Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Breaking up is hard to do.  If she’s someone you cared about deeply, you may feel hurt, crushed, there’s no one else in the world like her and things will never be the same. 

The last two points are true – she’s the only person like her, and things can’t possibly be the same.

Many students who attend my seminars and invest in my teaching use Speed Seduction® to get the girl, but find it hard to get moving with women again if things don’t work out and she gets ghost.

Remember: you have skills with women.  They helped you get together with her in the first place. And what you used the skills for once, you can use again and again.

Now, welcome to the world: we have pleasure and we cling to it and want it to continue. When it doesn’t, if we don’t know how to let go, we suffer.

Buddhists understand what are known as the Four Noble Truths.

And yes, right now it is painful and confusing. But remember, all pleasure comes to an end, sooner or later.

The shock and disbelief can be the most painful part.

On top of being sad and even angry that your pleasure with this girl is ending-the fun, companionship, emotional connection, sex, validation, etc-you now have:

1. Confusion. What went wrong?
2. Shock: it was unexpected
3. Anger – this is unfair for her to suddenly do this with no explanation.

So we see that many painful things are processing all at once. Any one of these things, by itself: sadness, shock, confusion, anger, desire for the pleasure to continue and frustration that it isn’t – any ONE of these would be difficult.

ALL of them piling up together feels overwhelming.

Yet, this is an incredible opportunity.  

Yes.  An opportunity for you to learn the difference between pain and suffering, desire and drivenness and fixation.

Can you learn to sit in meditation and experience each element, BY ITSELF, without fighting it or trying to change it and also without feeding it with your “story’ about how bad it is, how it shouldn’t be happening?

Can you turn suffering – all of these elements entangled and overwhelming – into simple pain? It can hurt but does it have to become who you are, block you from moving forward, or blind you to your sense of possibility and enjoying here and now?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. In Speed Seduction® 3.0, I show you how to use the principle of equanimity to leap-frog past approach anxiety and break through slumps WITHOUT pushing through pain.

P.P.S. 3.0 is the “home study” version.  You should really check out the live, in-person version (sign up now).

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, someone asked me this question: if you acted like a total AFC toward a woman in the past (lots of flowers, expensive dinners, and “dating” prior to any making-out or sex) and predictably got rejected, before you acquired Speed Seduction® skills, can you go back, show her the new “Sargy” you, and win her over with the new you?

Usually, I’d ask… “Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

But for some guys, whether it’s (as far as he can tell) a sense of wanting to “go back and do right,” a nagging feeling of having failed and wanting a do-over, or whatever, he just can’t get this chick off of his mind.

Is there anything he can do to change her feeling for him?  Should he try to bring this one back to life, or should he just move on?

Here’s the thing: you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.

Actually, as I think about this, the problem is that you invested lots of feeling (not to mention money) in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.

Now listen, and listen up:

Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it.

It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.

In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.

No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.

I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, whacking off to your perverted little dribble dick fantasies (just kidding about the dribble dick), etc etc.

Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.

Remember this: “You never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve made love”.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. It’s time for you “de-wussify” yourself with regard to this tasty little crumpet from yesteryear who shut you down.  Find out how to convert yesterday’s mistakes into today’s pure learning that brings on tomorrow’s seduction success when you Nail Your Inner Game, now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When a woman has just gotten out of a real-hate-shun-ship with her borefriend or is newly divorced from her husband (or has-been-ed), is she really on the rebound, or just looking for a shoulder to cry on and the right AFC to provide it?

Can you tell the difference?  Can you make the situation work in a Sargy way for both of you?

A student of mine seemed to have an uncanny knack for missing his chance, again and again, with this one HB…

There’s this HB that I was interested in before I came to Speed Seduction®. At the time, she was married, and although she knew I was interested in her, I didn’t try to interfere because I had scruples about that. I didn’t know that the marriage was awful, and she ended up leaving him. All our mutual friends were telling me, don’t come on too strong now, let her have space, she’s grieving over this. So that’s what I did. And as a result she hooked up with some other guy. So basically I have a history of being a total AFC with this HB.

Anyway, Sunday afternoon, she calls me to tell me that the guy has dumped her for another woman. She goes on about how much grief she is in and how much she loved him, blah, blah, blah, and even says that she offered to tolerate the other woman if he would stay with her.

Whoa.  And double whoa.  OK, let’s dissect this.

Mutual friends mean well, but they always speak from their own filters, especially the filter about what they WANT to be true. Always trust your own instincts and remember: WOMEN…CRAVE…SEX.

Good seducers know this. WOMEN…CRAVE…SEX; whether they are grieving or not.

As a Speed Seducer® your job isn’t therapy. The tough part is when we care for/about someone, we want to offer solace, a kind ear, and big shoulder, and open heart.

That’s great for female friends whom we have NO interest in f@@king OR for women we are ALREADY F@@KING.

But offering this to a woman as the primary or even backup strategy for getting her hot for you (if she isn’t already) SELDOM WORKS.

Does it sometimes work? Yes…SOMETIMES.  Sometimes, drawing to an inside straight works in poker. The numbers are against you.

I’d have you have a closer look on your own issues about being overtly sexual, sexually forward, etc. etc.

Being kind and sweet may feel safer or better or have less anxiety attached to it for you, so it becomes your one and only default response (absent an engraved invitation where she says F@@K ME).

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. To learn the secret patterns of words that have been tested and proven to capture a woman’s imagination, lead her to quickly experience intense positive emotional states, and link them to you and ONLY you, click here now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As I once told a friend of mine who asked me how I could take being “rejected” by women, “I never get rejected. I just discover if a woman has good taste!”

Now, I admit, that’s a pretty extreme reframe. But notice the fun state of mind it created for me.

My actual attitude in any situation involving women is: “I will either get what I want (or better than I imagined) or I will enjoy the process of learning what I need to get what I want or better than I imagined”.

Now, just imagine holding THAT belief in front of you as you consider approaching a woman you’d like to meet.

What it comes down to is the MEANING you assign to approaching women that determines what you will be able to do.

Here is an example:

I have had SO many students tell me they can’t even talk to a beautiful woman.  I always ask them the following question.

“Ok. Suppose that stunningly beautiful woman you “can’t” talk to was standing there and I guy was coming up behind her with a knife raised in the air, about to bring it down on her and stab her. Could you talk to her then and at least yell, “Hey lady! Look out!”

Every guy I have ever asked that has at least said “yes” and many of them have said they would go on to try to take the knife away from the guy.

I always say,

“Congratulations. That’s talking to a beautiful woman!”

They always look at me kind of funny and say, “well, that’s different. I would be doing something good for her, in that case”.

Wow. As if talking to a woman and giving her the chance to possibly enter your world ISN’T A GOOD THING?

Really the only difference is the meaning YOU assign to it.

Instead of the woman being the judge of your value or attractiveness what if you just viewed talking to her as a way to enjoy seeing what she was like and even to see how much fun you could have playing with her?

Or you could go really nutty with your imagination, get really playful, and imagine she was suffocating and there was air in your sac!

I admit that’s extreme, but it sure beats viewing talking to a girl as a life or death situation.

The bottom line: rejection cannot exist in a properly directed mind. There is only the meaning  YOU assign!

Hey…that sorta rhymes! Now write it down, 100 times!

The key here is to stay playful, have fun and assign the right meaning, the meaning that serves you, rather than the one that stops you in your tracks.

When you stay playful, your life will be “playful”.

Ha ha ha. This is fun.  But the rhyming is done. (OOPS!)

Here is an email from a student who let that playful attitude serve him very well:

I really have to thank you for all of your hard work and dedication to redressing the balance in the power of men and women

I have been a student for over six years now and have had some mind blowing results, but the most important thing to me is the fun you can have doing this when rejection no longer even exists in your PREVIOUSLY negative mind.

I’m hope there is no need to give you specific stories as there really are to many to mention and “doing the thing” with women within just an hour of meeting them was unimaginable, until I had your coaching . . .it then became the norm.

I believe that students need to adapt it to their own culture and environment, but that goes without saying and thankfully you give your students the tools to do this.

I have actually found my ideal partner in life now and because of your material it was totally by choice not because it “was the best I could do”.

I am 39yrs old with no money [ too lazy there ] I would say I was only OK looking too , but my partner is just 21 and a HB 10, she has an amazing mind too  [very important]. . . people are all ways in awe and ask ” how do you do so well with women”.

So thanks again and please keep up the amazing work so that you can help people to make themselves as happy as you helped make me

I hope your students never give up on having FUN with this and how easy it becomes with practice (not for the lazy ass or people shut down to fun).

A million thanks
Dave, England”

Dave, you are welcome. And let me say that the key here IS to keep it fun. If you start taking any of this too seriously, you will cut down the power of the techniques and get in your own way.

If you have ever seen me teach, I am constantly joking around but I take what I do very seriously. I just don’t have to approach it in a serious way.

I also very much appreciate your point about having found a life partner totally by choice and not because it was the best you could do.

When men come from true power and choice, that is when they can be truly loyal to a woman. Not because they gave up, but because they at last had the tools to STEP UP to the quality of woman they have always truly really wanted.

Peace and piece
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

When things don’t quite go your way…when you strike out with every woman you meet today (or all week long), when you feel hurt, it is natural to want to protect yourself.

It triggers off a “one-two-three-four” thought process…

• Why did this happen to me?
• This is ALWAYS going to happen to me.
• This ONLY happens to me.
• This happened because of something I did wrong.

The easiest way to protect yourself : don’t put yourself out there. Don’t approach any more women, ever.  Never Sarge.  When a woman throws herself at you, rather than run the risk she might not be THE ONE, just forget the possibility that it might be the best fucking lay you’ve ever had.  Rosie and her sisters are always there, anyway.  Right?

Wrong Song, Mr. Strong…

Newsflash: every person experiences fear, sorrow and hesitation and backsliding, suffering and restriction.

No need to feel bad about it, as the song says “Everybody hurts, sometime.”

Let’s see if we can oppose these lies with more neutral ideas. Let’s return you to neutrality before we aim to return you to other aspects of power.

Somewhere, somehow, you have some very vague representation of handling this better and want to find a better model for handling this.

All of the above are TRUE statements, no drama, no extra weight in that baggage.

Now, let’s tackle the lies and other less than useful things:

1. Why did this happen to me? Wrong question. Focuses your mind on what went wrong and your “failures”. Better question: what can I do to prevent this kind of thing from happening again without zapping my zest for life and openness to new adventures? If not, how can I now best view this as the worthwhile price to pay for having an open mind and life?
2. This is ALWAYS going to happen to me. Unlikely, if you learn what you need to. People can always change their feelings, that is true, but so can you. If someone can change their loving feelings for you because of your behavior then why can’t you change your negative feelings about yourself because of NEW behavior? Hmmmm… Change does and will happen. It’s how you choose to handle it. No guarantees on this rotating mudball other than naked baby in, stop breathing to leave.
3. This ONLY happens to me. Horseshit. Read “Dear Abby”. Watch Oprah. She had this guy on whose fiance called off the wedding 5 hours before it was supposed to go on. He wound up writing a book called Honeymoon with My Brother. Best thing that ever happened to him.
4. This happened because of something I did wrong. Here is a tricky one as it IS possible that some old patterns of emotional response or old patterns of behavior reared up and kept you from having the kinds of responses that would have kept you more in the drivers seat.

In which case, THIS GIRL WHO JUST DISSED YOU IS A GREAT SPIRITUAL GURU AND TEACHER HERE TO SLAP YOU AWAKE WITH THE PAIN SO YOU CAN SEE THESE PATTERNS AND RESOLVE THEM.

Look, what you did “wrong” isn’t the entire contents in the book of your life. They are just “markers” to show you what needs to be read and re-written.

ANYTHING THAT COMES UP COMES UP TO BE LEARNED FROM, HANDLED, PURIFIED, REFINED, RECYCLED, TRANSMUTED, RELEASED towards the vision of whom you everyday are more and more becoming.

So…find a place of objective, clear, grounded clarity to view what happened and find the patterns where you would like more power and choice.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Actually, I have two suggestions to help you with this, depending where you are.  One is my Nail Your Inner Game system.  The other is my classic course, Beyond Confidence.   Check them out.

Oh, and if you want to beat the one-two-three-four get them both and save 15% on today’s investment, just click here for a special discount link.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

These days, every marriage has about a 50% chance of ending in divorce.  Oftentimes this because one (or both) of the partners “settled” rather than claiming the results they deserved and getting with the person they really wanted to be with.  Another of the leading causes of divorce is infidelity, where one partner cheats on the other.

And that’s within the bounds of sacred legal matrimony, with both Church and State involved. So it gets even worse when you consider how often people cheat on their partners in relationships (or real-hate-shun-ships by default).

When a smart man, who otherwise has life handled and everything going his way, finds out his woman cheated on him with someone else, it’s devastating.  Aside from it being just wrong of her to do that, consider the impact on the man’s ego.  It’s like taking a giant lance and shoving it through a tiny balloon in terms of how badly it can rip him apart inside.

The questions arise: “What, I’m not good enough to please her?” “Am I good enough for any woman?” “What’s he got that I don’t?  Sure there’s a reason she stiffed me for him!” “She’s the best I’ve ever had, I’ll never do any better, and look what she did to me?  I give up!” “Will the next woman cheat on me, too?” “Why bother?”

And The Wet Sack-Cloth Of Angst Continues To Weight Him Down…

Not only does the cheating impact (as in ruin) the current relationship, but think what impact it could have on the man’s future interactions with women…

Say he meets a new woman, things go great, and they end up in a relationship.  She’s awesome in bed and compatible with him in pretty much every way – she’s that “lady in the streets / freak in the sheets” every guy wants to introduce to his mother AND take on a wild ride in the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

But….now he finds himself fearing he’s becoming too emotionally invested, which would open him up to being hurt again. Since last time he got emotionally involved, his girlfriend cheated on him, now he’s wondering how he can protect himself from being too vulnerable – yet still be able to enjoy the benefits of getting closer (meaning attached) to someone.

It Isn’t Just About Attachment. It’s About Entanglement.

Along with the good feelings he has with the current woman, he also has the entanglement of what happened in the past.  His legitimate desire to be safe when entering a new relationship is now all tangled up with fear-tainted grasping and need.  “What if SHE cheats on me too?  I don’t know if I have it in me to deal with AGAIN!”

It’s a fact of life: eventually, on some level, everyone loses someone they love.  BUT on another level, things don’t end.  And remember this, too: if you hadn’t found out that woman from before was cheating on you, it’s possible you might still be with her – in the dark in many ways – missing out on more eligible (not to mention HOTTER) women NOW.

Are you going to let that woman who cheated on you in the past CONTINUE to hurt you by interfering with your CURRENT relationships with women?  She probably doesn’t think about you much at all, yet you’re going to let memories of her PAST insolence override the very real chances to find juicy joy with women in the PRESENT day?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This applies not only to situations where a woman from your past cheated on you, but ANY situation where you might be letting residue from a bad past real-hate-shun-ship entangle you and trip you up.  As you get untangled and move forward into the wet, pink expanse of available, eligible hot babes, you’ll need the GPS to guide you to the juiciest of them all.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Going through my lovely mail bag, I have here a question from a student who just purchased Speed Seduction® 3.0, barely had signed for the package delivery before he ripped it right out of the box and slid it into his DVD player, and starting getting more women so fast it’d make your head spin.

Here’s his question:

Now that I’m connecting with a few new women, how do I move from one to the next? As they say “breaking up is hard to do.”

What do you have for me that talks about letting them down easy? I mean, I could just be an a$$hole and stop calling them, but that doesn’t seem like the adult thing to do.  Is there a pattern, or something I can use as a way to “move on?”

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most, let me ask you a question.

If you woke up one morning to learn some unknown rich relative had left you a billion dollars and it was sitting in your bank account right now, how easy would it be to change your lifestyle?

I bet you’d be driving to your realtor’s office THAT MORNING in your brand-new Porsche, calling your boss from your cell phone on the way there to tell them you quit, to sign the papers for your new mansion, just in time to pick up your favorite chick to meet your chartered private airplane for 2:00 lift-off for a dirty seven-day weekend in Vegas.

You wouldn’t spend much time explaining it in great detail to every single person you know.  Because that would just be holding you back…correct?

Another question: has a woman ever stopped returning your calls?  Told you simply “I can’t see you anymore” without offering any explanation at all?  Whether or not turnabout is fair play, is it the way of the world?

I don’t know how many exclusive relationships you’ve been in, but assuming you have, when you “went exclusive” with a woman, how much time did you spend individually explaining the change to the other women in your life?  Or were you now totally busy with your new girlfriend?

In your concern, I gather a need to explain yourself.  That shows you are a decent person who cares for the feelings of others.  Now, I challenge you: would you not also be showing concern and care  by being polite but clear and direct in letting these other women know you’ve moved on, without dragging it out?  This way, they know THEIR more likely options lay elsewhere and THEY can “get there” faster?

Spend your Sarging and patterning energies getting more of what you DO want.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A week or so ago, I posted this on my blog – a Sarge report from one of my longtime students who had met an HB8, had a few meetings in quick succession that led to an all-night makeout session… only to get a text from her the next morning in which she says they shouldn’t see each other anymore because she has a “borefriend.”

Said student read YOUR comments and thoughts and had a reaction along the lines of “DOH! What the f@@k was I thinking?!?!” and decided he’d give it another shot with her. Here’s what happened:

OK Ross, my gut told me to wait till the weekend to try contacting her, so that’s what I did. Meanwhile, on Thursday coincidentally and out of the blue she sent me a text that said “I’m so sorry, I actually don’t have a boyfriend. I wanted to see how you’d react if I did. I shouldn’t have done that.”

On Friday night I texted back “So which is it?” She followed up with basically a repeat of the above. So I called her Sunday (I deliberately dragged this out to build suspense) and she apologized profusely. I let her go on for a minute and then I said “Really, Debbie (not her real name of course), that totally threw me for a loop….I forgive you though.” We chatted for a bit. The plan is to get together this weekend coming up which is the next time our schedules match up. I’m heading over her place.

I’m not going to jump in head first. My other options still open (no “oneitis” here Ross). I’ll give her a mulligan on this one, but I’ll take this one step at a time. Give my thanks to everyone for their comments, especially the “constructive’ ones” I needed that!

You put into place the principle that a woman’s current reaction is rarely, if ever, her ‘final answer’. You remembered it a little late this time, but at least you remembered.  Next time you’ll remember sooner.

With all this suspense building, so long as you weren’t pining over her and agonizing on “what’s the right time to call” and “how long should I wait” and other dum-dum dating-game nonsense (sounds like that’s not an issue for you though).

Now let me aim the long, sharp needle at the balloon that is your ego.  SHE MIGHT NOT BE SINGLE.  Could be she has a boyfriend after all, but liked things with you so much she said what she needed to say to not lose you.  She might be getting ready to serve this guy his walking papers but wanting to interview other candidates first.  Or, maybe she just wants to f@@k around.

Before you come back all “woe is me” and “how did I let myself get suckered in” and all that rot, ask yourself – are ALL of these possibilities acceptable to YOU?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

There’s a song by Eddie Money that goes “I wanna go back, and do it all over…but I can’t go back…” Actually, this raises a good question.  CAN you go back?

Maybe there’s a hottie from your past whose “friend zone” you got caught in, or she’s that former classmate you didn’t (at the time) have the balls to pass a “love note” to.

Maybe she’s a former co-worker you seriously had the hots for, but you didn’t want to dip your ink pen in the company well.  You don’t work there anymore and she still writes on your Facebook wall from time to time… and (per her latest profile pic, anyway) she’s still as hot as she was back when you couldn’t focus on your work for an hour after she walked by your desk, with a current “status” of “Single” to boot.

Or maybe she’s someone who rejected you, and you totally blew it (or you rejected yourself by never making a move) and….ohhh…if ONLY she could experience the new, Sargy you….what could happen?

No matter what, she’s on your mind.  A lot.  So the question becomes…

Can You Bring This One Back To Life…
Or Is It Time To Move On?

Well you have two choices. 

Choice one, stop fretting and make your move.

Or, you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.

Actually, as I look at this, the reason you think about her is you invested lots of feeling in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.

Now listen, and listen up: Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it. It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.

In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.

No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.

I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, fantasizing about this salacious co-worker throwing herself on your desk and cooing “Hey big guy, I thought we were scheduled for a ‘staff’ meeting…here it is… (looks at watch)…. about six after nine in the morning… we have some ‘hard topics’ to cover…”

In the case of the chick you “blew it” with… you replay it in your mind, except you imagine the version where you didn’t trip on your Johnson or whatever else happened that things didn’t progress.

Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.

Remember: you never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve taken a ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and experienced “blast-off”.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Sick and tired of letting sexy, beautiful women pass right in front of you while you sit there virtually paralyzed not knowing exactly what to do or say to meet them?  Knowing later on, you’ll WISH it had been otherwise?  Click here to learn how to make it happen THIS time, instead of (in your mind) later….

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Whenever I hear someone is in a relationship, my first question: is it a relationship, or a real-hate-shun-ship by default?

Before we go any further, let me be clear: if you’ve found that special someone, and it’s truly right for both of you, GOOD ON YOU!

However, about 50% of all marriages are doomed to divorce.  They say it’s because “values are changing” or “people don’t respect the sanctity of marriage anymore”, etc.  Whatever.

No. NOT true.

Why do guys stay in “real-hate-shun-ships by default?”

Here are some of the stunning reasons I’ve heard over the years, often from guys who otherwise seem to have life handled:

• “It’s cheaper to keep her.”  (He fears having to pay up in a divorce settlement, so he endures a living hell and possibly finding the REAL woman of his dreams, simply to avoid writing a check which might be his ticket to lifetime happiness.)
• “She was my high school sweetheart, and our families have been friends for generations.  It would upset a lot of people if we broke up.” (So, WHO ARE YOU MARRIED TO, pal???)
• “We stay together for the kids.” (Yeah, the kids who live in a miserable home because your real-hate-shun-ship ain’t workin’.  Kids DO see what’s going on.)
• “I was taught: you’re supposed to be married by the time you’re 30, and you have a responsibility to provide grandchildren for your parents.” (So, everyone in your family has ALWAYS been HAPPY and has made PRODUCTIVE CONTRIBUTIONS?)
• “Man, I’ve never had a girl as fine as she is.  And hey, nothing’s perfect.  I can deal with her spazzing out on me because I probably won’t find one THIS hot ever again.” (Correction: I calculate there are 34,000 women at least as hot as she is.)
• “Happiness is what they put in the movies.  This is REAL LIFE, Ross, not some fairy tale.  I don’t play games.” (No XBox for you, huh?)

Let me add: Speed Seduction® ain’t just about getting laid.  Want a girlfriend?  Looking for a wife?  Great!  Then use my teachings to cut through the bull***t “dating rituals” and “social programming” and you’re MORE LIKELY to find a life partner who will satisfy you in every way.  In fact, my teachings also help guys who are married and in relationships keep the “spark” burning hot.

Look: it’s your life.  You deserve the opportunity to create the results and the happiness with the women you truly desire.  Are you living a life of fulfillment, or a life by default?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Are you fed up having to settle for low quality, average women, or worse – being alone?  Well, if you CHOOSE to live a life by default, it really is your fault.  Because you don’t have to.  Click here for a solution that skips over the nonsense and gets you the women you REALLY want.