Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here are a few worn-out, wasted, and woe-begone cliches you’ve probably heard before.

“Men and women must be in love before they have sex.” “Women will most likely have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another 6 months, because they believe love takes time.” (Is this why the “third date” is assigned so much importance?)

As you continue to master your girl-getting game and achieve more and more tight trim triumph… as you peel away the layers of doubt and beliefs that haven’t served you… please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed. As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is what makes Speed Seduction® unique and special: it requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

Well, my belief is that you can NOT have a truly “loving” relationship WITHOUT sex. So there.

Forget about such stupid generalities as the “all important third date” and other calls to mastur-wait-ion. Those who preach these ideas base them on THEIR limits.  Just because THEY need to go on “dates” and follow the “rules” to get the chick in bed, YOU should too.  That’s how they’d have it.

I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. Some never do.

Look, the real issue is: will doing as OTHERS say help YOU go where you need to?

What is the process – the methodology – by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?

Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”

The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”

More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction / suck-sex requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.  The best way to do this is twofold – reprogram the belief mentally and through ritual.  Explore my Nail Your Inner Game and Magick/Psychic Influence courses.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

They say tomorrow is a very unique New Years’ because the date will be 1-1-11.  It leads me to ask, one-one-one-one-what?

Will you overcome “the 1″ thing that’s been holding you back from enjoying the success with women that, up until now, you have not quite achieved, for whatever reason?

Since you’re ready to step up to the plate, will you take “the 1″ step that will put at least three scandalously hot women (maybe all at the same time!) in your bed – the bed that up until now you’ve had all to yourself – within the next 90 days?

If you’re looking to settle down, will you find “the 1″ woman whose presence in your world will fundamentally change your life and become your partner in creating the vision for your lifestyle you’ve held for years, but up until now weren’t sure you’d ever achieve?

Will you take “the 1″ action that will set change into motion so in 365 days, when you’re again rattling off your “this was the year that was” summary while you wait for the big ball to drop, you’re saying to yourself…

“Wow, This Was The Best Fucking Year Ever!”

Look: I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, New Years’ Resolutions are bullshit.

If claiming your results with the women you truly desire is something you “resolved” to do two weeks ago but said “I’ll start that in January, it will be my New Years’ resolution”, all you’ve done is let 20,160 minutes blow right by without  her blowing…you get the picture.

So, instead of a resolution, I’m going to give you empowering statements that you can use today, tomorrow, next week, two months from Thursday, ANY day and EVERY day that you claim your choice:

• “Today is the last day of the way I used to be.”
• “Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better…now.”
• “My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.“

Will 2011 be “the 1″ year where you achieve the Vaginal Victory you’ve wanted for up until now?  Will you take that “1″ step?

Peace and piece,

- RJ

P.S. In 2011, get the women YOU truly desire, on YOUR terms, without guess work or games, or you pay NOTHING, with the newly-released Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.

And, unlike one of those silly New Years’ Resolutions, this is something you can have RIGHT NOW – as in, instant download.  Ready?  Click here to get “the 1″ Vaginal Victory Vault.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

So, she walks in.  She’s hot.  You want her.  Bad.

Then…you draw a blank.  You start talking in your head.  About how you just can’t pull it off.   Knowing (and already beating yourself…up) that you won’t be talking to her…though you’ll be pulling it…off…later, thinking about her.  (Wow, holy double entendre!)

In this video, ripped right out of my huge collection of training modules, learn some powerful tools to deal with this:

approach-anxiety

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If what I described is a problem for you, then your problems are about to be solved.  Gain the confidence, the skills, and the tools you need to effortlessly walk up to her, seduce her, and make her yours, anytime, anyplace, with Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s nothing I love more than a successful and wildly happy student relating his horny-tale of seduction suck-cess!

Today, I want to share one of my favorite student e-mails of all time. Here is his email, word for word. Yes, it is a long one, but I wanted to give it to you unedited.

Here it is:

Dear Almighty Guru Ross,

Thanks dude!

I still consider myself a very beginner student of yours… I wanted to study your 3.0 course before we chat because I know it works but I need to get better… I need SS to flow like a river… like a smooth seductive sauve rapper! I know I need to MAKE IT MY OWN. Keep it true and honest and really truly care about the woman and the states she floats between…. I may be a beginner, but I have studied mystery and others for years… yet this makes sense… common sense… it is more natural to my poetic style as a person… and damn it Ross-it works like a charm…

Every day I game…. It’s the only way to test this shit out on REAL women in REAL time. I go out. That’s what I do….. I get better… But I have a long WAYYYYY I know….

BUT I USED YOUR STUFF ON THIS SEXY 9HB INTERNATIONAL RUNWAY MODEL and had her so horny I could read it in her eyes like a neon sign, so I just leaned in for the kiss. Security is getting to know me a little too well in that parking structure. There was a camera RIGHT above the car but WE DIDN’T CARE it was tooooo smoking hot! Her nipples were cute, lil’ pink erect nipples gone wild…..  I guess thanks to you it’s time to put aside the girl’s gone nuts porn… time for these experiences to happen in realtime! Fuck yeah! I paid my dues to total unappreciative bitches that cleaned me out… NOW I have all the control back in the driver’s seat and I deserve to live life to the fullest. Look out rock stars…. I can speak in verse just as well….

So the next day after that 20 year old hot model I was really feeling like I wanted MORE of this same hot model….  SHIT! I’m JUST A BEGINNER OF YOURS! I didn’t know exactly about DAY 2 game! I remember you say to live the life-don’t let the woman down by slipping back into chump-keep running patterns-make up my own…. I began freaking out like what to do next. This is where I could have slipped into AFC mode but I got out my reading stuff of DAY 2 Game…..

Understand-this is my life now. I must improve myself at this point in my life. I game every day and have cut my work back to freelance so I could work on myself fulltime to be the best I can be. I had terrible one-itis for 2 years with a bitch who ran me ragged… I feel ashamed at the wanton nice guy supplication! I know this is the best revenge! 3.0 landed me a life-changing delicious spicy muffin, a gorgeous sexy and fun woman. AND what fucking guy doesn’t want to open his eyes and see a HOT model writhing in passion and craving, begging another passionate kiss right before his eyes? I THOUGHT I WAS DREAMING… and then I thought with a big smile… FUCK YOU ROSS YOU SON-OF-A-BITCH-YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD-ON RIGHT ABOUT SS and now 3.0!!!!!!!!!! I smiled… then I went back to smoochin’! I ain’t a fool…….!!! hahaha

I re-read your seminar transcripts and then I called her back… In my head I’m trying to overcome the altered state of being enamored with her… I repeated some words back…. waffle and hickey’s (don’t ask…haha) to try to bring her back to that state….. but she sounds a little down-key… Where is that energy she had at? Did I blow it?

I was tossing and turning all night trying not to think of her which made my CONFIDENCE go down and think I wouldn’t hear from her again… I got really depressed about it! I guess I’m used to women flaking….

I did the patterns…. I did the anchor to HER fucking words and repeated back… I gave her a .49 cent crystal to hold to remember me…. (I buy them in bulk haha! I have secret techniques too!) AND we had a sexual and emotional connection THE FIRST 3 HOURS OF MEETING HER and running patterns….. at least the ones I could remember under pressure…. and an erection the size of Florida.

I was thinking: what was Mystery talking about this taking 7 hours and hopping clubs…

WELL ROSS! GUESS WHAT BOSS THE ROSS!!!!!! She texted me today and we are going to spend THANKSGIVING together…. THE WHOLE DAY…. Let’s do the math: She’s 20, horny and wetter than a warm summer rain from the patterns I constantly make up and run 24/7…. I got us a THANKSGIVING hotel room…. you said young girls are all about the sex….hehe Ross…. Go ahead boss… Do The FUCKING Math… SS Student+Patterns+Hotel room+Young Hot Model==Equals: ….. Er… Um… I won’t be checking email until I check out….hahahahahah!!!!

Like you say, it’s not an hour a day. It’s 24 hours a day. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE CHANGE that once you get in you’ll never go back to “chump” again. You can’t! It’s like learning to ride a bike-you will never forget this. You can use it with women or work or like I did on a suicidal friend of mine. Got him to break bad trrance and go into good. It’s THAT simple. Thanks for being my teacher. (By the way-You are right-Tony Robbins is a tad too gung-ho!)

THANKS ROSS! I am moved to tears that somebody finally showed me the right fucking way…… This is my whole life… fighting back after a lifetime of boring dull marriage and NO women experience… to become the man every woman wants to get to know….. and they can’t figure out why they have so much fun with me…! (it’s running patterns to keep their mind open to the possibilities…

THANKS FOR MY THANKSGIVING PRESENT! (gobble gobble…!)

I’ll be sure to stuff the bird real good for ya……….

Ok, RJ back again. Pretty good stuff, huh?

So what is your story and why aren’t you enjoying this Thanksgiving with some moist, pink relief?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. My Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course is just what you need to stuff some pink stocking for the Holidays.  Get your copy now and get cracking with puss-packing.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

So, you have this scandalously hot ex-girlfriend, or fuck buddy, or whatever. It’s in the past, you’ve moved on and she’s moved on, but you still think about her…about it…about how amazing it was. And, if you had the chance to do it all over, yeah, you’d still do her.

They’ve been saying it for ages, we all know: “ex sex” can be a great thing.

You crack open your little black book and take a chance. Yes, that’s still her number. Yes, that’s her answering. And ohhh yes, she’s glad to hear from you because YES, she’s been thinking the same thing you have. You say those things to bring up the good old feelings, running those patterns that get her breathing really hard and loud. Just like old times.  OH YES.

Then, when you think you’re about to go for a reunion ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle, she’s all “well it was nice talking to you again” and “yeah, I agree, let’s get together…sometime.” Subsequent calls to that phone number seem to find their way to her voicemail after just one ring.

What Put The Kibosh On The Ex Sex?

Why did she pull back, JUST when you HAD her? Simple: BECAUSE YOU DIDN’T PULL BACK!

You handed the thrill to her without her having to work for the reward, confirm or ratify she is enjoying it, etc etc.

Because it’s phone fantasy, why would she bring it to real life and risk losing it? After all, some night YOU will be horny, and she still has YOUR number, too, right?

I’ve learned over and over until I finally got it: don’t do too much over the phone because then they won’t want to risk ruining the fantasy with real life exploration!

Also, it’s so powerful, it’s overwhelming and therefore terrifying. You took her so way, wayy beyond what others can give that now she is scared. It’s human nature, unless you:

1. do things on a gradient. Start with just what she can take, then build up from there.
2. make her work for it.
3. give suggestions that she MUST get more for herself; how it takes an ability to find and follow your desire to HAVE more..you know where the source of this is and you just have to CUM…back…TO THE SOURCE to really get what it is you are seeking…ME…
4. get her ratifying that she wants more and let her know that if she wants more she has to say “MORE PLEASE”.

Do this, and yeah it won’t be as exciting of a phone call, but what DOES happen next WILL beat a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. To bring your ex back to sex, it’s crucial to recapture her imagination, get her back into those intense positive emotional states, and get them linked back to you. Only you. Not some guy she just met who sort of reminds her of you. How? It’s all inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Do you believe…I mean REALLY believe…that when you offer your gifts to the world and in particular to the women you desire, it IS a
gift?

Do you believe that women want these feelings and that you can have many of them responding to you in a great way?

Because if you do, why would you bother with a woman who is clearly deeply uncomfortable with herself, with men and with sex?

I bring this up because two days ago I got an e-mail from a student who shared a report on a “Five Minute Sarge” with a (seemingly) EXTREMELY INTERESTED woman, that abruptly crashed and burned when a) she said she had to first check on her child’s babysitter’s schedule and she wouldn’t know her schedule till tomorrow, and b) when my student then did Plan B and said he’d call her the next day once she had the schedule, the woman said, “uhhh….can I call you instead?”

Bottom line: she liked the attention that comes from SEEMING open and adventurous, with all her flirting and use of words like “babe” and “love” with guys who hit on her, but when it came time to put the game behind her name, she clammed up faster than a statue with lockjaw.

If these things happen to you, I ask now: why are you doing “emotional dentistry” trying to pull her impacted erotic wisdom teeth?

It is not, you see, that you only attract the crazy ones, the flaky ones, the cock-teases. More likely you are only approaching/talking to women who SEEM very open to be in some way approached, rather than women who are desirable to you AFTER you’ve spoken to them and screened them.

Let me put that another way: screwy women (of all types) are often very desperate for male attention, and so, in that respect, they SEEM friendly and open to talking. So guys who have issues with approaching will be drawn to these girls, who SEEM friendly.

When in reality, these ladies are not truly friendly at all. Rather:

1. They have very bad boundaries.
2. They desperately need rescue/attention/validation

Another metaphor; a predator in the wild will usually seek out the weak/sick prey animals rather than tackling the healthy ones.

What if you try this instead:

1. Work on approaching/talking to women who may not be giving off “talk to me” signals. Create the approachability in them by how you approach, rather than waiting for them to look approachable.
2. Determine, once you do get talking, to screen out ANY woman who gives off any kind of signal or communication that she is not comfortable with sex, sexuality, or that she is angry, emotionally closed, etc.

Watch your girl-getting game skyrocket with your ability to approach and seduce any woman, anytime, anywhere thus turbo-charged.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Approaching more women who may seem cold, aloof, not necessarily interested, not just waiting for you to come up and lay the mack down – that’s a colder environment than when she says “babe” and “love” and makes goo-goo eyes, right?  No, it’s different when you have Speed Seduction® 3.0.  Click here to heat things up starting now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

In yesterday’s blog post about the dominant vibe, I explained how in over-reaching in trying to be commanding, many otherwise smart guys come across as desperate supplicators in denial and ironically reveal themselves to be Average Frustrated Chumps (AFC).

Today, I want to delve into a very common scenario that makes many guys feel the need to put on “dominant” airs.

Let’s say you’re at a regular hangout, and there’s a chick you see and you want like nothing else to Sarge on her.  Then this other guy (who you often see there) comes along, usually just as you’re preparing to approach her.  He’s always very aggressive with women.  He completely lacks any real methodical girl-getting game; all he brings to the game is just a lot of touching and bodily contact.

But there’s one catch,  Many chicks think he’s “better looking” than you, so he gets lots of ass on his looks alone.  It’s happened more than once that you were actually Sarging on a woman when he comes over, pats you on the shoulder in mock-friendship that makes YOU look like the jerk if you get pissy, and then steals the show.  And the girl.

It’s gotten to the point where if he shows up, your girl-getting game goes gummy (as in the bears).  Your confidence sags.  You’re defeated before the first shot is fired since you stand no chance vs. his “superior” looks.  That, and because he’s so aggressive and Johnny on the spot, you can’t even find the opening to approach her and get the ball rolling, much less keep him away.

But all is not lost.

Here’s How To Beat This Jerk At His Own Game
And Have Him Wishing He Was You

There’s really only one way to master this situation, and that’s to do it vibrationally and enegertically FIRST, and THEN through language.

By this, I mean that this clotheshorse clearly understands the use of the “dominant” vibe. But he’s not using the other three:

• Showing understanding of her world
• Being vulnerable
• Being funny and fun

More importantly, he doesn’t understand that by randomly fractionating back and forth between these vibes, the power of them multiplies rather than adds.

When you’re exponentially expanding your vibes and erotically executing your master plan, soon the ladies will be wondering who that pushy, obnoxious, needy, pathetic jerk is who keeps following you around trying in vain to cock-block you.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Sick and tired of getting rejected, ignored, humiliated, overlooked, shut down or standing there frozen and speechless by beautiful women, especially when these “dominant” men interrupt your patterns?  Click here for the shield that keeps your girl-getting game going gangbusters.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Check out this video where I demonstrate an actual touching technique that drives her crazy and gets her hot and bothered for you.

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It’s another way you can “innocently” extend an invitation to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle while sharing a cup of coffee.  Let me know your thoughts.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Part of what sets Speed Seduction® apart is it goes so much deeper than pick-up lines.  It goes deeper than even showing you how to touch her just that certain way.  It shows you the deeper-level interactions and mind work that gets more of the women you want in your bed and in your life.  Click here to learn how you will get several more hours of what you just watched.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Watch this video (right out of my Coaching Program):

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Is it possible to talk about something that sounds completely innocent, while subtly steering the conversation toward your bed (and her in it?) How do you use a seemingly innocent conversation to embed commands (fascination, connection, attraction, list) that get her hot and bothered?

I may do a mini video on this topic soon, in fact.  In the meantime, be sure to leave a comment…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Here you are seeing just a fraction of the girl-getting power you will find in Speed Seduction® 3.0.  Want to get the tools, methods, and proven strategies that get your cucumber into her strawberry basket?  Click here now…

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I’ll tell you a big reason why a lot of guys don’t approach women: fear of embarrassment.

Hey, you’re walking up to this chick who you’ve never met before, you know nothing about her, and for all you know, she could be one of those meanies who gets her kicks off kicking guys in the nuts (metaphorically or literally).

Even in less drastic scenarios, you feel like you’re putting yourself on a limb.

What if you “draw a blank” mid-Sarge?

What if she throws you a curveball and you miss your swing?

What if she says something unforeseen that just floors you?

What if she’s so cold to you that just by being snooty and ignorant to you, she reduces you to a muttering, empty shell of a man as you slink away, sensing that everyone around who was half-listening is now snickering at you.

Stick with me for a moment while I reveal…

The Gift Of Being Embarrassed And How It Gets You More Women Overall

OK, so you took a chance, and the chance took you.  It happens.  What we need to look at right now is your approach to it.

Repeat after me: “Just because it didn’t feel good doesn’t mean it isn’t a useful learning.”

Where do we get the idea that it’s shameful for a competent, able person to f@@k up and even feel lousy about it, at least for a while?  How about a bit of compassion for yourself?

These experiences can make you gun-shy about approaching women, because now you’re conscious it might be a wasted effort.  OK, so you want to avoid all “wasted effort”?  Then don’t breathe. Ultimately, breathing, which sustains your life, is wasted effort, because eventually you’ll die anyway.

Look: when we feel hurt, it is natural to want to protect yourself. But in reality, it just lets the person who hurt you define not only who you were while you were with them, but who you are GOING to be even after they are gone.

Fuck that.  Instead, I see it as a gift.  In sales, you have to go through “no” to get to “yes.”  Same with getting women.  Every “no” you receive simply clarifies your options and gets you closer to “yes”…then the next yes…then the one after that…then three yes-es when all three of the prior “yes”-es (who turn out to be sorority sisters on the cheerleading squad) come home with you at the same time.  (Beats a poke in the eye?  I sure think so.)

Plus, you’ve drawn some useful lessons that sharpen your girl-getting game.  You won’t be feeling embarrassed when she’s riding you reverse cowgirl while screaming “YES, YES, YES!”

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. “It” happens.  And when it does, you need the tools and techniques that help you blast through the tough times and powerfully handle every situation you encounter as you meet and seduce more and more women.  You’ll find that inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.  Check it out.  You’ll be glad you did.