1) Where do you get the idea that you have to be totally certain of a perfect result before you can enjoy trying out behaviors that are totally new?
2) Where do you get the idea that women expect you to be totally confident and sure of yourself in order to feel attracted to you?
Is it possible that both of these ideas are delusions with no basis in fact? And that these twin delusions-more than any special social skills-are what have been standing in your way of enjoying some amazing fulfillment with some remarkable ladies?
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Why in the world would any guy in his right mind want to take a step backward down the intimacy ladder with women?
Yet that is exactly what many men are doing by following stupid-ass advice from “PUA GURUS” to use text messaging with women they’ve just met.
Listen: using your voice is far more powerful, conveys far more emotional meaning, and enables you to evoke far more powerful states of emotion than even the most cleverly worded text.
Hey: if it is true that 70% of communication is not the actual words we use, but facial expressions and the tone of our voice, then what in the world do you think is the result of just typing words?
Is it just me, or does that seem like screwing when your dick is soft?
The only time you should ever use text messages with women is after you have already “hooked up”. Once you’ve done that, then texting can be a way to easily arrange meetings or stay in touch, but even then it has to be used judiciously and sparingly.
A few other things to bear in mind:
My students often tell me about women who at the end of a phone call will say “text me” or who will want to hang up, yet immediately continue the conversation via txt msg-ng. Is she serious? Don’t you want her to take a step forward, TOWARD you? Will texting “hey wassup?” pull her closer?
So she’s into “sexting.” Like cybering, you have to wonder, is she visioning you when she types all that naughty stuff, or is she thinking about a guy she’s actually fckng who isn’t there rite now 2 srvce hr 2day?
Remember: txt mssgs sck dck and only asshls use them on chicks they hvnt fckd.
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There’s nothing I love more than a successful and wildly happy student relating his horny-tale of seduction suck-cess!
Today, I want to share one of my favorite student e-mails of all time. Here is his email, word for word. Yes, it is a long one, but I wanted to give it to you unedited.
Here it is:
Dear Almighty Guru Ross,
Thanks dude!
I still consider myself a very beginner student of yours… I wanted to study your 3.0 course before we chat because I know it works but I need to get better… I need SS to flow like a river… like a smooth seductive sauve rapper! I know I need to MAKE IT MY OWN. Keep it true and honest and really truly care about the woman and the states she floats between…. I may be a beginner, but I have studied mystery and others for years… yet this makes sense… common sense… it is more natural to my poetic style as a person… and damn it Ross-it works like a charm…
Every day I game…. It’s the only way to test this shit out on REAL women in REAL time. I go out. That’s what I do….. I get better… But I have a long WAYYYYY I know….
BUT I USED YOUR STUFF ON THIS SEXY 9HB INTERNATIONAL RUNWAY MODEL and had her so horny I could read it in her eyes like a neon sign, so I just leaned in for the kiss. Security is getting to know me a little too well in that parking structure. There was a camera RIGHT above the car but WE DIDN’T CARE it was tooooo smoking hot! Her nipples were cute, lil’ pink erect nipples gone wild….. I guess thanks to you it’s time to put aside the girl’s gone nuts porn… time for these experiences to happen in realtime! Fuck yeah! I paid my dues to total unappreciative bitches that cleaned me out… NOW I have all the control back in the driver’s seat and I deserve to live life to the fullest. Look out rock stars…. I can speak in verse just as well….
So the next day after that 20 year old hot model I was really feeling like I wanted MORE of this same hot model…. SHIT! I’m JUST A BEGINNER OF YOURS! I didn’t know exactly about DAY 2 game! I remember you say to live the life-don’t let the woman down by slipping back into chump-keep running patterns-make up my own…. I began freaking out like what to do next. This is where I could have slipped into AFC mode but I got out my reading stuff of DAY 2 Game…..
Understand-this is my life now. I must improve myself at this point in my life. I game every day and have cut my work back to freelance so I could work on myself fulltime to be the best I can be. I had terrible one-itis for 2 years with a bitch who ran me ragged… I feel ashamed at the wanton nice guy supplication! I know this is the best revenge! 3.0 landed me a life-changing delicious spicy muffin, a gorgeous sexy and fun woman. AND what fucking guy doesn’t want to open his eyes and see a HOT model writhing in passion and craving, begging another passionate kiss right before his eyes? I THOUGHT I WAS DREAMING… and then I thought with a big smile… FUCK YOU ROSS YOU SON-OF-A-BITCH-YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD-ON RIGHT ABOUT SS and now 3.0!!!!!!!!!! I smiled… then I went back to smoochin’! I ain’t a fool…….!!! hahaha
I re-read your seminar transcripts and then I called her back… In my head I’m trying to overcome the altered state of being enamored with her… I repeated some words back…. waffle and hickey’s (don’t ask…haha) to try to bring her back to that state….. but she sounds a little down-key… Where is that energy she had at? Did I blow it?
I was tossing and turning all night trying not to think of her which made my CONFIDENCE go down and think I wouldn’t hear from her again… I got really depressed about it! I guess I’m used to women flaking….
I did the patterns…. I did the anchor to HER fucking words and repeated back… I gave her a .49 cent crystal to hold to remember me…. (I buy them in bulk haha! I have secret techniques too!) AND we had a sexual and emotional connection THE FIRST 3 HOURS OF MEETING HER and running patterns….. at least the ones I could remember under pressure…. and an erection the size of Florida.
I was thinking: what was Mystery talking about this taking 7 hours and hopping clubs…
WELL ROSS! GUESS WHAT BOSS THE ROSS!!!!!! She texted me today and we are going to spend THANKSGIVING together…. THE WHOLE DAY…. Let’s do the math: She’s 20, horny and wetter than a warm summer rain from the patterns I constantly make up and run 24/7…. I got us a THANKSGIVING hotel room…. you said young girls are all about the sex….hehe Ross…. Go ahead boss… Do The FUCKING Math… SS Student+Patterns+Hotel room+Young Hot Model==Equals: ….. Er… Um… I won’t be checking email until I check out….hahahahahah!!!!
Like you say, it’s not an hour a day. It’s 24 hours a day. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE CHANGE that once you get in you’ll never go back to “chump” again. You can’t! It’s like learning to ride a bike-you will never forget this. You can use it with women or work or like I did on a suicidal friend of mine. Got him to break bad trrance and go into good. It’s THAT simple. Thanks for being my teacher. (By the way-You are right-Tony Robbins is a tad too gung-ho!)
THANKS ROSS! I am moved to tears that somebody finally showed me the right fucking way…… This is my whole life… fighting back after a lifetime of boring dull marriage and NO women experience… to become the man every woman wants to get to know….. and they can’t figure out why they have so much fun with me…! (it’s running patterns to keep their mind open to the possibilities…
THANKS FOR MY THANKSGIVING PRESENT! (gobble gobble…!)
I’ll be sure to stuff the bird real good for ya……….
Ok, RJ back again. Pretty good stuff, huh?
So what is your story and why aren’t you enjoying this Thanksgiving with some moist, pink relief?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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I bet you think I sit around and make this shit up, don’t you?
Have a look at this video. It is a clip from a show I filmed way back in 2000. This version has POLISH subtitles.
I guess the sun never sets on the Speed Seduction(R) empire.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. My maternal grandfather was Polish. I guess the folks in the old country would be proud to know that one of their own grew up to be an internationally famous seduction guru.
P.P.S. If you want these kind of rockin’ skills with chicks, check out my latest and best course right here.
P.P.P.S If you speak a language other than English and have video of me either dubbed or subtitled in your native tongue, by all means send me the link or embed code and up in goes on the blog!
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Please read what I am about to write very carefully.
The response to our launch of Speedseductionfree.com was so great, that we crashed the servers the first hour!
Over 9,000 of you visited in the first 24 hours.
Now, I have received lots of feedback, both on the blog, and in email, telling me that you guys loved the 5 part Free Course. Many of you are saying how the videos not only cleared up years of confusion around women, but also made Speed Seduction(R) easier to understand, and greatly enhanced your ability to use the tools in my paid courses.
What I would like to ask you to do, if you received benefit from the videos, is please help me spread the word.
Look: I need your help here. So I’m asking for it.
Here is why: in today’s economy, if I am going to survive and thrive as your teacher, I need to offer MASSIVE proof to potential students and clients, before I even think of selling them anything.
If you think about it, it makes sense: it’s the only way any newbie wanting to learn this stuff can tell for sure that a teacher is worthwhile and a system is workable and true, in a sea of frauds, phonies, impersonations and counterfeits.
Here is how you do it in 3 easy steps:
1. Go back to the site again, and click on your favorite video. It really doesn’t matter which one it is.
2. You’ll see several ways to share the video. If you have a blog or website, feel free to grab the embed code and put it right up. Or you’ll see icons for every major social network and social bookmark site. And you will even see a link that makes it easy for you to email friends the video’s URL.
3. Use the method of your choice to spread the word about the video of your choice.
It’s that simple. And as I see more traffic to the site, I will reward you guys by continue to add fresh content, and even host monthly live broadcast video seminars where I discuss a topic that YOU guys vote on and choose.
Listen: I believe in giving value to receive value. Nowadays, with a shrinking economy and a shattered trust in virtually every institution, trust and giving first is swiftly becoming the ONLY “currency” that counts.
Help me spread the word about SS, and I’ll keep spreading the leg-spreading goodies with you, no charge.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. If the videos have already convinced you and you are looking for my best course to buy, I recommend the latest and greatest: Speed Seduction 3.0.
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One of the things I teach newbies who are looking for ways to meet women wherever they might be is this: “90% of the time, the worst that will happen is nothing will happen”.
If a woman doesn’t happen to like your particular approach or opening, it is very rare indeed for her to get nasty, mean or offensive.
Usually, in these cases, she just won’t respond. She’ll simply ignore you or shrug and give very little by way of an answer.
However, sometimes, on rare occasions, women can have what looks like rude reactions.
I say “looks like” because rude implies it is about you and that she is intending to be hurtful.
I have a rule I follow that enables me to meet women and turn around even the seemingly worst first responses that they have.
Here it is: I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It is almost always a function and reflection of what she is thinking, feeling and believing in that moment, and almost always subject to change.
So even if she does yell, call names, etc, I just view it as having nothing to do with me: after all, she doesn’t even know me.
My first interpretation is that she is having a bad day, has some other problem in life, or she has just encountered a guy who tried out some “negging” from Misery Method or the cocky/funny crap from Double Your Masturbating!
In which case, who could blame her for assuming men are clueless twits until they prove otherwise?
What are your choices if this occurs?
1. Discharge it with humor. “I’m sorry…could you repeat that? I was just thinking about my favorite verse from the Bible.”
2. Call her on it by speaking the truth of it: “Hey….nothing I just said deserves that kind of answer. So whomever you are angry at, it isn’t me. “
Personally, I’m not of a mind to give the gift of my attention to someone who isn’t of a mind to receive it, so nowadays I just shrug and move on.
But do understand it is always your choice in how you respond, when you know the tools of Speed Seduction®.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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After two weeks of technical issues, I’m back in the video posting biz.
So here is part II, of Module 1: Getting Up To Speed With Speed Seduction(R).
In this module I talk about what you MUST avoid, if you are going to enjoy success with women. What REALLY works, as opposed to what you’ve been taught.
Please comment below, and spread this video around.
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One of the most common questions I get when I do a radio interview is, “Will that really work on a girl? It doesn’t seem like it will work?”
My response is not what the questioner expects. I almost always say, “How do you propose to know? What is your method of knowing what the boundaries of your reality are? How do you discover what you can actually do, as opposed to your speculation and worry?”
You see, one of the great stopping and stuck points for guys seeking to learn success with women is that they are trying to figure it all out in their heads. They believe-without proof by the way-that if they just get the right combination of thoughts in their heads, it will all fall into place and they will have a guarantee of absolute certain success before they try anything.
These guys fall into an endless loop that looks like this:
1. They won’t take a step unless they are first certain of perfect success.
2. They can never be certain until after they take a step.
3. Therefore they never take a step and they are never certain.
Pretty losing loop, isn’t it?
Now, the really smart guys take me on as a teacher and coach, or get my Nail Your Inner Game program, or both! They learn how to acquire “acceptance confidence” so they can surf across any residual anxiety and actually move foward into the real world of learning and skill with women!
The dumb ones? They think that the solution is just pouring more and different “content” into the same guaranteed-to-fail process. So they get the next school’s DVD’s, the next CD, or seminar, hoping that if they put that stuff through their heads, somehow that new or different content will solve the problem.
This is why, when students come to me and present themselves as stuck, I don’t, as my first move, look at the content of what they are saying to women. I look at the processes by which they are hindering their own learning, first and foremost. Once I shake that loose(and not always or even often “nicely), I can proceed to show them how to use their language to get women smoking hot and bothered.
So, dear reader, what about your “epistemology?” What is your theory about how you can acquire actual knowledge about what you can enjoy with women? And do you think you get laid as often and as well as I do?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. You can’t imagine what I am going to unleash on a shocked, and pants-shitting seduction community in about 2 weeks time. I’m going to radically move the free line and give away more valuable content for free than these morons and maniacs sell, combined. Stay tuned here for details!
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Yet that is exactly what many men are doing by following stupid-ass advice from “PUA GURUS” to use text messaging with women they’ve just met.
