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How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere-4 Easy Ways To Meet Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 25th, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #5 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series), I do an overview of the 4 basic and powerful approaches to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

You’ll note that I prefer “The Put-On”. Why?

Because it allows me to:

1. Immediately screen out the women who are easily jarred, rigid, and closed-minded.

2. Find the women who are fun, playful, and who react well to something just a bit out of the ordinary.

3. Enjoy the process

This concept of screening, selectivity, and standards is a major piece of the Speed Seduction methodology.

Enjoy this video and please comment on the blog in the space below. Or, if you prefer, you can pop right overwatch it on Youtube and comment and rate the video there. The title is How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere-4 Easy Ways To Meet Women.

Your participation helps me to spread the word to guys who are searching, so “play it forward” and help out me and your fellow brothers in the fight for the pink.

Peace and piece,

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And Then She Stopped Moaning And Said, “Stop..This Is Going Too Fast!’

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 17th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction® Fans And Student

The other day I got an email from a very frustrated 43 year old guy.

You see, he had used my Speed Seduction® material to get a very hot 19 year old lady in a rather intimate position, but then encountered the dreaded, “last minute resistance”.

I’ll spare you the steamy details of his email, but essentially he had this flawless beauty one small article of clothing away from being in her birthday suit and got stopped at the last minute with the famous phrase, “This is happening too fast”.

Now, in his case, he choked. He simply couldn’t think of any response, backed off, and by the time he got back to trying again, she was out the door.

If you’ve ever had this happen to you, you know how screamingly frustrating and confusing this kind of thing can be, and also how common.

How He Blew It And What To Do Differently

The problem with this guy is that he made one of the two fatal choices in dealing with any kind of objection or resistance from women, whether sexual, emotional or any other kind: he gave up, which is as big a mistake as the other bad option: arguing or pushing.

(Have you ever tried arguing a woman into doing anything, much less going to bed with you? This works about as well as trying to put the milk back in the cow).

Here’s What He Should Have Done, And What You Should Do Too!

What this guy should have done is quite simple: rather than argue and push or give up, he should have:

1. Recognized her emotional need that she was trying to express: feeling safe and comfortable and not being pressured into something she might later regret.

2. Expressed his understanding and agreement with that need.

Now notice, I didn’t say he had to actually go along with the need. He just needs to demonstrate that he understands.

Here Are His Magic Words He Could Have Used To Skin Her Right Out Of Her Skivvies

In his case, the magic words would have been, “Of course I don’t want you to feel pressured. I hate feeling pressured too. Let’s just relax and see what we can both feel comfortable and enjoy.”

Then he should have backed off and resumed just a few minutes later, because this time when he did, she would have experienced her arousal for him in the context of also feeling safety.

And arousal + safety= hot women eagerly and willingly getting naked.

That sure beats a poke in the eye…doesn’t it?

Peace and piece,

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When She’s Rude Right Out Of The Chute

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 17th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the things I teach newbies who are looking for ways to meet women wherever they might be is this: “90% of the time, the worst that will happen is nothing will happen”.

If a woman doesn’t happen to like your particular approach or opening, it is very rare indeed for her to get nasty, mean or offensive.

Usually, in these cases, she just won’t respond. She’ll simply ignore you or shrug and give very little by way of an answer.

However, sometimes, on rare occasions, women can have what looks like rude reactions.

I say “looks like” because rude implies it is about you and that she is intending to be hurtful.

I have a rule I follow that enables me to meet women and turn around even the seemingly worst first responses that they have.

Here it is: I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It is almost always a function and reflection of what she is thinking, feeling and believing in that moment, and almost always subject to change.

So even if she does yell, call names, etc, I just view it as having nothing to do with me: after all, she doesn’t even know me.

My first interpretation is that she is having a bad day, has some other problem in life, or she has just encountered a guy who tried out some “negging” from Misery Method or the cocky/funny crap from Double Your Masturbating!

In which case, who could blame her for assuming men are clueless twits until they prove otherwise?

What are your choices if this occurs?

1. Discharge it with humor. “I’m sorry…could you repeat that? I was just thinking about my favorite verse from the Bible.”

2. Call her on it by speaking the truth of it: “Hey….nothing I just said deserves that kind of answer. So whomever you are angry at, it isn’t me. “

Personally, I’m not of a mind to give the gift of my attention to someone who isn’t of a mind to receive it, so nowadays I just shrug and move on.

But do understand it is always your choice in how you respond, when you know the tools of Speed Seduction®.

Peace and piece,

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Operation Move The Free Line RETURNS! Art Of The Put On…

Posted by Ross Jeffries on December 15th, 2008

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

I’m happy to announce the return of Operation Move The Free Line!

Today, I’m posting part 1 of a 6 part series: The Art Of The Put On.

Enjoy part 1 and please leave your comments below.

Peace and piece,

P.S. These clips are all from the November 2008 instructional video module of my Coaching Program. For more info on the Coaching Program and how you can try the first month for just $1, click here.

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