Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

It’s an oft-told story…

Boy meets Girl in an “everyday” setting.

Girl smiles and giggles oh-so-cute and Boy sees the door open and beckoning.

Boy strikes up a little convo.  Girl’s answer to his innocent-yet-obviously-leading question (the one where he asks her out without actually f@@king ASKING) leaves him stumped even though it’s plain-as-daylight stuff.

Let’s hear from a student who felt like he just got “traded down to the minors” off such a seemingly innocent response:

The other day, I went to a local clothing store because I needed to pick up a couple things.  I was greeted by a cute, bubbly sales associate.  I said hi and bought a belt and a few other things (I was there for that in the first place).  I commented on her style, then I left.  But – as if opportunity was raining down from heaven, I had forgotten my cell phone, so I went back and said I lost it!

She asked for my number so we could call it and hear it ring.  Lo and behold, it fell off while I was trying on the belt and landed under a rack with fall jackets on it.  Heard it ring and picked it up.  Then I asked where she lived, and her name, and if she had plans for the evening.  She said she was going to relax at her place.

I didn’t know what to say, so I left (with her phone number, and her name). She seemed interested in me, and I was wondering what I could do to get in contact with her, and get her to meet me. Can you help me?

Let me start with the Captain Obvious answer: call her and and f@@king ask her out.

Don’t try to figure out if she really seemed interested… or just being all cute and flirty to loosen up your wallet by tightening up your Johnson (something that, uh, RARELY happens in the real world and is, uh, NEVER done on purpose).  Besides, your memory of actual events is probably distorted by now over hot you think she is… and how hot you wish, hope, and pray she was FOR YOU.

But think about what you’re asking her (or the next woman, when you go back for cuff links):

You asked where she lived (which DOESN’T MATTER until you go back to her place for some EEE-RRR-EEE-RRR), her name (was she wearing a nametag, as a sales associate in a retail store?), and what she was doing tonight (other than breathing and eventually sleeping?)

Were THESE the questions she was being called upon to answer while sidelined from making money so she can pay her rent?  What did her responses tell you about her “vibe” and what inspires her, so you could use it to anchor her emotions and get her excited and irresistibly aroused at-will?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

The easiest thing you can possibly do is sit on your ass and let things go on as they are.  Yeah, you might have a miserable life, out of shape, bad health, need a haircut really bad, no women, no nookie, no Giggity Giggity Goo.

But there’s no risk.  You can be certain (unless there’s a blackout) the boob tube will keep you company when you sit alone on the couch watching late-night TV.

Now, if you choose to “rock the boat” by taking drastic measures such as updating your wardrobe, getting a haircut, hitting the gym (to feel good about yourself), and getting yourself in circulation so people can see the gifts you offer to the world…that’s downright scary.  What if it doesn’t work?  What if your friends (or even family members) make fun of you?  What if the women you Sarge on dust you off with a dismissive hand gesture?

Case in point: one of your fellow readers on this blog, who is now working his way toward girl-getting mastery:

I am still in the “trying” phases and haven’t got laid yet – what could I possibly be doing wrong?  Also, when a girl doesn’t respond when I use the patterns (such as “have you ever…”, the Twin Brothers, etc.), how can I handle the discouragement I feel in me after that?

And finally Ross, which is the fastest way to learn Speed Seduction® via home study?

First of all, congratulations on your decision to “step up” and claim results with the women you really want.  Who said you’re doing anything wrong?

I have to ask, though  (just to be sure): are you reciting the patterns verbatim?  And if you’re not, could it be that you sound like you are, like you rehearsed the lines?  She’s not going to respond to that, because it’s not YOU she’s experiencing.

Now, I don’t think you’re going up to women reading the patterns off cue cards, but I’ve had students who DID.  One of them got laid.  With the cue cards. His secret?  He applied the lessons of Speed Seduction® to that SPECIFIC situation with that SPECIFIC woman.  He used the cue cards to make her laugh and open her up… then he took it naturally from there.

Handling discouragement?  Well, when something bad happens, AND when something good happens, I repeat as necessary:

Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better, now!

That galvanizes me to go get more chicks.  If I “strike out”, there’s always tomorrow (or even 5 minutes from now).  Even if the one I just met is a straight up fox, now that I’ve had her, I want one even hotter.

Keep Sarging. You have me, and the entire community, on your side and in your corner.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The fastest way to learn Speed Seduction® via home study is, of course, my home study course called Speed Seduction® 3.0.  It’s like having me, Ross Jeffries, on tap, 24/7, whenever you need me.  Click here to learn more.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

I often get asked, in e-mails I get from students as well as during live appearances on video chats and in-person seminars, what are some of the best pick-up lines for guys to use on chicks.

Let me begin by stating: I don’t teach “pick-up lines.”  Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training (MITs) use conversational patterns.

So let’s ask: what IS a “pattern”?

A “pattern” is much more than memorized “lines” or even complete “speeches”.  It includes a more broad variety of actions/methods/techniques designed to engage the woman, capture her vibe, and appeal to what drives her…wild.

I know you want to see some pattern language in action.  So before we go any further, watch this short video clip of me working a hot Brazilian chick at one of my live seminars into an erotic trance.  (My apologies in advance, this clip is low-quality, but you’ll still be able to hear and see what’s happening.)

More importantly: the right question can be a “pattern”.

A “pattern” is any communication that captures and leads a woman’s imagination and stimulates her emotions in the right direction.

Which of the following, for example, is a “pattern”:

1. What do you do for a living?

2. What do you find most challenging about what you do, and what do you find most fulfilling about what you do?

Do you get my point here?

Here’s another example:

1. Where was the last place you went on vacation?

2. If you could go somewhere where money and time were no object, where would you go, and what kind of….things…would you like to try?

Here’s a fun assignment: come up with a typical question women get asked by Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) guys. Then take a stab at coming up with a Speed Seduction® version of the same question that actually would stimulate her emotions and imagination in a useful direction.  Post them here on the blog!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Success with women involves creating irresistible POSITIVE challenge, that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to you, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure.  Click here to find the “mother lode” of conversational patterns…

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A few weeks ago I was at one of my local hangouts in LA, working on some e-mails on the WiFi while checking out the bevy of bodacious babes that were swarming the place….and Sarging on a few of them.

My concentration got interrupted by a scene caused by a very desperate looking fellow.

See, this is the type of place where, after you finish your food order, you take the tray up and dump your garbage in the trash receptacle and then leave your tray.

Apparently, he had gotten some hot chick’s number and had accidentally left it on his tray when he tossed it. He left the restaurant, then realized his mistake, and came back hoping to get the phone number back. He was pleading with the manager for help. Coincidentally, the restaurant staff had just emptied that particular receptacle and taken its trash out to the dumpster in the back.

So he said to the manager: “No problem, I’ll just go into the dumpster and dig it out. No problem. It’s the one on top right?”

Manager’s flat-out, no-bullshit, no-messing-around response: “No, you won’t.”

Cut to the chase: guy who thought he was about to score with some babe, walks out dejected, knowing he “blew it.“

Yeah, I’d say he blew it.

He blew it from the moment he set “scoring the digits” as his goal. If this chick was so hot (and hot for him), what stopped him from scheduling a follow up meeting with her, then and there? What stopped him from making his move, then and there? Why did he take what was happening RIGHT THEN and willfully postpone it until an undefined “later” that might (and now DEFINITELY will) never come?

Too many smart guys are programmed into following “dating rituals.” Wait to get her number…wait two days to call her…then wait two days to see her…wait till the end of the date to give her a kiss…then wait till the next day to call her to say it was great…and then wait a day before calling back to ask for the next “date.”

Look: “wait” on THIS.

It’s true, the women ARE waiting. For you. So, champ, what are YOU waiting FOR?

If she’s here, now... and she seems interested, now… make your move, NOW. If she says no, fine, move on. But when she says yes (and she’s more likely to say yes because the vibe in the air that has her intrigued RIGHT NOW will dissipate if you go away and try to come back later), the results will sure beat a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A terrible scourge is ravaging the land… a malady so insidious, so pervasive, so malevolent… stifling Sarges before they see the light of day and causing an outbreak of lonely nights for smart guys everywhere.

The “romance” industry is rejoicing in their profits windfall.  Rosie and her sisters have never had such a lucky streak as they are on now, because of this nefarious ill wind.

What am I referring to?  It’s an epidemic known as Oneitis.

Simply: Oneitis is a state where a man’s entire energy gets placed, or sucked, into ONE woman.  Symptoms include anxiety, worry, scarcity, and un-clarity, not to mention picking daisies and pulling the pedals and mumbling, “She likes me, she likes me not.”   Oneitis will have a man betting his entire girl-getting game on ONE chick who he’s not even dating yet.

(Remember: dating is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with, not that one you met yesterday who you’re hoping to run into today so you can ask for her phone number so you can call her sometime to see if maybe she’d like to…. excuse me…. I’m gonna be sick just THINKING about it.)

Why am I issuing this public Sarge health warning about Oneitis today?

In response to a recent issue of “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets,” a student told me about this chick he’s into.  He says they are “just friends” and never do anything more than talk on the phone.  She moved away recently and they’re 5 states apart, yet these endless phone calls  continue.  He says it’s the best relationship he’s had with a woman. Because he cares about her so much, he doesn’t even want to look at another woman.

Huh?!?!?!

This statement strikes me sad, and perfectly illustrates the evils perpetrated by this scourge, Oneitis. Oh my stars and garters!

If you’re in a situation like this, you are coming from SUCH poverty. It’s like a man who has lived in dark shanty or hovel his whole life, with no running water.  At random intervals, someone comes along and offers him a few fetid drops of mucky water probably scooped out of a drainage ditch. And he steps out of the hovel and mentally carries THAT image as the best he can have.

Look: when you are Sarging on a chick, remain interested in the woman, but not invested in scoring with her as the “end goal.” Your goal is to not only succeed with her, but also hone and sharpen your girl-getting skills that will get you laid ten times over by women you, up until now, never dreamed would actually give YOU the f@@king time of day.

Let’s band together and send this dastardly evil, Oneitis, back to the dark hole it crawled out of!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Sick and tired of letting sexy, beautiful women pass right in front of you while you sit there virtually paralyzed because you’re “stuck” on this one chick who runs hot and cold?  You’ve got Oneitis.  I have the cure – click here to get your Oneitis-busting prescription!

Today, I am sharing the fourth (and final) video in a series where I relate some key girl-getting concepts that I shared with a student during a one-on-one consult.

Here goes: so many of us try to “figure out” how to get women, but ultimately there’s something else more important.

Click below to watch, then leave your comments:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you Sarge on the amazing, incredibly sexy women in your world, the goal is to succeed with as many women as possible who meet your standards, based on the screening tools that you use to interpret the feedback they give you.

Like I’ve said: it’s a matter of interpretation. I hear many stories about students of mine who effortlessly approach a woman and use my techniques for getting her aroused and excited, but they don’t “make the move” because they just can’t tell if she’s really interested, or if he goes for the close, she might slap him.

Case in point:

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I would appreciate some good tips from you on “women’s signals of interest”. Also if there are any exceptions to those “signals of interest,” meaning they really may not be what they sound like….I am really terrible at this, although the obvious things are slamming my forehead screaming “Dude, wake up!!! That’s the signal!”

I still somehow hesitate because most of the time I am really unsure and don`t wish to screw up anything – and most importantly lose her as a friend.

Last time I had coffee with a friend of mine, everything was fine. We chatted a little bit and had some really good laughs. Somehow I noticed there may have been some interest from her side. Although she smiled, I still wasn’t too sure if it was a GO or NO GO. I mean, a man can’t simply see a woman’s interest just from her smile, if she is having a good time or laughing about something unless it is you.

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Thank you for your excellent question. My answer is in two parts.

First, let me challenge your thinking. Are you looking to make more friends, or are you looking for Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters with dripping-wet, hot women? I first powerfully approach women, then based on the feedback they give me I decide what category they fit in. When you approach women, you need to be clear on your end goal – and focus ALL of your energy, skills, and power toward claiming that goal.

Second, you don’t need to wait for sure to see if there’s interest on her side. When you use Speed Seduction®, you’ll see the fascination and desire in her face. I call this the “doggy bowl dinner” look.

The student I spoke about on my blog last month who had sex with the squirter on the first date told me that he had encountered challenges “reaching” her during their dinner to the point where he almost took her home early. But back at his place, after some bantering and patterning, she gave him this “look”. He chose to interpret it as her way of nonverbally saying, “it’s on” and powerfully made his move. He used Speed Seduction® to tell the difference.

Peace, piece, and here’s “looking” at much girl-getting success,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In a recent newsletter, I described the experiences of a student, where a hottie he desired shied from his advances for a long time…until finally, she was begging him to f@@k her. He studied my teaching and applied it to his own situation in the way that worked best for him. He’s persistent, he doesn’t give up easily, and he keeps his eye on the prize.

But sometimes, it might feel like success doesn’t come fast enough, or that you have been persistent and you’re still not getting the women you want.

In one of my recent twice-monthly “Ask Me Anything” calls, a student posed this dilemma. Here goes:

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Ross,

It’s like I’ve turned off the whole thing. I have this sense that, “Yes, I know Speed Seduction®, but what the hell?” I’m trying to figure out why I’m feeling burned out about meeting hot women.

I live near a university. The women are all pretty young. There’s nothing wrong with that on a certain level. But I find that after talking to them for a while, I run out of things to say. I don’t seem to be able to engage them on levels that excite them.

Age-wise, I’m between Between George Clooney and Sean Connery. What do I do?

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Great question, indeed. Here is my answer:

The first thing I ask is, what is going to satisfy you? What is the need in you? What are you craving? Burning out or not wanting to be with a certain group of people may just mean there are other needs you need to figure out.

As for engaging them on levels that excite them, that’s damn easy. Just use of the 6 conversational topics I teach step by step in the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course.

I’ll give you one for free right here: connections.

Women are fascinated by this topic/conversational theme.

You can get her talking about:

• How people connect with their desires and fantasies.
• How we connect with someone we are really attracted to.
• How we connect with deeper places in our minds.
• How we connect to the needs we’ve been suppressing.

Any one of these topics is ripe with opportunities to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, the core principle of my Speed Seduction® material.

There are 5 other conversational themes and topics, equally loaded with opportunities to get her smoking hot and bothered. Find them here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. No shit guys: getting a woman talking in the right direction, and knowing how to use those responses is THE key to rocketing the hottest hotties right into your bed. Kiss the “friend zone” good-bye forever; your passport to p*ssy is right here:

http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As part of my ongoing Pick Up Tips/How To Meet Women Mastery series of articles, I just had to share this.

Today, as I was walking back from the beach, I spotted a hot girl walking toward me from the opposite direction.  Noticing that she was wearing a big floppy hat, I said, “Nice headgear”.

Now, this is an example of one of the 4 methods I teach to meet women, anytime, anywhere, in my Gold Walk Up DVD: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out is especially designed for those situations when you are in motion one way, and the woman you are wanting to meet is going in the opposite direction.  It’s designed to stop women in their tracks.

In this case, it stopped her because it was an unusual way to phrase an otherwise worn out compliment: “nice hat”.  How boring that would have been

And that’s what happened. She stopped.  Then she laughed and said, “Are you making fun of me?”

“No, “ I said.  “It was an honest compliment. Do you always get so insecure around hot looking guys?”

(Notice what I am doing in a playful way: I’m implying that she has the hots for me. I didn’t say it, mind you. But that is the implication. Chicks love implication, think and speak with implication, and gobble it up like honey.)

She laughed again and said, “I have a boyfriend.”

Now, one of the things I teach in my Speed Seduction 3.0 course is this: I seldom take a woman’s first response as written in stone. It’s almost always just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or believing in that moment, and it’s almost always subject to change.

So immediately I responded with, “I didn’t say I want to date you. But I’m flattered. Thanks.  Besides, boyfriends are like colds.  You can catch one at anytime, but you can always shake him off if you want too. “

She laughed again, this time harder.  “No, I really dig this guy. But thanks anyway”.

Now bear something in mind: about half the time, when women say, “I have a boyfriend”, they are just talking out of their pretty little ass. So when you respond with something different and funny instead of giving up or arguing, it really gets attention in a positive way.

And that’s one of my main principles: get attention in a positive way with an unexpected response that gets her laughing, or thinking, or both.

You can make meeting women just this easy by getting my Gold Walk Up DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you are already good at meeting women and want to start getting them into your bed, without guess work, games or spending lots of  cash on them, check out my latest and most complete program: Speed Seduction 3.0.