Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I recently received this e-mail from a student of mine about how Speed Seduction® helped him “up” his game with women this past New Years’.  No resolution, just motor-vation to success.

Let’s hear him share, in his own words:

Ross, I owe you a huge thank you for all of your free materials. I have never had any consistent luck with women and now it is fantastic. I have been following all of your rules and beliefs when approaching women and they have worked every time. I often find myself grounding a lot more often and this really seems to keep my focus and balance in check.

My New Years Eve started off great. I was at my third and final stop of the night when I say a gorgeous waitress across the room. I got her attention by snickering at her.  Your rule saved me from the start. “When in doubt take a bold step forward.” So I did. She asked me “What are you snickering at me for?” I replied “Because, I think you’re really cute.”  She said the same about me and then promptly said “Don’t go anywhere.” and she returned with her number.  Since the next day we were texting then in the bed room…..

If it was not for your free segment on “shutting down last minute hesitation” I would have been done. She said that “I just met you and we shouldn’t be doing this.” I then stopped to a breath and gently whisper to her “I understand and see your point. I too only want to do things that we are both truly comfortable with.” and bang it was on since then. She has been texting me nonstop and wanting to hangout. The other cool part of the story is we don’t even have much in common, I just seem to keep the patterns that I know working.

THIS IS A TRUE TESTIMONIAL TO ROSS’S TEACHING: She just graduated from a Major big name college with a psychology degree and can read me like a book. But Ross’s patterns slip right through all of her constant analyzing and work every time!!!!!!! This is great! Man I only wish I could view the entire new course, if one video made my new year perfect.

Ross, a true thanks from a grateful fan.

Al Levy
Council Bluffs, Iowa

RJ here again.  Did you catch that last part?

For those of you who still (misguidedly) think that top-notch, intelligent, sophisticated, intellectual women will not get wet, will not be irresistibly aroused, will not want to push forward in a new direction – that’s just not the case.  In Al’s case, the woman is specifically trained to pick up on patterns, persuasion techniques, etc.

The women are waiting.  What in Suzanne’s silk nightie are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The good news is – you can have my brand new course.  It’s called “Sexual Aggression Mastery” and it’s chock full of mindsets, skills, and techniques to get you through when resistance (either hers or yours) appears at the “moment of truth.”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time and time I’ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines.  There’s a reason why I hear it.

One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other):  a) She’ll pick up on it and give back non-receptive vibes, b) He’ll choke and beat a hasty retreat, c) he’ll find himself in a place where he has to psyche himself up each time he approaches a woman.

It gets worse.

The now-despondent male will often seek the advice of friends or heed the “conventional wisdom” and buy into the beliefs such as “Just be yourself,” “Love will happen as soon as you stop looking for it,” and (it pains me to say I’m not making this up) “You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.”

OK, enough. 

Please, hear this: 

This is why I say there are NO “answers” or “information” or “one right way”. There are only POTENTIAL answers and information that only become actualized by your testing, experimenting and ACTIONS in the world.

A huge piece of the puzzle is that guys have a severely restricted and slowed method of learning what works with women.

The ratio of worry/thinking to acting is way, way off and the primary method of learning is not experimenting in the world, but thinking about things.

Remember: Free your mind, and HER ass will follow.

Free your mind means looking deep into the code of how you’ve been keeping yourself stuck.

If the real structure of “stuck” is doing huge amounts of thinking and very little acting, then putting MORE or different thinking through that system won’t give you much change.

And you won’t get far with just a little pocket change.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You don’t always have to say a lot to “close” a woman.  Sometimes you’re in a hurry and don’t have time for chit-chat but you are highly interested in the woman you’re speaking with now and need to move things forward quickly.

I know how much you guys love word-for-word patterns, so I know you will truly enjoy this video clip:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In an ideal world (assuming there’s some fantasy-island “one definition” of “ideal” that fits every person and every situation), when Sarging a woman there would be no one else within earshot, no background noises, no distractions, no cell phones blaring, and nothing on her mind, at all, except overwhelming thoughts about how the most important thing to her in this world is the prospect of riding your baloney pony.

Wouldn’t it be nice?

Now how often does that happen?

Many students report challenges when meeting and conversing with women in public places, with other people around (and seeing and hearing what’s going on), when it comes to sealing the deal with her without putting her on the spot.

For example, one in particular asked a woman out in a public place and she said “Oh, but my calendar is so full.”  He suspects she really enjoys his attention, but she’s claiming a “full calendar” because she’s not keen on saying yes to him so publicly.

So first of all I ask…

What’s this “ask her out” stuff?

Tell her, “You know, I don’t have too much time, but why don’t we hang out for a while?”

DO NOT ASK WOMEN OUT ON “DATES”.

For all you know, she is very eager to f@@k, doesn’t WANT to go “out” with you, but is ready for lots of “in and out”.

When you focus on asking her “out” you are still(STILL!) thinking of sex as something that happens at the end of an evening or afternoon of “going somewhere” or “doing something”.

Guys, you must remove these chains from your mind. FREE YOUR MIND, AND *****HER***** ASS WILL FOLLOW!

I have a challenge/assignment for you. You won’t like it. You probably won’t do it. But here it is:

From now on… for the next 60 days… you will not get or accept a phone number, nor make a plan to later see/spend time with a woman until, unless and AFTER you and she have made out for at least 10 minutes.

THAT should re-orient your thinking nicely.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. And you know what else would help – having the ability to magically insert your desires into her head so that she begins to think its her idea to get with you!  These are ideas she can have, and act upon, no matter who’s eavesdropping.  Learn this and much, much more in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A student of mine reported a challenge he was facing.  When using various seduction patterns, he found the same thing kept happening.  He was getting the “B answer” result that might have kept conversation going – as opposed to the “A answer” which would have been a turbo-charged ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Let’s hear from him:

> Hi guys, today I’m stuck at home, and I was just going true my sarge journal. I noticed that most of the time I used the natural vs social pattern I ended up in a in intellectual discussion instead of becoming more of an authority in her world. Now that I think about it I’ve had the same problem with a pattern. I don’t know what it is called but it’s a combination of apposition of opposites and the fascination pattern. Do any of you guys have recognize something you might have done wrong in the past and that I can pay attention to. Or do you have any ideas how I can prevent these patterns from becoming an intellectual discussion and turn them into trance generators?

OK, RJ here again.

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: what attitude, energy and “vibe” about yourself is being communicated ACROSS and along with the “words”?

Are you communicating a crying need for approval? Are you hiding BEHIND the patterns, hoping against hope she won’t notice what a “geek” you are? What is the message about yourself that is being communicated along with the pattern language?

Listen: I’ve said it over and over and over and newbies don’t LISTEN AND GET IT NOW -

Think of the “patterns” as being more than the memorized “speeches”.

ANYTHING that opens her imagination and emotions is a “pattern” including your attitude, energy, what you notice and use in her responses, the questions you ask her, etc. etc. etc.

Now, think about this: if you wanted to send a 1,000 volt current, would you try to conduct it across a sheet of cardboard or a sheet of gold foil?

Equally good current, but the conductive medium matters.

Your attitude and energy and belief are the conductive medium across which the “voltage” of the pattern language will either go straight to her or simply go nowhere.

Second: have you ever really used your imagination and gotten some of the experience that you are describing in whatever “patterns” you are using? Do they reflect anything YOU have actually dreamed about, imagined, or experienced or are they merely empty words?

Third: Some women don’t get “abstract” concepts. Some have to have you address THEM directly: what excites them, what THEY enjoy what THEY do when they want to escape, get away, indulge themselves. Only AFTER that, can they at all open to more abstract discussions, like Natural vs. Culturally programmed woman.

How can you tell, in advance, if she’ll respond to more abstract patterns like Natural vs. Culturally programmed? Well, experience, in the field. But I would not start out with this pattern, especially with younger women. Save it for women in their late 20′s at least.

Start out with things that deal with HER world, and her direct experiences. If she responds well, build on that.

Make sure you also fractionate along the way; occasionally return to “fluff” talk. Challenge her to make sure she is adventurous enough and has a good enough imagination to explore these kinds of things.

Remember finally: THE pattern of ALL patterns is to watch her responses and utilize them! If she isn’t responding, back up, change themes, change what you are presenting, etc. etc. etc.

There is no “one” memorized pattern that works all the time for all women. Give up that fantasy. I have done “Incredible Connection” for years and some women melt into puddles in seconds, others NEVER GET IT.

So f@@king what? I haven’t just given you a single shot flintlock pistol. I’ve given you a 6,000 round per minute Phalanx II super-Gatling gun with unlimited ammo, to use a hostile metaphor.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A great way to teach you how to succeed with women is to let you see how it works in real-time.  A student of mine asked me to critique a recent supermarket pickup he did.  Watch and learn:

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It’s your choice HOW you do it, when you make the decision that today is the day you move forward and claim your results with the women you really, truly want to be with.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Every so often I find it necessary to debunk the naysayers.  Today is that “every so often.”

For example, those who say Speed Seduction® is silly or that “any intelligent woman would see right through it and think you’re a weirdo/perv/psycho.”

This particular band of naysayers say that if they used patterns and suggestive language, the woman they were using them on would lose her arousal right along with the soda pop that gushed through her nose as she laughed uncontrollably while taking a sip.

Here’s the thing: understanding phonological ambiguity and how it applies to phrases like “go inside”, “below me,” and “new day” is only half of the pie.  People hear those phrases almost every day but don’t automatically have sexual thoughts and images appear in their head.  Consciously, there often is no sexual connotation at all.

Meaning, OF COURSE that chick you’re chatting up isn’t automatically going to think of Private Wood showing up for calisthenics just because you drop the phrase “new direction” at a random point in conversation with her.

And if you use tonality incorrectly or at random, when you’re telling her about your latest ski trip and all of a sudden you change your tonality and say “new direction” with an abrupt lascivious look in your eye: yes, she’ll “get it”, and no, you probably won’t…”get it”.

So let’s amp up your understanding a little.

Do you ever have dreams at night? Do you CONSCIOUSLY think them up?

MOST of how we think, respond, act, feel and behave is outside of our conscious choice and awareness anyway.

As for the phrases like “below me” and “go inside”:

These things aren’t used in isolation. They are used as part of a chain of suggestions that are, themselves, part of an overall theme of discussion.

By themselves, isolated, they have no effect.

But as part of a chain of ideas, they have powerful effect.

Are you starting to get it now?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Remember two days ago when I shared some ways that using my teachings gets you more of the type of women you really want to be with?

Watch my interview with this student and learn how Speed Seduction® has him awash in the platinum blondes he really likes:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Nothing brings me more joy and satisfaction (well, maybe a few things do hehe) than hearing from you, my fans, friends, and students, about how Speed Seduction® gets you real results with real women in the real world.

Please take a moment to explore how this student used seemingly innocent conversation when getting to know a woman he just met and how it led to them getting VERY acquainted…

Ross,

For the longest time, I was confused, anxious, and deeply depressed when it came with women.  I resorted to tactics of begging to get phone numbers and they often led nowhere.  A friend had recommended your products along time ago and after purchasing the product, I used it for a couple weeks, felt it was a bunch of bullshit (having never actually used it) and it sat in my large collection of PUA material for about 2 years.

Fast forward to November 2010, after breaking up with a girl that I only met through being ‘setup’, I found myself reading and learning the material once again.  I practiced as Manny Martian for a couple weeks at a local mall.  I had no results other than a few laughs and being asked kindly to leave the mall.  This made me more determined and I wasn’t ready to give up just yet.  I was invited to a local coffee house/bar to which found a very hot estonian woman in her early 20′s with long legs and green eyes.  She was gorgeous.  I sat at the bar for the longest time afraid to approach her as I thought the guy standing next to her was her boyfriend.  “There is no way a girl that hot is single.” I kept telling myself.

Eventually I worked up the courage to go speak with her and said, “Excuse me, but I noticed if I didn’t say something we’d never have a chance to meet. I’m Jack.”  She smiled, and introduced herself as Eliisabet.  We talked for a couple hours about everything from her ideal vacation spot, rollercoasters on the discovery channel, to anticipation and compulsion. She said, “I’m tired of baby sitting my friend, I want to go somewhere quiet and get to know you better” and that is when we went back to my place to “get to know each other better.”

So, I know this material works.  I still am learning how it works and why it works… but it 100% works!!

Jack R. Thomas
Toronto, Ontario

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. What differentiates this student from everyone else who gave Speed Seduction® a cursory glance and dismissed it?  He went back to it, immersed himself in it, and let it guide him to the ripe fields of moist pink abundance.  You, too, will have this when you click here now.