Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In all areas of life, a key ingredient to success, whatever your definition of that word, is persistence.

Now let’s say you’re persistent, but something keeps going persistently wrong?  Or, looking at it another way, if something is persistently tripping you up or blocking you from claiming your results?

Let’s hear from a student who seems to be able to Sarge only in bars (ironic, I know, given that’s one of the hardest places to Sarge and one of the least recommended places as far as I am concerned):

> Im not afraid to approach women, I’m having trouble getting from right after
> hello and going into pattern at will, Also trouble with state control. I bring
> me old self with me it persistently stays. It sucks, I have had success but only
> in bars mostly that where I’m more anchored in good feeling and in a bar it
> the right place to sarge but outside going along with everyday tasks its
> difficult. Breaking state Im having trouble understanding.If I can get to
> patterns I got em but getting Im having trouble.

So what’s the “big idea” here?The big idea is this: you probably don’t need to add anything in. You probably just have to subtract out whatever internal processes are getting in the way.

You’ve got good feelings and no problem in a bar which is where MOST guys have trouble! So what is NOT going on in your head, in a bar, that DOES go on in your head, elsewhere? Or, what goes on in your head, outside of bar, that is ABSENT when you are in a bar?

What you need to do is subtract out what is getting in your way, when you are NOT in a bar.

Once you identify that, you’re one step closer to no-holds-bar-red success with the women you truly desire.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

From time to time, whether it’s in my Coaching Program, one of my private discussion groups, or here on my blog, I’ll ask my students that simple, yet timeless, all-encompassing question:

How’s it going with you and the ladies?

You all tell me your stories.  And it shows me a lot about how what I teach is helping more smart guys like you overcome your challenges with women, master the skills, and get more moist pink abundance, more vaginal victory, more rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle, more, more, more, more, more!

And yet, there’s another theme: it doesn’t work every single time with every single woman, and sometimes this stuff does require a little effort.  You know what, that’s correct.

It gives you something much, much more important.

To make my point, let me share with you a few snippets of feedback from one of my coaching clients who recognizes the relationship between persistence and relaxation:

> The breakthrough (with her) was when I gave myself permission to just practice,
> not give a f@@k, and not focus on outcomes, as it really relieved
> the pressure, and the resources I had inside of me came out. I had,
> up to this point, been so focused on outcomes, and that had screwed
> me up and would often make me feel like a loser and unattractive. I
> wasn’t focused on the PROCESS, which is precisely where I needed to
> be focusing.

RJ: Exactly so: fear and anxiety and tensing up FUCK US UP. Stay relaxed in the immediate present.

> Also, probably the biggest lesson for me was, no matter WHAT
> happens, that’s no indication of what’s GOING to happen, unless you
> DECIDE that it will. And thinking back, I can only remember one
> time when I closed the very first woman I talk to in an evening.
>
> Being PERSISTANT when things didn’t go according to plan was KEY for
> this being a really awesome night for me.

Being persistent AND relaxed.  Let me fill in the “stuff between the lines” for you. When you know you’re doing the right things and making the right moves, it puts your mind at ease because you know you’re headed down the right road.  At the end of every road is a destination.

Every time you take a step forward, even though the answer to “Are we there yet?” is “not yet” you can rest assured you’ve gotten just a little bit (maybe MORE than a little bit) closer.

So instead of beating yourself up for being a loser with the ladies, instead you say “That was great practice.  Now I’ll do even better with the next one.”

Hey, I’ll take it.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I’ve dealt with the ethics of boyfriend destroying.  Today, I am going to share an actual Sarge report from a student who successfully used this technique.  Stay with me for a moment as I lay it out for you.

There’s a scintillatingly hot clerk at his local convenience store.  After seeing her and chatting her up a few times, he realized he needed to step up and claim his results.  So, on his third visit, he made his move.  Setting aside a plan to go back and say “when I was here earlier I forgot to pick up a few things” he decided instead to clearly state his intention when he saw her.

She heard what he had to say, then nicely told him she has a boyfriend.

His reponse?  “So what?  I wasn’t expecting you to LEAVE HIM FOR ME.” (Embedded command).

Then she said, “I really care about him, and he wouldn’t like it, and I just don’t do that kind of thing.”

He replied, “I really respect that. I hope someday you change your mind, and have a great day.”

And Then, HIS Day Got Much, Much Better…

At that moment, the most incredible thing happened.

She just melted. She OPENED UP she had been going through a really rough time lately, etc. He looked her in the eye and said “I’m so sorry. I know what it’s like, and things just get worse and worse no matter how hard you try. And I hope things get better for you soon.” He turned to walk away and she caught his arm and said “Wait”, wrote her phone number down and handed it to him.

The Keys To The Kingdom Are Dangling Before You

Just like the most delicious, perfectly shaped, more-than-a-mouthful boobies that have ever made their way to your face while she straddled you.

I tell you, when you get results like this, you are not far from the Kingdom of Sarge. When you hear my words and do them, you shall live in moist, pink abundance, forever and ever, Sarge without end.

The ability to see where the other person is at WITHOUT HAVING TO GO THERE YOURSELF is a key skill in any form of persuasion/seduction/influencing.

When you can combine equanimity with uncertainty – being ok with not knowing what is going to happen AND giving the other person radical permission to have their FIRST response to you, it creates an unbelievably powerful doorway for something unexpected to occur.

Believe what I say and you shall inherit the Kingdom of Poontang.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Join me as I once again reach into my mail bag and pull out another excellent question that was e-mailed to me by one of my best students, someone who has invested in my courses and who regularly follows the Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets.

This one deals with an issue that often comes up: what happens when you call or e-mail or text and leave a message and you don’t hear back from her. Here’s the question:

I normally don’t have problems getting girls, but I recently moved to a new city. I met a local girl who works at the pub just around the corner. She expressed great interest in me, giving me her number (without me asking) and even asking ME out on a date. On this date, she invited me to her place to order take out and watch movies. The conversation was great, and by the end of the night I even gave her a back rub. She gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek before I left, also expressing interest in making another date very soon.

The next day I texted her, just asking how see was doing, she responded by saying she was great, and asked me how I was. I responded by saying I had an awesome day, and left it at that. So I gave it two days before I messaged again, with a short text “What’s going on?”  It’s been three days, and I haven’t heard back. I would greatly appreciate your insight on this, and what I should do from here?

Alright, a few key points here:

First, foremost, important-most, and uppermost: maybe she was at a concert or something when you texted her, wasn’t able to answer, and got sidetracked.  Are you persistent, much? And what’s up with texting?  If you can text her, you have her phone number.  Give her a call.

Here’s the even bigger question: when she expressed interest in setting up another meet very soon, what stopped you from setting up the date and time, THEN AND THERE?  Why did you wait?  You know what they say about guys who wait.

You might also want to check this out, since you’re “new in town.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Mastering your girl-getting game is a process – even for experienced Seduction masters who effortlessly approach women and know the steps to getting them hot and bothered and wanting more.

Every so often, you’ll strike out. Once in a while, you’ll hit a bit of a slump when it comes to the ladies. You might even worry that you’ve lost your touch. So let me reveal to you…

A Secret, Sure-Fire Success Mindset That Keeps
Girl-Getting Masters In The Game For Extra Innings

First of all, remember: fear and anxiety and tensing up around women F@@K US UP. Stay relaxed in the immediate present.

Give yourself permission to just practice, not give a f@@k whether she says yes. Stop focusing on outcomes, because pressure to achieve those outcomes (arranging the next meeting, going back to her place, etc) will ratchet up the pressure and screw up your Sarging vibe.

You’ll feel like a loser and unattractive when you “flub your lines” and feel forced to run out of there with your tail between your legs, instead of getting some tail for tonight.

No matter WHAT happens with this (or any) chick, you don’t know what’s GOING to happen, unless you DECIDE that it will. Being PERSISTENT when things don’t at first go according to plan is KEY for “upping your game” and getting with more succulent hot babes.

So, when you see that sultry vixen in the little black dress eyeing you up from across the way while stroking the stem of her martini glass, focus NOT on the GOAL getting her out of that dress, but instead on how your forthcoming interaction with her will improve your overall “game” with the ladies.

Worry less about how you’re gonna get her to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and you’re MORE likely to go there with her (and many other women).

Ok guys, she’s waiting for you. Now, what in jumping Jennie’s drawers are you waiting FOR? Let’s go!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s great to hear from smart guys who aren’t just talking about it or thinking about it, but who are out there actually DOING it…with steaming hot women!

Listen: there’s an unlimited supply of amazing women waiting for you when you’ve learned the fantastic secrets I teach in my Gold Walkup DVD. Once you get this stuff down, you’ll never have to worry about what to say, ever, anymore, again!

In fact, here’s an awesome note I got recently from a student, that I shared with my readers in my daily newsletter:

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Ross, you are awesome!

This woman had been telling me she likes me in so many words for over 2 years, but because I’m hitched she would never make a move and told me so.

Recently I met up with her and hit her with 3 or 4 patterns while at lunch. As I worked the patterns, she stared blankly in space as she absorbed the vision she was getting.

Two weeks later we had lunch again. She started showing me naked pics of her boobs and told me she was gonna f@@k me regardless of my status! She attacked (grabbed and kissed me on the lips) out of the blue on the elevator going back to work!!!!

I have your patterns memorized to the “uh huh” phase, but still I have not Sarged much with different women like I want to. I would give ANYTHING to actually hear how you actually paused, and what your tempo sounded like when you got the waitress in trance. Any tapes I can buy to hear it for myself???? U R DA MAN!!

Thanks Ross! – L.L.

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Dear L.L.,

Wow. What a difference in women’s behavior toward us when we know how to capture and lead their imaginations and emotions. Then it’s a totally different game where you can write your own ticket, without gambling or guessing.

Congratulations again L.L. on stepping up. That’s what it’s all about.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

P.S. The reason L.L. has her begging him to f@@k her is because he studies my teaching and applies it to his own situation in the way that works best for him. He’s persistent, he doesn’t give up easily, and he keeps his eye on the prize. He shoots…and scores!

The women are waiting…what are you waiting for? New Year’s? The time is now…get your copy of Speed Seduction® 3.0!

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