
Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
One of the most commonly asked questions by my students is how to handle flakey women.
If you subscribe to my newsletter, you know that I’ve written about this several times.
But one point I don’t think I’ve driven home very well is that sometimes, her flaking on you is the best thing that could possibly happen.
Look: I live in Los Angeles, the world-wide capital of weirdos, space-cases, nut-jobs and hooples. So my view of things may be a bit extreme.
But many of the women out here are seriously “lost in the sauce”. They are busily chasing after fantasy careers involving Hollywood stardom, Academy Awards, record-contracts, etc. All of which they are vigorously pursuing as they wait tables or patrol the sales-racks at Wal-mart.
And the amount of drama they love to generate just to remind themselves they are alive would curl your hair.
Just recently, I had to fire a woman who was a part of my team. I won’t get into the reasons, but suffice it to say it was not a pleasant thing to have to do. I liked the woman in question and she became something of a friend.
But oh my God and Pippi Longstocking, was she flakey.
Every other day there was another crisis. Her best friend’s dog died, and SHE was hysterically upset about her friend’s loss.
She wrecked her car-totalled it-because she swerved to avoid a cat running across the road. So her back and neck were fucked up for 3 weeks.
She had a kidney infection that put her in the hospital for ten days.
She couldn’t sleep because(and I’m not making this up): THE GHOSTS IN HER HOUSE WERE MAKING TOO MUCH NOISE IN HER WALLS!
Now, the funny thing is this: this chick, lookswise, is pretty damn hot. She always had men(and women) after her. You would think that a chance to hook up with her would be a great thing, right?
No.
No.
No.
This girl was a walking train-wreck. And if you met her at a bar and she gave you a phony number or never called you back then….
…She Would Have Been Doing You A Favor!!!
Now listen: I don’t want you to get sloppy and use this as an excuse to have anything other than great skills when it comes to so attracting women, you don’t have to worry about them calling you back, because you are nailing them BEFORE that even comes up.
But do bear in mind that somtimes the worst dramas come packaged in the hottest wrappings.
Piece, peace and I hate the damn holidays.
RJ
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