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How Morton’s Toe Beats The Most Clever Opening Line

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 18th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I’m taking a quick gander through my Lovely Mail Bag here and there are two e-mails from students here.  When I put them together, I think they sort of solve each other.   Let’s give this a try.

The first is from someone who seems to be having a little problem with his walk-ups:

“When I go up to her, no matter what I do to make the situation fun, it still feels like I am a stranger who has moved into her space to hit on her.   She knows what I am there for, no matter how ‘innocent’ or ‘just friendly’ I might be trying to be.  So she’s on her guard and sometimes it freaks ME out and I stumble.”

Not a minute later I read a Sarge report that had this interesting snippet in it:

“I opened the gal with an observation that her 2nd toe was bigger than her big toe. Since she is an HB 9.5, she was floored. She told me later that she just couldn’t get over that. She’s used to guys telling her how beautiful she is. I’ve NEVER told her that. And she’s one of the gals that I hang out ‘with benefits’ to this day.”

This makes me wonder…

How Did Morton’s Toe Beat Out Playful And Innocent? 

It’s like this:  Making an observation about her toe was an interesting opener because it combines more than one “energy” or attitude. It combines a matter of fact observation, that is true, along with something of a put-on, on your part. Her toes being uneven isn’t REALLY what is most noticeable about her, I’m sure, so you were kind of putting your tongue in your cheek, though I’m sure it wasn’t visibly done so!

The best “openers” tend to combine these positions or energies.

Here’s one I like to use:

“I don’t get it.”

I’ll say this to a woman who has an unusual design or logo on her shirt. It’s a put-on in that I am pretending to be puzzled. It’s also a comment/question about something going on with her. And also, by not saying “excuse me” or anything like that, it is a put-on in that I am addressing her like I already know her: “I don’t get it” is something her boyfriend or roomate or friend would say if she came into the room wearing something like that, as opposed to what a stranger would say, which would be more like,


“What’s your shirt mean?”

See the difference?  She will (subconsciously).  And things will go a LOT different.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Overcoming Shyness: A Lesson From A Chick

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 14th, 2010
 Overcoming Shyness: A Lesson From A Chick

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In past articles on this blog, I’ve delved into how to handle things when a woman you approach figures out you’re using Speed Seduction® patterns on her.

ca 90911846 180 Overcoming Shyness: A Lesson From A ChickWell, wouldn’t you know… women are using my techniques too!

Here’s an example of how some chicks get this stuff naturally, particularly when it comes to overcoming shyness:

Last week, I was at one of my favourite local hangouts, chatting up a group of women I know from seeing them around the neighborhood.

Anyway, one of them was regaling me of tales of her sexual adventures. This story was about being at a club with some of her girlfriends, when she spotted, “The most handsome man I have ever seen.”

She told me she approached him as follows. Not feeling inspired by any “famous first words,” she overcame her uncertainty by taking a bold step forward. She walked up to him and said,

“I just wanted to tell you….I think you are…the most handsome man in this place and…I just wanted to say “hi”.

She did it brilliantly. Even used the pauses NATURALLY. She did the fake shyness bit quite well too, looking down and away at times and then right in his eyes (she recreated the whole thing for me, as if she were reliving it!)

What do we take away from this?

  1. We CAN learn from the chicks in our lives!
  2. If WOMEN are using this stuff, then why shouldn’t YOU?

Alright… that’s the lesson of the day. The most beautiful woman you have ever seen is out there, waiting for you. What are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Why What You Say First To Meet Her DOESN’T Matter!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 4th, 2010
 Why What You Say First To Meet Her DOESNT Matter!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Today, I am pretty tired.

ca 37702012 180 Why What You Say First To Meet Her DOESNT Matter!I’m not only tired but I look pretty unkempt: haven’t shaved, combed my hair, and am wearing sweats and sandals.

You know what that means, dontcha?

Perfect time to pick up women!

So, I’m in the Walgreen’s, and I had an opportunity to demonstrate to myself a great pick-up principle that I regularly teach.

What is that principle?

Simply this: no matter what you say, at first, to meet a woman, you can still use it to get her open and willing to talk to you and meet you, even if what you say comes off as cheesy, stupid and dumb.

Case in point: at the Walgreen’s, I’m in line, and this lovely lady who looked like a ballet dancer or yoga teacher gets in line next to me. I say to her, “Do you do yoga?”

She very neutrally says, “no”.

“Dance?” I ask.

“No”, she says.

I look at her and say, “Ok, I’m returning that “How To Pick Up Girls in Line At Walgreen’s” book because it isn’t working.”

She laughs at that point, so I say, “Now, I’m glad you laughed because I wanted to check out your sense of humor before I introduced myself. I’m Ross”.

She says, “I have a boyfriend.”

My reply?

“No offense, but just because I’m talking to a girl doesn’t necessarily mean I want to date her, but I admire your confidence.”

She laughs again, “Seriously” she says. “I really am in love with him but you are the most confident and original guy I’ve met in a long time. I really hope you find someone amazing to match you.”

How do you like that?
SHE was Speed Seducing me!

Now, I did not get a number or another meeting with this girl, but that isn’t my point.

The point is, what I originally used to try to meet her FELL FLAT AS A STONE.

That didn’t stop me.

I simply used it and used her responses to poke fun at myself, relieve the tension, and get her much more open to talking.

Also notice that when she said, “I have a boyfriend” I turned it around on her and played with HER assumption that I was ready to go out with her.

This is all an illustration of one of my key principles: whatever response she gives you is the right response, if you know what to do with it and can keep your state calm and steady.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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