Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s an actual “pick up sequence” that you can take to the car wash.

Use this on that dripping wet (in more ways than one) hottie and you’ll get more than just your hubcaps polished.  You’ll get more than just your dashboard Armor-All-ed.  You’ll get more than just your bumpers waxed.  You’ll get more than your tailpipe…ok…you get it.

Watch how this worked for a student of mine, using 3 out of the 4 energetic vibes & attitudes that turn women on.

After dropping off his car and paying the cashier, he sat down in front of her, in the waiting area. She was removing one of her shoes to scratch her foot.  The shoe was one of those gold-spangled slipper type things.

Looking over his shoulder, he said, “Cute shoe”.

She said, “it’s comfy”.

He said, “Cute and Comfy. Those are the names of my cats”.

She laughed.

(Do you see what he is doing here? He went from making a comment to being funny.)

He said,  “Ok. That was probably the 5th dumbest thing I’ve said to meet a cute girl all week. The dumbest was probably, “Where did you get that magazine?” and we were standing in a bookstore.”

She laughed again and said, “It wasn’t that bad!”

Now, notice what he is doing here. He is using an IMPLIED compliment. He didn’t tell her directly that he thought she was cute.

No, he said that what he said to her was one of the dumbest things he’d said to meet a cute girl.

He IMPLIED it, rather than directly stated it. Remember, what you IMPLY has to be processed by the woman’s imagination, and therefore she will perceive it as her own thought, rather than something you are trying to impose on her. Knowing when to imply and when to directly state something  is a very powerful skill set indeed!

Him, “No, seriously, my flirt-powers have gone to shit. It must be the holidays!”

Her, “I think you are doing fine!”

Him, “Ah, guys’ll say anything. Our need to procreate doesn’t always get a good message to the brain.”

Now, what is he doing here, guys?

He’s actually disarming her by appearing to stumble over himself. This makes him appear vulnerable, genuine and sincere, rather than a polished pick-up artist! Remember, women want to be intrigued by you, but they also want to feel safe!

Her, “What’s your name?”

Notice she shows her interest by asking his name first! So they exchanged names and handshakes.

At this point, however, she was still sitting behind him and he had to change that. He wanted her sitting beside him to build the connection.

Looking at her kind of cock-eyed he said, “You know, your piri-spinal muscles are laterally asymmetrical”

She looked puzzled. “What does that mean?”

He said, “Stand up and come over here” in a fairly commanding tone.  She did exactly that.

“Turn around,” he said.

Then he put his hands on her hips. “One hip is a little higher than another. So when you Salsa (then he started moving her hips around like she was dancing and she got with it and start moving too!) make sure you keep this hip even with this one.”

Then he took her hand and sat her down in the chair next to him.

Now, this stuff about her muscles and hips was nonsense. But because she couldn’t figure out if he was complimenting her or criticizing her, she had to get curious and co-operate further!

“Wow,” he said. “I think my flirt powers just started working.”

At this point, she got very curious about him, started peppering him with questions, etc. etc, so he simply said, “you know, I can tell we will enjoy talking to each other a lot more somewhere, some other time…so if you aren’t seeing anyone right now, maybe we can hang out and talk.”

Note what he did here is to future pace enjoying being around him another time.

At that point she offered her number, without his having to ask, and he gave her his as well.

Note that in this less than 10 minute conversation he built comfort, curiosity, intrigue and some connection. Note that he went back and forth from being self-effacing, to being funny, to being a little puzzling, to being commanding.

When you can learn to alternate and offer these different vibes and aspects of yourself to a woman, it really ups your success!  Note that once he saw she had sufficient curiosity and interest, he did NOT ask her out. He simply told her what he could imagine (therefore directing HER to imagine it) and she went right along by offering her number to him without his having to ask.

Remember, when you just ask for a number, you put yourself into the category as all the other guys who are trying to get into her pants. If instead you create the curiosity, comfort, intrigue and connection and then describe what you can imagine, she will go right along and offer her number as part of the continuation of the connection she is feeling and wants to continue to enjoy.

Ok. Hope you learned from and enjoyed this example pick-up.

Piece and peace,
RJ

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P.P.S. Be careful when first meeting a woman about touching her. In this case, he sensed her comfort and also created enough intrigue that touching her on her hips was fine. But be careful and I don’t recommend that to the beginner at all! Use your best judgment and always keep a woman’s boundaries and safety concerns in mind at all times!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the most frequent questions I get is, “What happens if she x’s when I run a pattern?”

X could be “laugh” or “look bored” or whatever “negative” response you might think of.

A fundamental principle of any kind of persuasion (and seduction IS a sub-set of persuasion) is,

“USE WHATEVER RESPONSE SHE GIVES YOU”

To put it more clearly, I have a set of beliefs I come from:

1. I never take her first response as written in stone. It’s just a reflection of what she is thinking feeling or believing in THAT moment(or the part of her mind she is coming from) and it is always subject to change.
2. Anything she offers me is just a toy for me to play with.
3. Anything she offers me is just information I can use
4. Anything she offers me is just energy to be redirected
5. She can do whatever she wants: I CONTROL WHERE MY ENERGY GOES.

So let’s say a woman “laughs” at you or with you when you run a pattern.

The first thing to realize is, they are NOT laughing it off.  They are laughing it IN. Oftentimes, what you are getting is the laugh of recognition, not the laugh of resistance.

But let’s say she IS resisting a bit. Remember this: resistance is just a sign she is responding strongly to what you are offering and is scared of how strongly she is responding.

What she is seeking is some safety and a measure of feeling a bit more in control.

In that case, simply change the subject.  If you are describing an incredible connection, and you see she is in to it, but suddenly she does a 180 and looks a bit uncomfortable, BACK OFF.

Simply change the tone to something lighter or something funny.  Point out something going on in the environment around you, “Oh my God, did you see what your cat just did?” Give her a chance to regain some comfort, then go back to the direction you were going.

We call this “fractionation” in traditional hypnosis. Each time you go into a trance and then are brought back out, you go progressively deeper in the next time and the time after that.

The other aspect of this is self-control: keeping your state solid and steady and grounded, even when she APPEARS to be unresponsive or responding “negatively”.

Remember, it is the meaning and interpretation you give things, along with how you direct your body’s energetic flow that determines what will happen. The more you can stay relaxed in the immediate present, without referencing your past or worrying about the future, the more you can bring your power and skills to bear in even the diciest situations.

Now, things will not always work out as planned; you will still find situations that don’t go as you like, but you will have stretched yourself into new areas of learning and be more capable for the next wonderful woman(or whacked out witch) who comes your way.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I’ve dealt with the ethics of boyfriend destroying.  Today, I am going to share an actual Sarge report from a student who successfully used this technique.  Stay with me for a moment as I lay it out for you.

There’s a scintillatingly hot clerk at his local convenience store.  After seeing her and chatting her up a few times, he realized he needed to step up and claim his results.  So, on his third visit, he made his move.  Setting aside a plan to go back and say “when I was here earlier I forgot to pick up a few things” he decided instead to clearly state his intention when he saw her.

She heard what he had to say, then nicely told him she has a boyfriend.

His reponse?  “So what?  I wasn’t expecting you to LEAVE HIM FOR ME.” (Embedded command).

Then she said, “I really care about him, and he wouldn’t like it, and I just don’t do that kind of thing.”

He replied, “I really respect that. I hope someday you change your mind, and have a great day.”

And Then, HIS Day Got Much, Much Better…

At that moment, the most incredible thing happened.

She just melted. She OPENED UP she had been going through a really rough time lately, etc. He looked her in the eye and said “I’m so sorry. I know what it’s like, and things just get worse and worse no matter how hard you try. And I hope things get better for you soon.” He turned to walk away and she caught his arm and said “Wait”, wrote her phone number down and handed it to him.

The Keys To The Kingdom Are Dangling Before You

Just like the most delicious, perfectly shaped, more-than-a-mouthful boobies that have ever made their way to your face while she straddled you.

I tell you, when you get results like this, you are not far from the Kingdom of Sarge. When you hear my words and do them, you shall live in moist, pink abundance, forever and ever, Sarge without end.

The ability to see where the other person is at WITHOUT HAVING TO GO THERE YOURSELF is a key skill in any form of persuasion/seduction/influencing.

When you can combine equanimity with uncertainty – being ok with not knowing what is going to happen AND giving the other person radical permission to have their FIRST response to you, it creates an unbelievably powerful doorway for something unexpected to occur.

Believe what I say and you shall inherit the Kingdom of Poontang.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

When we consider the concept of “charisma”, there are two elements I often point out – particularly when they find themselves rehearsing their lines or what they’re going to say when they approach a woman.

These are: a) stepping into the unknown and b) holding space for the other person to have whatever initial response they are going to have.

A student asked me whether that means “surrendering” to the unknown (a), and making yourself vulnerable of being open to receive (b).

He was close, but here is the true meaning. If you’re feeling the need to “rehearse” or play it in your mind 100 times before just walking up to her, consider this…

1) Stepping into the unknown and being truly ok without having to know ahead of time what is going to happen. You accept that you don’t know, and maybe at first that you don’t like that you don’t know, but you don’t dramatize it or spin around it.

You just don’t know. And you decide to move forward anyway.

2)  By hold space I mean:

• It’s ok for them to have their FIRST response. You don’t take their FIRST response as being their final response.
• You don’t REQUIRE their permission OR their support for your new moves and your courageous action.

A lot of guys think that a woman OWES it to them to be polite open because the guy is willing to take the “risk” to go up and meet them/talk to them first.

Well, that attitude is bullshit. The woman hasn’t signed a contract saying that she is REQUIRED to support you in your efforts to improve your sex/love/social life.

You’re stepping forward because it is what YOU , as an adult, have chosen to do and because you are determined(DETERMINED) to bust through your limitations.

Now, can you be determined AND relaxed AND even have a sense of humor about it?

You can if you know how to untangle yourself.

Let me clarify one more thing: just because you don’t REQUIRE certainty or REQUIRE the other person to have a “good response” and be supportive doesn’t mean you don’t take those things as being good or something of value.

It’s just not what determines your stepping forward.

Some guys are waiting to be super-powerful and radiating charm BEFORE they make a move.

Well, yes, you CAN rehearse in charm etc, for sure.

But for some guys, it’s a mistake because they are already too much in their heads and, or THEM, the rehearsing just gets in the way of taking action.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here’s a pick-up technique that I’ve seen done so many times that if I had a dollar for every time this happened, right in front of my eyes…

…I’d never have to work another minute in my life even if I spent it frivolously.

Man approaches woman.  Man takes out paper tablet and colored pencils.  Man asks if he can sketch the woman.  She says yes or no.  Assuming she says yes, man sketches woman.  Man then shows woman the sketch.  She oooohhhs and aaaaahhhs.  Man asks woman out.

More often than not, man gets shot down.

Now, stick with me for a moment while I show you…

A New Take On The Sketching Approach That “Draws” You More Ladies

A student of mine who uses this approach carries around a sketchbook full of “everyday life” sketches.  He’s always sketching, always drawing, always practicing.

Recently, he sat near two women and started sketching.  After a few minutes he said “Excuse me. I am trying to make both of you a sketch, but you are moving all the time and I can`t finish the details. Would you mind staying still for five minutes?” They looked at him funny for a minute, then with a “well, why not?” reaction, asked him how he wanted them to pose.  After he drew them, he thanked them and closed the sketch book.

How Did This “Draw” The Women Closer?

Here’s the unexpected twist; he didn’t do what they expected.  He projected the experience as something that requires them to co-operate better if they are going to be part of it. He broke what they would normally expect; a guy to ASK if he could sketch them. Instead he told them he was already doing so, AND telling them that they weren’t doing it right!  They can’t tell if you are approving of them or disapproving, if you want something from them as a sexual approach or something else.

Then he didn’t offer to show it to them, he just closed the book and forgot about them.

What Is Really Going On Here…

…is continually doing the unexpected! Pattern interruption creates the openness to be led.

I will say that again.

The core principle here is, “Do the unexpected in a way that creates MORE intrigue and a desire to move forward on the part of the woman.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s nothing I love more than a successful and wildly happy student relating his horny-tale of seduction suck-cess!

Today, I want to share one of my favorite student e-mails of all time. Here is his email, word for word. Yes, it is a long one, but I wanted to give it to you unedited.

Here it is:

Dear Almighty Guru Ross,

Thanks dude!

I still consider myself a very beginner student of yours… I wanted to study your 3.0 course before we chat because I know it works but I need to get better… I need SS to flow like a river… like a smooth seductive sauve rapper! I know I need to MAKE IT MY OWN. Keep it true and honest and really truly care about the woman and the states she floats between…. I may be a beginner, but I have studied mystery and others for years… yet this makes sense… common sense… it is more natural to my poetic style as a person… and damn it Ross-it works like a charm…

Every day I game…. It’s the only way to test this shit out on REAL women in REAL time. I go out. That’s what I do….. I get better… But I have a long WAYYYYY I know….

BUT I USED YOUR STUFF ON THIS SEXY 9HB INTERNATIONAL RUNWAY MODEL and had her so horny I could read it in her eyes like a neon sign, so I just leaned in for the kiss. Security is getting to know me a little too well in that parking structure. There was a camera RIGHT above the car but WE DIDN’T CARE it was tooooo smoking hot! Her nipples were cute, lil’ pink erect nipples gone wild…..  I guess thanks to you it’s time to put aside the girl’s gone nuts porn… time for these experiences to happen in realtime! Fuck yeah! I paid my dues to total unappreciative bitches that cleaned me out… NOW I have all the control back in the driver’s seat and I deserve to live life to the fullest. Look out rock stars…. I can speak in verse just as well….

So the next day after that 20 year old hot model I was really feeling like I wanted MORE of this same hot model….  SHIT! I’m JUST A BEGINNER OF YOURS! I didn’t know exactly about DAY 2 game! I remember you say to live the life-don’t let the woman down by slipping back into chump-keep running patterns-make up my own…. I began freaking out like what to do next. This is where I could have slipped into AFC mode but I got out my reading stuff of DAY 2 Game…..

Understand-this is my life now. I must improve myself at this point in my life. I game every day and have cut my work back to freelance so I could work on myself fulltime to be the best I can be. I had terrible one-itis for 2 years with a bitch who ran me ragged… I feel ashamed at the wanton nice guy supplication! I know this is the best revenge! 3.0 landed me a life-changing delicious spicy muffin, a gorgeous sexy and fun woman. AND what fucking guy doesn’t want to open his eyes and see a HOT model writhing in passion and craving, begging another passionate kiss right before his eyes? I THOUGHT I WAS DREAMING… and then I thought with a big smile… FUCK YOU ROSS YOU SON-OF-A-BITCH-YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD-ON RIGHT ABOUT SS and now 3.0!!!!!!!!!! I smiled… then I went back to smoochin’! I ain’t a fool…….!!! hahaha

I re-read your seminar transcripts and then I called her back… In my head I’m trying to overcome the altered state of being enamored with her… I repeated some words back…. waffle and hickey’s (don’t ask…haha) to try to bring her back to that state….. but she sounds a little down-key… Where is that energy she had at? Did I blow it?

I was tossing and turning all night trying not to think of her which made my CONFIDENCE go down and think I wouldn’t hear from her again… I got really depressed about it! I guess I’m used to women flaking….

I did the patterns…. I did the anchor to HER fucking words and repeated back… I gave her a .49 cent crystal to hold to remember me…. (I buy them in bulk haha! I have secret techniques too!) AND we had a sexual and emotional connection THE FIRST 3 HOURS OF MEETING HER and running patterns….. at least the ones I could remember under pressure…. and an erection the size of Florida.

I was thinking: what was Mystery talking about this taking 7 hours and hopping clubs…

WELL ROSS! GUESS WHAT BOSS THE ROSS!!!!!! She texted me today and we are going to spend THANKSGIVING together…. THE WHOLE DAY…. Let’s do the math: She’s 20, horny and wetter than a warm summer rain from the patterns I constantly make up and run 24/7…. I got us a THANKSGIVING hotel room…. you said young girls are all about the sex….hehe Ross…. Go ahead boss… Do The FUCKING Math… SS Student+Patterns+Hotel room+Young Hot Model==Equals: ….. Er… Um… I won’t be checking email until I check out….hahahahahah!!!!

Like you say, it’s not an hour a day. It’s 24 hours a day. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE CHANGE that once you get in you’ll never go back to “chump” again. You can’t! It’s like learning to ride a bike-you will never forget this. You can use it with women or work or like I did on a suicidal friend of mine. Got him to break bad trrance and go into good. It’s THAT simple. Thanks for being my teacher. (By the way-You are right-Tony Robbins is a tad too gung-ho!)

THANKS ROSS! I am moved to tears that somebody finally showed me the right fucking way…… This is my whole life… fighting back after a lifetime of boring dull marriage and NO women experience… to become the man every woman wants to get to know….. and they can’t figure out why they have so much fun with me…! (it’s running patterns to keep their mind open to the possibilities…

THANKS FOR MY THANKSGIVING PRESENT! (gobble gobble…!)

I’ll be sure to stuff the bird real good for ya……….

Ok, RJ back again. Pretty good stuff, huh?

So what is your story and why aren’t you enjoying this Thanksgiving with some moist, pink relief?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Many guys are so concerned that they might flub their lines or look silly when approaching women, that they never find the energy to get started.  Even experienced girl-getters sometimes need a little boost.

So, take down the “Manny The Martian” exercise and you’ll have an automatic, “on tap” opener whenever you need it:

anxiety4-mannythemartian

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

To truly grasp, harness, and master the mighty power that comes with getting all the women your heart desires, you must gain a firm hold on not only the patterns and techniques, but the manner in which these are created.

Many students follow the patterns and phrases I teach, word-for-word, and are getting chicks like crazy.  And I might add, at the same time handling their business and not getting sidelined by crazy chicks.

One of my students explained to me how he uses a specific sequence of songs from his favorite musician, drawing levels of a woman’s attention to certain lyric snippets, things about the music and the beat, and changes in the singer’s voice.  He has her experience the music, then trace her feelings about the music and feed it back to him.

He actually invented this on the fly, exactly one year ago today, when he was “stuck” on a Sarge and having a hard time opening her up.  He often forgets his lines so memorizing “Twin Brothers” or “Discovery Channel” isn’t a walk in the park for him.

But yet, after an evening with her punctuated by awkward silences and repeated failed attempts to rev her up, this improvised music pattern had her dragging him into his bedroom and throwing herself at him in less than 20 minutes. 

I mean, he knows the music inside and out.  He listens to it every damn day.  Why SHOULDN’T he put it to work for him, getting him more women?   Now, you already figured out – it’s not the songs.  It’s what my student does with them.

And how was my student just able to “make this up” and then be able to easily recreate and re-use it (he’s used it successfully at least three times since then)?

It’s a version (a crude albeit effective version) of something known as “demo construction“  When you create a “demo” and use it on a woman, you achieve many things:

1. It allows you to test to see how she responds to instructions
2. It allows you to test to see how suggestible she is
3. It conditions her to follow directions and sets the frame that SHE is the one who must perform for YOU.
4. It takes feelings in her body and amplifies, putting them under YOUR control AND at the same time, making them more vivid and more REAL for HER and thus more controllable by YOU.
5. It allows her to confirm for herself that she is enjoying the experience and wants to reach for more, thus creating the illusion of participation.
6. It creates fascination and intrigue on her part, and the perception that you are unique, powerful, and someone from whom she can really experience, enjoy and learn.

Now, if you ask me, being able to make up your own patterns, using proven seduction techniques, translating the things you enjoy into more enjoyment with the ladies?  This, my friends, is a song we can all dance to.  Dance in the sheets, that is.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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(WARNING: This is advanced stuff, like adding nitrous oxide to the Corvette.)

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

One of the patterns I teach is the “Boyfriend Destroyer” which you’d use when you approach a woman and she tells you she has a boyfriend.

This pattern has some naysayers.  Here are a couple of them:

“Doesn’t that make you a small man, having to go after someone else’s woman?”

“Why would you want to spend time on a woman who’s going to lie to you within 3 minutes of meeting you?  Why would you want to be with a woman who cheats?”

“Why would you waste your time on a woman who is taken or says she is?  What about these tens of thousands of women you say I can get?”

Well, today I call bullshit on the naysaying with a few facts about “boyfriend destroying.”

It’s just a sad fact that many women who SAY they have a boyfriend either are lying outright, responding out of auto-pilot, or they are stuck in real-hate-shun-ships by default.

The reality is, most very attractive women ARE probably going to be with someone.  Most women regardless of their place on the HB scale are “seeing someone” – but does that mean it’s “exclusive?”

If you wait until you find girls who are totally officially “single” you may be waiting a long time.

Think about this:

You can use fire to heat your camp at night. Or you can use it to burn down a building.

You can use a knife to stab an innocent person in the heart. Or you can use it to cut someone’s bonds and set them free.

I believe that not caving in to a woman’s first “knee-jerk” response is a good thing.

I’m creating a space for her to have a new choice, to respond with more freedom and act differently.  By doing this, I serve HER.

Listen: if she really, REALLY loves the guy, she will let you know and you aren’t going to get anywhere anyway.  So you “Exit, Stage Left” but she’ll probably think you’re a nice guy.  Maybe nice enough she’ll introduce you to her actually-single friends.  But what you WILL get EVERY time is the practice that sharpens the skills that will get you your next ten successes with women.

Is THAT such a bad thing?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If you want to learn how to meet women easily, anytime, anywhere, and totally have them eating out of the palm of your hand (and the  fly of your pants) despite her “I have a boyfriend” opening statement, just click here.

You’ll be doing you, and her, a service.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I’m taking a quick gander through my Lovely Mail Bag here and there are two e-mails from students here.  When I put them together, I think they sort of solve each other.   Let’s give this a try.

The first is from someone who seems to be having a little problem with his walk-ups:

“When I go up to her, no matter what I do to make the situation fun, it still feels like I am a stranger who has moved into her space to hit on her.   She knows what I am there for, no matter how ‘innocent’ or ‘just friendly’ I might be trying to be.  So she’s on her guard and sometimes it freaks ME out and I stumble.”

Not a minute later I read a Sarge report that had this interesting snippet in it:

“I opened the gal with an observation that her 2nd toe was bigger than her big toe. Since she is an HB 9.5, she was floored. She told me later that she just couldn’t get over that. She’s used to guys telling her how beautiful she is. I’ve NEVER told her that. And she’s one of the gals that I hang out ‘with benefits’ to this day.”

This makes me wonder…

How Did Morton’s Toe Beat Out Playful And Innocent? 

It’s like this:  Making an observation about her toe was an interesting opener because it combines more than one “energy” or attitude. It combines a matter of fact observation, that is true, along with something of a put-on, on your part. Her toes being uneven isn’t REALLY what is most noticeable about her, I’m sure, so you were kind of putting your tongue in your cheek, though I’m sure it wasn’t visibly done so!

The best “openers” tend to combine these positions or energies.

Here’s one I like to use:

“I don’t get it.”

I’ll say this to a woman who has an unusual design or logo on her shirt. It’s a put-on in that I am pretending to be puzzled. It’s also a comment/question about something going on with her. And also, by not saying “excuse me” or anything like that, it is a put-on in that I am addressing her like I already know her: “I don’t get it” is something her boyfriend or roomate or friend would say if she came into the room wearing something like that, as opposed to what a stranger would say, which would be more like,

“What’s your shirt mean?”

See the difference?  She will (subconsciously).  And things will go a LOT different.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The real genius of mastering your girl-getting game isn’t just the suggestive language – it’s also the clever way in which it’s structured to seem like a perfectly ordinary conversation!  Click here to learn more…