ross,

Thanks dude!

I still consider myself a very beginner student of yours… I wanted to study your 3.0 course before we chat because I know it works but I need to get better… I need SS to flow like a river… like a smooth seductive sauve rapper! I know I need to MAKE IT MY OWN. Keep it true and honest and really truly care about the woman and the states she floats between…. I may be a beginner, but I have studied mystery and others for years… yet this makes sense… common sense… it is more natural to my poetic style as a person… and damn it Ross-it works like a charm…

Every day I game…. It’s the only way to test this shit out on REAL women in REAL time. I go out. That’s what I do….. I get better… But I have a long WAYYYYY I know….

BUT I USED YOUR STUFF ON THIS SEXY 9HB INTERNATIONAL RUNWAY MODEL and had her so horny I could read it in her eyes like a neon sign, so I just leaned in for the kiss. Security is getting to know me a little too well in that parking structure. There was a camera RIGHT above the car but WE DIDN’T CARE it was tooooo smoking hot! Her nipples were cute, lil’ pink erect nipples gone wild…..  I guess thanks to you it’s time to put aside the girl’s gone nuts porn… time for these experiences to happen in realtime! Fuck yeah! I paid my dues to total unappreciative bitches that cleaned me out… NOW I have all the control back in the driver’s seat and I deserve to live life to the fullest. Look out rock stars…. I can speak in verse just as well….

So the next day after that 20 year old hot model I was really feeling like I wanted MORE of this same hot model….  SHIT! I’m JUST A BEGINNER OF YOURS! I didn’t know exactly about DAY 2 game! I remember you say to live the life-don’t let the woman down by slipping back into chump-keep running patterns-make up my own…. I began freaking out like what to do next. This is where I could have slipped into AFC mode but I got out my reading stuff of DAY 2 Game…..

Understand-this is my life now. I must improve myself at this point in my life. I game every day and have cut my work back to freelance so I could work on myself fulltime to be the best I can be. I had terrible one-itis for 2 years with a bitch who ran me ragged… I feel ashamed at the wanton nice guy supplication! I know this is the best revenge! 3.0 landed me a life-changing delicious spicy muffin, a gorgeous sexy and fun woman. AND what fucking guy doesn’t want to open his eyes and see a HOT model writhing in passion and craving, begging another passionate kiss right before his eyes? I THOUGHT I WAS DREAMING… and then I thought with a big smile… FUCK YOU ROSS YOU SON-OF-A-BITCH-YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD-ON RIGHT ABOUT SS and now 3.0!!!!!!!!!! I smiled… then I went back to smoochin’! I ain’t a fool…….!!! hahaha

I re-read your seminar transcripts and then I called her back… In my head I’m trying to overcome the altered state of being enamored with her… I repeated some words back…. waffle and hickey’s (don’t ask…haha) to try to bring her back to that state….. but she sounds a little down-key… Where is that energy she had at? Did I blow it?

I was tossing and turning all night trying not to think of her which made my CONFIDENCE go down and think I wouldn’t hear from her again… I got really depressed about it! I guess I’m used to women flaking….

I did the patterns…. I did the anchor to HER fucking words and repeated back… I gave her a .49 cent crystal to hold to remember me…. (I buy them in bulk haha! I have secret techniques too!) AND we had a sexual and emotional connection THE FIRST 3 HOURS OF MEETING HER and running patterns….. at least the ones I could remember under pressure…. and an erection the size of Florida.

I was thinking: what was Mystery talking about this taking 7 hours and hopping clubs…

WELL ROSS! GUESS WHAT BOSS THE ROSS!!!!!! She texted me today and we are going to spend THANKSGIVING together…. THE WHOLE DAY…. Let’s do the math: She’s 20, horny and wetter than a warm summer rain from the patterns I constantly make up and run 24/7…. I got us a THANKSGIVING hotel room…. you said young girls are all about the sex….hehe Ross…. Go ahead boss… Do The FUCKING Math… SS Student+Patterns+Hotel room+Young Hot Model==Equals: ….. Er… Um… I won’t be checking email until I check out….hahahahahah!!!!

Like you say, it’s not an hour a day. It’s 24 hours a day. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE CHANGE that once you get in you’ll never go back to “chump” again. You can’t! It’s like learning to ride a bike-you will never forget this. You can use it with women or work or like I did on a suicidal friend of mine. Got him to break bad trrance and go into good. It’s THAT simple. Thanks for being my teacher. (By the way-You are right-Tony Robbins is a tad too gung-ho!)

THANKS ROSS! I am moved to tears that somebody finally showed me the right fucking way…… This is my whole life… fighting back after a lifetime of boring dull marriage and NO women experience… to become the man every woman wants to get to know….. and they can’t figure out why they have so much fun with me…! (it’s running patterns to keep their mind open to the possibilities…

THANKS FOR MY THANKSGIVING PRESENT! (gobble gobble…!)

I’ll be sure to stuff the bird real good for ya……….

Ok, RJ back again. Pretty good stuff, huh?

So what is your story and why aren’t you enjoying this Thanksgiving with some moist, pink relief?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. My Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course is just what you need to stuff some pink stocking for the Holidays.  Get your copy now and get cracking with puss-packing.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Today, the movie Going The Distance opens in theaters.

For those who haven’t heard, it’s a “romantic comedy” (yet another attempt by the romance industry to turn smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps or AFCs) about a man and a woman who meet, have a “summer fling” and then travel back and forth between San Francisco and New York City to see one another.

I am not telling you to NOT see the movie.  If you do, try to have compassion for the male character, Garrett, who according to the IMDb.com description of the movie “…has always had a problem with commitment and understanding what women want… he learns the hard way that he cannot speak the female language…” (FYI, I’m in Los Angeles.  Garrett, write to me, let’s do some private coaching.)

Second, I am not telling you to NOT ever engage in a long-distance relationship. I AM going to caution you about some of the realities associated with long term relationships.

Why “Going The Distance” Might Get You Further Away
From Suck-Sess With Women, Near And Far

Long distance relationships sometimes work.  Here’s something to keep in mind, if you are thinking about placing yourself in one.

You’ll be doing a LOT of communicating by email, phone, and IM.  Now, it’s one thing IF you have already been f@@king like weasels BEFORE “long distance” and “relationship” become part of the same statement (like, if one of you gets a job in a new city, the other can’t move because of THEIR work, but you together decide to try to make it work).

But if you declare yourself “in a relationship” with some stranger (and yes, she is a stranger) you met on the internet PRIOR to f@@king, you run the danger of her merely enjoying the fantasy attention.  I see WAY too much of this happening anymore.  One of two things will happen.

1. When you guys “take the plunge” and decide to meet in person, you might get an email from her the day before your flight where it becomes clear to you that all that “ooooohh” and “aaahhhh” and “I waaaaannnttt yyyooouuuu” she was typing in the “naughty box” was just her acting out a fantasy.
2. She’ll find a man locally who can please her, and she’ll hit the power-off button on you, since at that point you’re just “words on a screen.”

Remember: you never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first SERIOUS physical pass, so I don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER we’ve “gone the distance” in the sack.

And one question for you: if you are in a long-distance relationship, is it really a relationship, or a crutch so you don’t have to risk “going the distance” with the wonderful, willing women who are HERE, NOW?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If I were on the writing team for Going The Distance, I’d add a scene where Garrett goes to my website and orders Speed Seduction® 3.0.  It would make for a pretty short movie, though, as he wouldn’t have had to work nearly as hard to claim the success with women he deserves.   Ready to “go the distance” with your girl getting game?  Click here to learn how

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I’ve seen “online dating” evolve from being what guys didn’t admit to using to meet that latest “hot babe,” to being so common that you can barely watch a half hour of TV without seeing a commercial for one of the major online-dating websites.

I know a number of guys who have had success Sarging online. A few told me how they applied my girl-getting techniques to the online scene and used them to screen out the time-wasters, pic-collectors, and c#%k-teasers and score with the “prime hotties” on the “dating sites.” I’ve said before, good on them for making it work and I wish them continued success.

More common, however, is what I received two days ago from one of my students who has, up until now, insisted that the chatroom is just as good as the coffee shop, bookstore, grocery store, pottery class, running club, rock star’s fan club meetings, local networking group, or favourite club for meeting hot women:

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You know Ross, I’ve had some success finding women online, meeting them in person. I’ve gotten laid a couple times and even dated a few. Good times. More often, though, chicks on the dating sites talk a big game about being ready to “go for it” until it comes time to take things to a higher level.

Right at the point where things are ready to progress from a little fun online chat to “things actually happening” is where many women online suddenly change. They’ll make up bulls#%t excuses. They’ll suddenly change from lively chats that could go on all night if I would have let them, to all they say in the chat window is “hi” “ok” “cool” and “bye” without any smiley faces or “lol” or “roflmao” like before. They’ll disappear without a trace. In about 1 out of 5 cases, they suddenly pick some stupid fight, blame it on me, and call me an a$@hole from behind their keyboard.

Even after we meet in person, most of the time it doesn’t take long before they retreat back behind their computer or texting on their Crackberry or i(Don’t-Actually-Talk-On-The)Phone.

Frankly, I’d rather occasionally have some stuck-up chick shoot me down in public while her gal-pals laugh at me than deal with online nonsense anymore. I’ve canceled my online dating profiles and deleted everyone off my IM buddy list who isn’t an actual “real life” friend. For a couple days it was weird with my IM being silent and no “she just winked at you” notifications, but I don’t miss it now. I’m done with work for the day and now I’m off to my regular club to see who’s hanging out tonight.

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I’ve been working closely with this student for two years now. He was playing the online game smart, using it as a means to get her quickly to the next phase (the phone, then an in-person meet). He wasn’t using the internet as a crutch or excuse to avoid taking bold in-person seduction moves himself.

Remember: the anonymity of the internet allows people to pretend without having to face the music.

Plus, you don’t know who she really is, no matter how good she is at typing “just the right things” in the “naughty box.” All those “pics” she sends you that show you how cute and yummy she looks… how do you know they’re really HER? And if they are her, how do you know they aren’t 10 years old, from before she went to hell in a handbasket?

In this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it’s hard to get out of the office enough to Sarge, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It’s tempting and easy – I appreciate this.

But look: save the online chat stuff for women you’ve already been sleeping with for a while, as a way of keeping them tittilated when they’re home alone waiting for you to get back from that 3-day seminar you’re away at and show them even more hot, steaming adventure in person.

All around you, OFFLINE, the women are waiting – what, my friend, are you waiting FOR?

Peace, peace, and here’s LOOKING at her IN PERSON,

RJ

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Claim yours, and your freedom from your keyboard now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In this digital, instant-messaging age, more and more Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters as well as dating relationships begin with online chat on a dating site. Personally, I don’t think that’s very effective, because you can’t use many of the in-person techniques for approaching women.

But a lot of my students are trying their hand at Speed Seduction® using Match.com, Plentyoffish, e-Harmony, Singlesnet, Chemistry.com, or Friend Finder. A student of mine who is working on his “online Sarge” wrote to me the other day:

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Hey Ross! One thing I’ve learned is that I am not very good at seducing women online, at least with someone I have not already met in person. I’m having a hard time making the patterns work well with the woman when it’s typed words rather than face-to-face. For one thing, it is hard, maybe impossible, to be sure they link it to you. For another, you can’t watch them, and see how they are taking what you are saying. You can’t really calibrate.

Personally, I try to use online sarging only as a means of getting a face to face meeting set up. However, I’m sure many of you out there are expert internet sargers. Any tips on how I can improve my internet sarging, especially with women I either haven’t met, or only had time to swap e-mail addresses?

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You’re right when you say that it’s hard, maybe even impossible, to make sure she links the words you type back to you, and not to the images in her mind, which for all you know have nothing to do with you despite all the “oooo” and “aaahhh” and “you’ve got me so wet, babe” she’s typing back to you in that chat window.

The one possible advantage I see to chatting online is that sometimes you can get her to open up more, since she might be less nervous than if you had just approached her in person because she perceives less “risk.”

That said, here’s the deal: If you haven’t spent time talking to her face to face, use (limited) time online to do information gathering. One of the key principles of Speed Seduction® is how to use the information she gives you to reframe her to get her soaking wet hot-and-bothered … and to then associate those erotic feelings with YOU so YOU are the one she attacks like a wild woman on the kitchen floor when you meet in person.

Good luck, peace, and piece!

- RJ

P.S. Listen: when I first started teaching Speed Seduction® almost 20 years ago (back in the days of Usenet) I had no idea how far this would all go, and how much a part of our culture the internet would become for making erotic connections.

No matter what, though, the principles for scoring with women haven’t changed. And since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, wherever you meet them…then check out Speed Seduction® 3.0. Get yours today:

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

The other day, someone on my member’s only Yahoo group posted something quite interesting.

He had met a woman on-line and they had gone out on a “date”(Something I usually warn against: remember with Speed Seduction®, dating is for women you are already sleeping with! So much for “dating tips” and “dating advice”!)

Anyway, shortly into their evening, she looked at him and said, “I think we are only good for friends. I don’t think there is any chemistry.”

He just ignored that comment, and went right on with his sarging her.

Not long after that, she brought up the “friends” thing again.

Rather than be upset by it, he was following one of my key rules:  “I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It’s almost always a response to what she is thinking, feeling or believing in THAT moment, and almost always subject to change”.

So he said to her, “You are right. There’s obviously no chemistry here. So let’s just be friends.  Better yet, let’s be each other’s “wingman” and go see what else is out there!”

So off they go to a bar and start looking over the crowd, imagining introducing each other to different people.

Now, wouldn’t you know it, but by changing the context, and playing a game that excited her imagination, guess what happened?

She looks at him with lust in her eye, pulls him into her and LOCKS A BIG ONE ON HIM!

What is the lesson here?

Rather than fighting a woman’s first response, let her have it. In fact, agree with it, and use it to power both of you into a better direction by changing the setting, the context, and playfully engaging her imagination.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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