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“How Can I Tell If She’s Interested In Me?”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on November 7th, 2009
 How Can I Tell If Shes Interested In Me?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you Sarge on the amazing, incredibly sexy women in your world, the goal is to succeed with as many women as possible who meet your standards, based on the screening tools that you use to interpret the feedback they give you.

fotolia 2085866 small How Can I Tell If Shes Interested In Me?Like I’ve said: it’s a matter of interpretation. I hear many stories about students of mine who effortlessly approach a woman and use my techniques for getting her aroused and excited, but they don’t “make the move” because they just can’t tell if she’s really interested, or if he goes for the close, she might slap him.

Case in point:

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I would appreciate some good tips from you on “women’s signals of interest”. Also if there are any exceptions to those “signals of interest,” meaning they really may not be what they sound like….I am really terrible at this, although the obvious things are slamming my forehead screaming “Dude, wake up!!! That’s the signal!”

I still somehow hesitate because most of the time I am really unsure and don`t wish to screw up anything – and most importantly lose her as a friend.

Last time I had coffee with a friend of mine, everything was fine. We chatted a little bit and had some really good laughs. Somehow I noticed there may have been some interest from her side. Although she smiled, I still wasn’t too sure if it was a GO or NO GO. I mean, a man can’t simply see a woman’s interest just from her smile, if she is having a good time or laughing about something unless it is you.

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Thank you for your excellent question. My answer is in two parts.

First, let me challenge your thinking. Are you looking to make more friends, or are you looking for Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters with dripping-wet, hot women? I first powerfully approach women, then based on the feedback they give me I decide what category they fit in. When you approach women, you need to be clear on your end goal – and focus ALL of your energy, skills, and power toward claiming that goal.

Second, you don’t need to wait for sure to see if there’s interest on her side. When you use Speed Seduction®, you’ll see the fascination and desire in her face. I call this the “doggy bowl dinner” look.

The student I spoke about on my blog last month who had sex with the squirter on the first date told me that he had encountered challenges “reaching” her during their dinner to the point where he almost took her home early. But back at his place, after some bantering and patterning, she gave him this “look”. He chose to interpret it as her way of nonverbally saying, “it’s on” and powerfully made his move. He used Speed Seduction® to tell the difference.

Peace, piece, and here’s “looking” at much girl-getting success,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

P.S. Forget about ever again being confused by a woman’s emotional 180s, her fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, her last minute buyer’s remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other up until now deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions.

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“Why Can’t I Get Women Excited???”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 10th, 2009
 Why Cant I Get Women Excited???

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In a recent newsletter, I described the experiences of a student, where a hottie he desired shied from his advances for a long time…until finally, she was begging him to f@@k her. He studied my teaching and applied it to his own situation in the way that worked best for him. He’s persistent, he doesn’t give up easily, and he keeps his eye on the prize.

fotolia 351393 small Why Cant I Get Women Excited???But sometimes, it might feel like success doesn’t come fast enough, or that you have been persistent and you’re still not getting the women you want.

In one of my recent twice-monthly “Ask Me Anything” calls, a student posed this dilemma. Here goes:

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Ross,

It’s like I’ve turned off the whole thing. I have this sense that, “Yes, I know Speed Seduction®, but what the hell?” I’m trying to figure out why I’m feeling burned out about meeting hot women.

I live near a university. The women are all pretty young. There’s nothing wrong with that on a certain level. But I find that after talking to them for a while, I run out of things to say. I don’t seem to be able to engage them on levels that excite them.

Age-wise, I’m between Between George Clooney and Sean Connery. What do I do?

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Great question, indeed. Here is my answer:

The first thing I ask is, what is going to satisfy you? What is the need in you? What are you craving? Burning out or not wanting to be with a certain group of people may just mean there are other needs you need to figure out.

As for engaging them on levels that excite them, that’s damn easy. Just use of the 6 conversational topics I teach step by step in the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course.

I’ll give you one for free right here: connections.

Women are fascinated by this topic/conversational theme.

You can get her talking about:

  • How people connect with their desires and fantasies.
  • How we connect with someone we are really attracted to.
  • How we connect with deeper places in our minds.
  • How we connect to the needs we’ve been suppressing.

Any one of these topics is ripe with opportunities to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, the core principle of my Speed Seduction® material.

There are 5 other conversational themes and topics, equally loaded with opportunities to get her smoking hot and bothered. Find them here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. No shit guys: getting a woman talking in the right direction, and knowing how to use those responses is THE key to rocketing the hottest hotties right into your bed. Kiss the “friend zone” good-bye forever; your passport to p*ssy is right here:

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Pick Up Lines/How To Meet Women Mastery: “She Stopped Dead In Her Tracks When I Threw Her This Line!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 16th, 2009
 Pick Up Lines/How To Meet Women Mastery: She Stopped Dead In Her Tracks When I Threw Her This Line!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As part of my ongoing Pick Up Tips/How To Meet Women Mastery series of articles, I just had to share this.

Today, as I was walking back from the beach, I spotted a hot girl walking toward me from the opposite direction.  Noticing that she was wearing a big floppy hat, I said, “Nice headgear”.

Now, this is an example of one of the 4 methods I teach to meet women, anytime, anywhere, in my Gold Walk Up DVD: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out is especially designed for those situations when you are in motion one way, and the woman you are wanting to meet is going in the opposite direction.  It’s designed to stop women in their tracks.

In this case, it stopped her because it was an unusual way to phrase an otherwise worn out compliment: “nice hat”.  How boring that would have been

And that’s what happened. She stopped.  Then she laughed and said, “Are you making fun of me?”

“No, “ I said.  “It was an honest compliment. Do you always get so insecure around hot looking guys?”

(Notice what I am doing in a playful way: I’m implying that she has the hots for me. I didn’t say it, mind you. But that is the implication. Chicks love implication, think and speak with implication, and gobble it up like honey.)

She laughed again and said, “I have a boyfriend.”

Now, one of the things I teach in my Speed Seduction 3.0 course is this: I seldom take a woman’s first response as written in stone. It’s almost always just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or believing in that moment, and it’s almost always subject to change.

So immediately I responded with, “I didn’t say I want to date you. But I’m flattered. Thanks.  Besides, boyfriends are like colds.  You can catch one at anytime, but you can always shake him off if you want too. “

She laughed again, this time harder.  “No, I really dig this guy. But thanks anyway”.

Now bear something in mind: about half the time, when women say, “I have a boyfriend”, they are just talking out of their pretty little ass. So when you respond with something different and funny instead of giving up or arguing, it really gets attention in a positive way.

And that’s one of my main principles: get attention in a positive way with an unexpected response that gets her laughing, or thinking, or both.

You can make meeting women just this easy by getting my Gold Walk Up DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you are already good at meeting women and want to start getting them into your bed, without guess work, games or spending lots of  cash on them, check out my latest and most complete program: Speed Seduction 3.0.

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Video 9: Forget Pick Up Lines, Use The Blurt Out!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 9th, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, which is 9 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery series, I reveal one of my favorite methods for meeting women: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out works great when you are in a situation that involves the woman walking past you while you are either stationary or walking in the other direct.

The other advantage of the Blurt Out is that it involves very little investment in your part. If she doesn’t turn around or come back to talk to you, you’ve lost zero.

Once again, the title is Forget Pick Up Lines: Use The Blurt Out To Meet Women!

Peace, piece and comment below me.

RJ

P.S. Did you know enrollment is now open for my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar? We’re filling up fast, so go here to check out what I’ll be teaching and while attending will be the best decision you’ll ever had made.

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Meet Women With This Direct, Can’t-Miss Opener

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 2nd, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Sometimes, the best approach with women is the direct approach.  And sometimes, when you run out of things to say, you need a “fall back” line that just doesn’t fail.

In this video, I reveal that line.  It speaks the truth in a simple, direct, non-threatening and honest way that usually has a very strongly positive impact.

Why?

Well, when most men go to meet women, they try to hide their intent, or they bludgeon women with that intent.

As an example of the latter, my Swedish sweetie, Pernilla, got hit on a lot when she was out here in LA, and the guys almost always just ran up to her and asked her out, without any introductory conversation at all.

Talk about clueless.

But I really like this opener because it comes across as something other than a pick up line.  And remember, pick up lines usually don’t work because they are predictable, trite, boring or even offensive.

But this one really rocks it. You will successfully meet women with this direct, can’t miss opener.

Please watch, and comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Enrollment is now open for my London Seminar, this August. Details are here.

P.P.S. For those of you who want to know if I teach “direct game” well, here is your answer.

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How To Be Funny/Use Humor And “Put Ons” To Meet Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 29th, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This video is number 6 of the 10 part Youtube Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series.( I know I say on the video that it is number 7 but actually it is number 6 .But really what the fuck does it matter?)

I teach my favorite method meeting women: the Put On.

This approach has many advantages, as I outline in this video.

1. It’s fun, so you do more of it.

2. It allows me to screen for women who enjoy my sense of humor and who can handle something a bit out of the ordinary-who in fact respond well and enjoy a bit out of the ordinary.

3. It’s unique so it gets positive attention.

Give it a watch and pass it on. And comment please.

Once again, the video is: Pick Up Artist Tactic: How To Be Funny/Use Put Ons To Meet Women

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you want to learn these methods, all in one place check out my Gold Walk Up DVD.

P.P.S. As I think you can see BY NOW, my advice for men goes way beyond pick up lines or traditional dating tips.  This is the real stuff, for real world results.

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