Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a clip from the 3.0 Course you’ll really like. Notice how I use a non-sequitur to get things going and then quickly move her into a fantasy scenario, with me inserted right into the fantasy WITH her:

Talk about accessing her imagination and erotic emotions in record time…and opening up the most useful levels of her mind.

This is part of the 3.0 philosophy of getting her involvement and investment right away, right out of the chute.

No working for it, throwing stuff against the wall or trying to squeeze out a response.

This accomplishes three objectives:

1. Makes it an active participation on her part, eliminating any buyer’s remorse, resistance, or friction, plus conditioning her unconsciously to actively participate from then on.

2. She does MOST of the work

3. She supplies you exactly the verbal and non-verbal responses that you channel into and incorporate into any memorized patterns or other methods you care to use.

Please give me your comments and feedback. I truly feel sorry for anyone who is competing against you for hot women if you know this stuff and THEY don’t. It really is unfair…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Oh yes, one more thing: this also allows you to screen for women who have the qualities I teach you to screen for in the Speed Seduction®3.0 Course.  Screening is one of the  3 “S’s” 3.0 emphasizes!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The truth is… there are so many different pick-up artists out there feeding smart guys like you a lot of B.S. that is even less effective for getting you laid than the 5 Bs – bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, and biceps. OK, that’s 6 Bs. But you get my point.

Did you see the post I made earlier where I show you just ONE area where mastering the art of seduction goes way, way beyond simply knowing a few pickup lines or language patterns?  If not, here it is again (click here to read it).

Also, if you missed my big announcement yesterday, be sure to check it out here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s an actual “pick up sequence” that you can take to the car wash.

Use this on that dripping wet (in more ways than one) hottie and you’ll get more than just your hubcaps polished.  You’ll get more than just your dashboard Armor-All-ed.  You’ll get more than just your bumpers waxed.  You’ll get more than your tailpipe…ok…you get it.

Watch how this worked for a student of mine, using 3 out of the 4 energetic vibes & attitudes that turn women on.

After dropping off his car and paying the cashier, he sat down in front of her, in the waiting area. She was removing one of her shoes to scratch her foot.  The shoe was one of those gold-spangled slipper type things.

Looking over his shoulder, he said, “Cute shoe”.

She said, “it’s comfy”.

He said, “Cute and Comfy. Those are the names of my cats”.

She laughed.

(Do you see what he is doing here? He went from making a comment to being funny.)

He said,  “Ok. That was probably the 5th dumbest thing I’ve said to meet a cute girl all week. The dumbest was probably, “Where did you get that magazine?” and we were standing in a bookstore.”

She laughed again and said, “It wasn’t that bad!”

Now, notice what he is doing here. He is using an IMPLIED compliment. He didn’t tell her directly that he thought she was cute.

No, he said that what he said to her was one of the dumbest things he’d said to meet a cute girl.

He IMPLIED it, rather than directly stated it. Remember, what you IMPLY has to be processed by the woman’s imagination, and therefore she will perceive it as her own thought, rather than something you are trying to impose on her. Knowing when to imply and when to directly state something  is a very powerful skill set indeed!

Him, “No, seriously, my flirt-powers have gone to shit. It must be the holidays!”

Her, “I think you are doing fine!”

Him, “Ah, guys’ll say anything. Our need to procreate doesn’t always get a good message to the brain.”

Now, what is he doing here, guys?

He’s actually disarming her by appearing to stumble over himself. This makes him appear vulnerable, genuine and sincere, rather than a polished pick-up artist! Remember, women want to be intrigued by you, but they also want to feel safe!

Her, “What’s your name?”

Notice she shows her interest by asking his name first! So they exchanged names and handshakes.

At this point, however, she was still sitting behind him and he had to change that. He wanted her sitting beside him to build the connection.

Looking at her kind of cock-eyed he said, “You know, your piri-spinal muscles are laterally asymmetrical”

She looked puzzled. “What does that mean?”

He said, “Stand up and come over here” in a fairly commanding tone.  She did exactly that.

“Turn around,” he said.

Then he put his hands on her hips. “One hip is a little higher than another. So when you Salsa (then he started moving her hips around like she was dancing and she got with it and start moving too!) make sure you keep this hip even with this one.”

Then he took her hand and sat her down in the chair next to him.

Now, this stuff about her muscles and hips was nonsense. But because she couldn’t figure out if he was complimenting her or criticizing her, she had to get curious and co-operate further!

“Wow,” he said. “I think my flirt powers just started working.”

At this point, she got very curious about him, started peppering him with questions, etc. etc, so he simply said, “you know, I can tell we will enjoy talking to each other a lot more somewhere, some other time…so if you aren’t seeing anyone right now, maybe we can hang out and talk.”

Note what he did here is to future pace enjoying being around him another time.

At that point she offered her number, without his having to ask, and he gave her his as well.

Note that in this less than 10 minute conversation he built comfort, curiosity, intrigue and some connection. Note that he went back and forth from being self-effacing, to being funny, to being a little puzzling, to being commanding.

When you can learn to alternate and offer these different vibes and aspects of yourself to a woman, it really ups your success!  Note that once he saw she had sufficient curiosity and interest, he did NOT ask her out. He simply told her what he could imagine (therefore directing HER to imagine it) and she went right along by offering her number to him without his having to ask.

Remember, when you just ask for a number, you put yourself into the category as all the other guys who are trying to get into her pants. If instead you create the curiosity, comfort, intrigue and connection and then describe what you can imagine, she will go right along and offer her number as part of the continuation of the connection she is feeling and wants to continue to enjoy.

Ok. Hope you learned from and enjoyed this example pick-up.

Piece and peace,
RJ

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P.P.S. Be careful when first meeting a woman about touching her. In this case, he sensed her comfort and also created enough intrigue that touching her on her hips was fine. But be careful and I don’t recommend that to the beginner at all! Use your best judgment and always keep a woman’s boundaries and safety concerns in mind at all times!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Once again, I reach into my lovely mail bag and pull out an e-mail I got from a student about… his attempt to e-mail an HB9 he met at a party.

Some of the patterning was good, but it came off…just…BAD because the context was WAY OFF.

> I met this girl HB9 at a party full of people 3 weeks ago. I talked with her only for a few times and for short periods.  We kept getting interrupted by her friends, an attempt by another guy to cockblock me.  She behaved also like a social butterfly talking to different people, breaking conversations fast, etc.  I managed to get her email address just before she left.

Yeah, in what context? In other words, was it done after you and she were into each other, you had captured and lead her imagination and emotions, future-paced spending time together, as in, “It’s too bad we can’t FIND A WAY TO HANG OUT AGAIN AND SEE WHAT WE COULD ENJOY”.

Or did you just say, “give me your email”?

I think it was more the latter, rather than the former.  Anyway, let’s continue.

> My first email to her was two weeks later.  It read:
>
> I am Matthew, I enjoyed meeting you at the party.  It was pleasant and without giving you the impression to be too serious, too early, I learned how much it is rare to find someone funny, authentically sympathetic, nice and charming; but enough about me, you seem to be also a potentially interesting girl
>
> By observing you that evening, I noted that you were rather sympathetic and smiling. At the same time, you showed some reserve when in contact with new people. It is as if there is an interior conflict in you between a natural reserve and a desire to connect with others.
>
> You know, with me, you can feel at ease, be completely yourself without needing to play a social part or without having fear of being judged.  The tolerance, the open mindedness and the compassion for me and the others you showed are paramount values which guide my way of being, thinking and acting.
>
> Could you describe me one of your passions? You know one of these activities in which you feel yourself completely transported, completely absorbed by what you do, where time seems to be slowing, until it stops and where you feel the spirit, the flame in you that shines. And it is in one of these moments, that you feel yourself more alive, that you feel the most passion and that you are more in contact with the spiritual force which is with each one of us and which then appears with the most clearness and beauty. For me, I am fascinated by literature and in particular by poetic creation. If you like also poetry, we could exchange poems and give our respective impressions.
>
> Please answer me,
> Matthew

After trying to salvage the situation by snagging her e-mail address from the clutches of total defeat, why did you mastur-wait for two weeks before dropping her a line?

How do you know she liked you on that first meeting?  From what you described, it seems like you were struggling to get two words in.  How do you know?  And then what? A personality reading? It comes across as begging for her approval, trying to impress her.  Total AFC here.

Next, how was she tolerant, open minded and compassionate?  How do you get all that from a casual chat at a party that kept getting interrupted?

Speed Seduction® isn’t about reciting speeches that have NO relation to the context, the person or anything that you yourself have experienced. These aren’t Magick chants.

Well, She Answered The Following Day

And…it was a doozy.  I knew she’d answer – but I saw this coming before I even read that far.

> hi matthew,
>
> thank you for your message, but, how did you have my email??  you know, I spoke with many people that evening. what did we talk about, at which moment of the evening?  what do you look like?  sorry I can’t remember.
>
> unless you tell me more about you, I am sorry but I won’t be able to talk to you further.

Ouch. She didn’t even fucking recognize who you were. That’s my point. In a seduction situation, email, texting, phone calls, can work, but without a command of non-local influence, you have to put in the work IN PERSON, FACE TO FACE.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Seems that yesterday’s post on the failure vibe that stifles a man’s girl-getting game from the inside really hit a nerve.

To respond to several of you who wrote with substantially the same question – what to do when it seems like every woman you see is with a man or a group of men – I’m going to share an email from a longtime fan that captures the essence of it.

The situation he brings up is common – all too common – for guys who want to meet really hot women.

You see, hot women LOVE company. They often love MALE company, because having a guy around:

1. Keeps away the weaker, wimpier guys who assume that the escorting guy is the boyfriend.
2. It makes them feel wanted and needed.
3. Sometimes the guy IS the boyfriend but it doesn’t matter because, if you can approach it right, you often can STILL pull the girl.

Ok, here is the email/question:

“I had a question and I would like to hear your insight on following situation: You see a stunning girl and you would like to go and talk to her but she is surrounded with two or maybe more guys. Not in the bar or something like that..

My first thought is that one of them is her boyfriend and I should stay away. Especially if I see some touching going on. They could be as well close friends, but the question is, what would you say to a girl in this situation? I mean you really don’t know whether the boyfriend is next to her but in case he does what then?”

Ok, As I said above, NEVER make assumptions about whether or not a girl is “taken” or if the guy with her is her “boyfriend” (or “bore-friend” for that matter)..

For all you know, the dude is her “orbiter”. Someone who circles around her massive ego, to keep her feeling good about herself.

In any event, the key here is to approach and TALK TO THE GUY OR GUYS.

Do NOT approach the woman directly.

Simply go up to one of the guys.

Open your mouth and say, “You guys are a really cute couple. How did you meet?”

Trust me, if they are NOT a couple, she’ll quickly let you know.

From there, you are in.

Just remember: don’t ever make assumptions about whether a girl is taken or not.  When you ass-ume, you stand a greater chance of feeling like an ass because you didn’t step up, then you will of looking like an ass if you did.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I’m taking a quick gander through my Lovely Mail Bag here and there are two e-mails from students here.  When I put them together, I think they sort of solve each other.   Let’s give this a try.

The first is from someone who seems to be having a little problem with his walk-ups:

“When I go up to her, no matter what I do to make the situation fun, it still feels like I am a stranger who has moved into her space to hit on her.   She knows what I am there for, no matter how ‘innocent’ or ‘just friendly’ I might be trying to be.  So she’s on her guard and sometimes it freaks ME out and I stumble.”

Not a minute later I read a Sarge report that had this interesting snippet in it:

“I opened the gal with an observation that her 2nd toe was bigger than her big toe. Since she is an HB 9.5, she was floored. She told me later that she just couldn’t get over that. She’s used to guys telling her how beautiful she is. I’ve NEVER told her that. And she’s one of the gals that I hang out ‘with benefits’ to this day.”

This makes me wonder…

How Did Morton’s Toe Beat Out Playful And Innocent? 

It’s like this:  Making an observation about her toe was an interesting opener because it combines more than one “energy” or attitude. It combines a matter of fact observation, that is true, along with something of a put-on, on your part. Her toes being uneven isn’t REALLY what is most noticeable about her, I’m sure, so you were kind of putting your tongue in your cheek, though I’m sure it wasn’t visibly done so!

The best “openers” tend to combine these positions or energies.

Here’s one I like to use:

“I don’t get it.”

I’ll say this to a woman who has an unusual design or logo on her shirt. It’s a put-on in that I am pretending to be puzzled. It’s also a comment/question about something going on with her. And also, by not saying “excuse me” or anything like that, it is a put-on in that I am addressing her like I already know her: “I don’t get it” is something her boyfriend or roomate or friend would say if she came into the room wearing something like that, as opposed to what a stranger would say, which would be more like,

“What’s your shirt mean?”

See the difference?  She will (subconsciously).  And things will go a LOT different.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

So many of you have asked me for demonstrations of how specific principles of Sarging work.

In this video (just 4:14), I show you how I use what’s known as the “I – You Shift” to plant commands and suggestions.

Click here to watch, then leave a comment to tell me what you think:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Today, I am pretty tired.

I’m not only tired but I look pretty unkempt: haven’t shaved, combed my hair, and am wearing sweats and sandals.

You know what that means, dontcha?

Perfect time to pick up women!

So, I’m in the Walgreen’s, and I had an opportunity to demonstrate to myself a great pick-up principle that I regularly teach.

What is that principle?

Simply this: no matter what you say, at first, to meet a woman, you can still use it to get her open and willing to talk to you and meet you, even if what you say comes off as cheesy, stupid and dumb.

Case in point: at the Walgreen’s, I’m in line, and this lovely lady who looked like a ballet dancer or yoga teacher gets in line next to me. I say to her, “Do you do yoga?”

She very neutrally says, “no”.

“Dance?” I ask.

“No”, she says.

I look at her and say, “Ok, I’m returning that “How To Pick Up Girls in Line At Walgreen’s” book because it isn’t working.”

She laughs at that point, so I say, “Now, I’m glad you laughed because I wanted to check out your sense of humor before I introduced myself. I’m Ross”.

She says, “I have a boyfriend.”

My reply?

“No offense, but just because I’m talking to a girl doesn’t necessarily mean I want to date her, but I admire your confidence.”

She laughs again, “Seriously” she says. “I really am in love with him but you are the most confident and original guy I’ve met in a long time. I really hope you find someone amazing to match you.”

How do you like that? SHE was Speed Seducing me!

Now, I did not get a number or another meeting with this girl, but that isn’t my point.

The point is, what I originally used to try to meet her FELL FLAT AS A STONE.

That didn’t stop me.

I simply used it and used her responses to poke fun at myself, relieve the tension, and get her much more open to talking.

Also notice that when she said, “I have a boyfriend” I turned it around on her and played with HER assumption that I was ready to go out with her.

This is all an illustration of one of my key principles: whatever response she gives you is the right response, if you know what to do with it and can keep your state calm and steady.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

What’s worse than being in that “not so sweet spot” where you’ve met a woman, and you don’t know what to say to her? There she is – right in front of you, this incredibly sexy hot babe who, up until now, you never in a million years DREAMED would be sitting right next to you, hanging on every word you say. Yet…

… you can’t find the friggin’ words!

Rather than dazzling her with smooth banter, you’re internally going berserk while hoping she doesn’t notice the 24-pound giant cat that has sunk his claws into your tongue and stretched it all the way to the floor like a flaccid fruit roll-up.

Later the “right words” will come to you, all right. While you’re back at your place, alone, imagining what it would have been like to score with her.

Well, all that’s about to change. Effective immediately, I hereby declare a “State of Sarge” because it’s time to …

… Get Into The State For Conversating, So You Don’t End Up M*****bating!

Many guys find they don’t have a lot to say when she’s right there, because he’s “been there” before. Say the wrong thing, or even say the right thing but with the wrong pitch, and she’ll drop you faster and harder than an 18-pound bowling ball comes crashing when dropped off an 18-story building.

When you find yourself internally whining to yourself about girls who “shot you down” on the playground in third grade, you’re not going to be in the state of Sarge that gets you to home base with the woman who’s here, right now.

Instead, close your eyes, relax, and alter the “shot down” state you’re in. Visualize the results you’ll be getting when having the right conversations with women. Focus on how you WANT things to be and the way you WANT things to go, and the chances are you’ll get there a hell of a lot faster.

Have you recently had a Sarge that went horribly wrong? Does it seem like your overall “batting average” with the ladies is in a slump? Do you find yourself so wrapped up in what went wrong, that you can’t vision things going right?

When you find yourself reflecting on “Sarges gone bad,” I challenge you to focus on what went RIGHT. Then, release any worry or angst about the “dumb things you said or did” and the moment when she gave you a dirty look and walked out on you. Because now, it doesn’t matter.

Stay focused on where you WANT to go (that being, back to your place for a night or weekend of “screaming with ecstasy ’till the neighbors call the cops, mind-blowing” sex)… and with that vision as your guiding force, you’ll get there faster.

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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