Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As the latest building block in the “Wall Of Proof” I’ve mentioned to my Facebook followers that I’m building, containing REAL results that REAL students like you get when applying my teachings to claim ultimate success with the women you truly desire, please read the following:

OK, so I tried just a few things I read on your website with a coworker just to see what would happen.  She is a mom with school kids through high school.

When I get to the office, I stopped by her desk.  I didn’t even say hi, I just said, “The best thing about having kids is the worst thing about having kids, (long pause) wet (very slight pause, barely noticeable) moist (same barely noticeable pause) sloppy kisses.”

She totally responded to it! I mean, I set the stage with the whole kid thing, but she still filled her thoughts with whatever she wanted…   Of course I showed disbelief that she thought I was making a sexual comment, “What, I’m talking about my kids, where are you going with it?!”  Then I switched to small talk and snuck in maybe three or four phrases in the next couple of minutes, such as “wide open” “feel so comfortable,” “hard” and I can’t remember what else. I was winging it.

She was visibly hot and not so bothered!  It was crazy, I didn’t even try that hard, just messing around, but yet I was able to create a partial scene and let her mind fill it.  I just left her hanging there, I didn’t want to take it too far.

What I found so interesting is that throughout the day, whenever we had normal conversation, she would just gaze very intently at me, very hypnotic!  I would even just stare back at her just to see when she would break the gaze, expecting her to feel uncomfortable at some point.  She would just lock into a gaze. Her body language and eyes weren’t really telling me, “I want to eat you.”  It was more of a, “you did something to me, I really like it, and I want you to keep doing it.”

She is a lady that keeps her space, is very guarded and discreet, so I was shocked with the amount of eye contact and her physical proximity. She even started sharing about her personal life, and telling me about her husband and wishing he could be home more often (travels a lot and gone 3-6 months at a time), talking about how when he’s home he just wants to play golf and hunt. And she was just very… intense.  It was crazy!

What’s even crazier is that the the only knowledge I have about the seduction scene is reading your blog!  I can’t believe it, I can only imagine what the paid stuff teaches.  I haven’t even read The Game, only a book review that led me to your website!

What do you have that’s specifically sales oriented. I’m in sales and if I can influence buyers to a sale in a 15 minute period like I partially seduced my coworker in just a 5 minute conversation, I am very interested.

Alex Rodriguez, real estate investor
El Paso, TX

See what I mean?  The real power of Speed Seduction® is the ability to master the skills and then apply them to your own unique situations with women.  That sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. And to answer Alex’s question, many of the same techniques work across the spectrum – from the bedroom to the boardroom.  Check out my MindFrame Persuasion® Course!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?

Why, yes, my horny disciples.  Yes indeedy do!

Here is an example:

Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.

In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.

Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).

She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”

I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH.  When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”

She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”

I said, “That’s right.  French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”.  (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”

Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened.  As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.

At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.

(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray.  Once I hook ‘em, I gotta overlook ‘em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)

In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:

“So hard…”

“Hard inside you”

“New direction/nude erection”

“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”

“Suck seed/succeed”

“Go down”

“Put it in your mouth”

When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself.  Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!

Have fun and let me know how it goes…

Piece and peace,
RJ

P.S. I am seriously contemplating designing an on line program dedicated to the topic of different ways to quickly sexualize your interactions with wonen: verbal, vibe and touch.  What say ye to this?  It would probably run about 5-7 video modules, plus, when I create it, some live video broadcasts with Q and A. Maybe sell it for $97.

P.P.S. In the meantime, for an instant-access vaginal victory vault, stuffed with over 120 videos bursting with girl-getting teaching that gets you tight trim triumph, click here right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

One of the patterns I teach is the “Boyfriend Destroyer” which you’d use when you approach a woman and she tells you she has a boyfriend.

This pattern has some naysayers.  Here are a couple of them:

“Doesn’t that make you a small man, having to go after someone else’s woman?”

“Why would you want to spend time on a woman who’s going to lie to you within 3 minutes of meeting you?  Why would you want to be with a woman who cheats?”

“Why would you waste your time on a woman who is taken or says she is?  What about these tens of thousands of women you say I can get?”

Well, today I call bullshit on the naysaying with a few facts about “boyfriend destroying.”

It’s just a sad fact that many women who SAY they have a boyfriend either are lying outright, responding out of auto-pilot, or they are stuck in real-hate-shun-ships by default.

The reality is, most very attractive women ARE probably going to be with someone.  Most women regardless of their place on the HB scale are “seeing someone” – but does that mean it’s “exclusive?”

If you wait until you find girls who are totally officially “single” you may be waiting a long time.

Think about this:

You can use fire to heat your camp at night. Or you can use it to burn down a building.

You can use a knife to stab an innocent person in the heart. Or you can use it to cut someone’s bonds and set them free.

I believe that not caving in to a woman’s first “knee-jerk” response is a good thing.

I’m creating a space for her to have a new choice, to respond with more freedom and act differently.  By doing this, I serve HER.

Listen: if she really, REALLY loves the guy, she will let you know and you aren’t going to get anywhere anyway.  So you “Exit, Stage Left” but she’ll probably think you’re a nice guy.  Maybe nice enough she’ll introduce you to her actually-single friends.  But what you WILL get EVERY time is the practice that sharpens the skills that will get you your next ten successes with women.

Is THAT such a bad thing?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If you want to learn how to meet women easily, anytime, anywhere, and totally have them eating out of the palm of your hand (and the  fly of your pants) despite her “I have a boyfriend” opening statement, just click here.

You’ll be doing you, and her, a service.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Want to have two chicks at the same time?

So many of my students either have, or want to, that I’m thinking of adding it to a “bucket list” of must-haves that every smart guy must experience at least once, if for no other reason than to know he “went there.”

Problem: many women won’t “go there.”

Why?  Oftentimes it’s societal “rules.” It breaks a taboo to engage in any sort of group sex, or anything other than one man and one woman doing it.  You’d think that the ticket booth at the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle only sells tickets in pairs.  Not true.

Sometimes, she’s skiddish.  Or afraid of unanticipated consequences.  Or maybe she really doesn’t want to touch another girl, and she isn’t sold on your “promises” that it will be her and her best friend working on you, but not each other.  Maybe she’s worried you’ll like her friend better (it could be a competition or ego thing).

The “Warming Question” That Breaks The Ice And Gets You Closer To The Triple Play

Now: the following is something I almost never just hand out.  So you’ll want to write this down, print it, bookmark this post, whatever the f@@k you have to do so you don’t lose it.  Ask this question:

“If you could go somewhere where no one knew who you were, and nothing you did would ever get back to anyone you did know, what kinds of experiences would you like to have, with what kind of person, with what kind of feelings?”

Then add:

I find when I LET THOSE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS run through YOUR MIND, it’s the kind of thing that let’s me realize that sometimes YOU WANT TO SUCK SEED in stripping away from every day life, now and again, and FEEL YOUR OPENING to something novel..some new..A NEW DIRECTION you can IMAGINE TAKING INSIDE.

Now…when you ask that question you will get the following kinds of responses:

1. A vivid response with a vivid description.
2. A vivid response with a non-vivid description. They just go inside, access the thoughts and the states. Often they blush or look embarrassed
3. A non-vivid response with a vivid description(they describe it vividly but for some reason they don’t access the feelings-this is most rare)
4. A confused response. They don’t get what you mean
5. A defensive response.

I’m looking for 1 & 2. 3 can be worked with as well. 4 is possible if they also show a willingness to understand. Forget 5.

Ever tried this (or something like it?)  How did it work out for you?  (Leave a comment below).  Or, go out and do it and then report back here how it went.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You think that’s something?  That’s just a small taste of the level of girl-getting power and knowledge you’ll find in my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course.  Click here to learn more!

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Coming to you from Trondheim, Norway.

Many of you have asked me for “here’s-how-it’s done” demos of how to use my girl-getting techniques, so here we go.

Watch this short clip of me putting the lovely Alexis into trance, using the information and feedback she gave me during the Sarge.  Be sure to leave a comment below.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This clip is from my recent LIVE 3-Day Seminar in New York City.  Our next live seminar is just a week away – August 13-15, 2010, in London.  Find your reasons to join me by clicking here to learn more and reserve your seat (you can bring a friend, too.)

P.P.S. Can’t make it to London?  No worries, we’ll catch you next time.  In the meantime, you REALLY should consider this (click here).

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday on my blog, I told you about my student who had sex with the super-squirting babe who dried up and flaked on a planned meeting.

24 hours before their next scheduled meeting, she texted him with this: “I have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. I totally forgot about a previous engagement.”

He knew immediately (as did I when he told me) that it was a flake, a line of total malarkey, because she didn’t say she was sorry, didn’t immediately offer to reschedule, and tried to hide behind texting rather than calling him.

A few minutes after I wrote yesterday’s Steaming Hot Seduction Secret, I found myself AGAIN in teacher/mentor mode (the place where I thrive). I wrote out a brand-new Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern and e-mailed it to him. As you know, I do my best work when I am hands-on with my students, helping them succeed in their specific situations with women.

[For those who are joining me this Sunday (October 25) for our "Afternoon With Ross Jeffries," I will share this message pattern with you, word for word. And if you can't make it, click here anyway and pre-order the DVD recording of the event, and you'll receive the message pattern too.]

Some of the key points of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern (spoken in my student’s voice) are:

• I’m trying to figure out what’s going on and want to open the opportunity for you to tell me
• I’d rather have it on the table or in my face, then behind my back (I use this in one of the screening patterns I use when I Sarge)
• I’ve enjoyed being with you and want to hear what’s going on

As a smart guy who is serious about success with the hottest of super-hot, wet women, he called her that evening and she answered the phone. After she tried to play him off and tell him she wasn’t “in the mood to talk” he had her pause and focus on listening, and then he spoke the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern to her, word-for-word.

For a “use a knife to cut the tension in the air” 20 seconds, she was silent. I would venture her previous men have been Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs) and she’s never been in the presence of a real Speed Seduction® Master who powerfully claims his desire, his skills, his success, and his future. Now she was confronted by a man who doesn’t mess around when it comes to getting what he wants, and realized the “game” she is used to playing with men wasn’t going to work on him.

Then she said, slowly, “I’ve given this a lot of thought and I just don’t think we have much in common. You’ll make a woman happy very soon, but I’m just not feeling this. I’m sorry, I’m really bad at this.”

Whether or not this was THE truth, it was, as far as he’s concerned, “her truth” at the moment. And it wasn’t his job to “figure her out.” In fact, in my debriefing with him he said the only part he really heard was when she said “You’ll make a woman happy very soon.”

Like this pattern? Pretty cool eh? It clears things up so you can focus your energy and efforts on women who will be worth your time. That sure beats a poke in the eye!

And again, if you spend this Sunday afternoon with me (or pre-order the DVD if you can’t make it), I will share these, and others of my brand-new, best-of-the-best Seduction/Pick-up/Personal Change Breakthroughs with you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. The goal of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern is to get her to step out from behind her game and claim her truth (if she can). In this case, she couldn’t. This is an indicator of how she would behave toward him if their interactions progressed to “seeing each other” and then “boyfriend/girlfriend.” By using the Anti-Flake this early in the interactions with her – the VERY FIRST TIME she flaked on him, he sidestepped a landmine so he can refocus his Sarging efforts toward finding the RIGHT women for him.

P.P.S. Would you like to get your greedy little hands on word for word seduction patterns, INCLUDING the “forbidden” Gemini and Dark Sun patterns that induce permanent behavioral change in the women you desire, allowing you to mold them to the exact erotic specifications you require, demand and dream of?

Then check out my Frame Control and Sexual Themes DVDs!