Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, someone asked me this question: if you acted like a total AFC toward a woman in the past (lots of flowers, expensive dinners, and “dating” prior to any making-out or sex) and predictably got rejected, before you acquired Speed Seduction® skills, can you go back, show her the new “Sargy” you, and win her over with the new you?

Usually, I’d ask… “Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

But for some guys, whether it’s (as far as he can tell) a sense of wanting to “go back and do right,” a nagging feeling of having failed and wanting a do-over, or whatever, he just can’t get this chick off of his mind.

Is there anything he can do to change her feeling for him?  Should he try to bring this one back to life, or should he just move on?

Here’s the thing: you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.

Actually, as I think about this, the problem is that you invested lots of feeling (not to mention money) in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.

Now listen, and listen up:

Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it.

It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.

In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.

No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.

I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, whacking off to your perverted little dribble dick fantasies (just kidding about the dribble dick), etc etc.

Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.

Remember this: “You never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve made love”.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

[This is "Part 2" that follows up on my recent post "Untangling Your Deepest Fears With Women: A Farming Analogy"]

We left off last time with a question: what can you do to start “unpacking” this great big ball of less than useful energy-to pull out the individual strands and then convert them to USEFUL energy, a very attractive USEFUL vibe that will have these women wanting you NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY OR DO?

As with any personal change, there are the tools like guided visualization, belief change, personal coaching/group feedback, setting goals, etc.

All of these have value. All are useful. Some more than others, and for each of these, I’ve got modifications to the more standard stuff out there that I think makes my versions far more useful and effective.

However, I believe that when a person is “entrenched” in limiting and engraved ways of thinking, feeling, responding and acting, what is first and foremost needed is some “mental spaciousness”.  A place of clear, unprogrammed awareness and calm from which to use all the other tools and do all the other change work.

In any area of change there are those processes/things that:

1. Need to be subtracted out. They just don’t serve at all. They are just “noise” in the line.

These could be:

a) internal dialog that gets in your way
b) beliefs about yourself that are useless and contain no real information (I am ugly, I always fail)
c) energetic overloads-you are so amped up around women that you can’t hold still. (These can also be diminished or transmuted).

2. Things/processes that need to be added in. These could be:

a) simple skill sets (knowing how to physically make moves on women, knowing how to elicit trance words, do walkups, etc)

b) beliefs that power the skill sets, (I never take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone; it’s just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or responding in THAT moment, and it’s always subject to change).

c) different mixes of energy/vibe: strong, playful, intuitive, sincere, challenging. In other words, it could be an issue on the vibrational/energetic level.

d) simply doing more repetitions: some people just need to do more of what is working. They need self-monitoring/motivation skills.

e) skills for learning from mistakes without getting stuck back in them and having an INFORMED enthusiasm. (I’ve developed a protocol for this that is truly amazing-I call it “The Extractor”.

3. Processes/things which need to be increased. That could be any of what I’ve just mentioned in 2. Things which you already do well, that contribute to your success, that already work. The increase could be in frequency, or intensity, or precision or even joy of use!

4. Those things which are useful, but need to be diminished, either in frequency or intensity, or only used in the right sequence or correct proportions with other things, or used in the right context.

Again, that could be any of the items in #2 or anything else that actually is useful that the person already does that can serve in the right
proportion or context. So you could diminish the frequency, intensity, etc.

5. Finally, there are those things which represent great sources of mental energy that neither should be diminished or eliminated, but instead transmuted and refined and then used as pure energy for the achievement of 1-4.

Note: I did NOT say “clearing”. Clearing is better than having them blocking, but transmuting takes all that energy and puts it to use.

Just imagine if all or 90% of the energy/emotion that has been weighing you down, blocking you, enfearing you, were converted to raw energy for your peace of mind, joy, discipline, creativity, etc.

Now, the women are waiting.  What, in the name of Tammy’s tights, are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Those of you who devotedly follow Ross Jeffries Uncensored have heard me say a few very important things about the words “dating” and “friendship.”  Let me recap three of them:

“Dating” is what you do with a woman AFTER you have slept with her.

When you’re in the “friend zone” you have what I call the “insider’s advantage” to Sarge your way right into her bed.

But the last thing you want to do is get F-bombs (as in, “we can talk as fr–n-s”) dropped on you by the women you want to get with.

I’m reminded of a note I got from a student in one of my discussion groups a few years back.  He said that, despite all of this, he had come to the “key realization” that it’s important to be a friend.  “Friends first” were his words.

According to this student, if he went in trying to be Don Juan, with the smoothest lines and the strongest male energy in the room, he’d blow them out (as in burn them out).  Rather, he wanted the woman to feel absolutely comfortable and safe talking to him about anything, and also for him to feel the same way about her.

My response?

No. NO. N-O.

The alternatives are NOT “strongest male energy in the place” and “blowing them out” OR this “friends first” pish-posh.
Remember that one of the cornerstones of Speed Seduction® is using what she gives you in terms of the vibe she puts out there.

CALIBRATE to the woman in front of you. You don’t need to blow ANYONE out if you CALIBRATE, use THEIR responses, etc.

Now, I understand gathering enough information about her and how sometimes you need a couple of meetings to get her in the sack.  That’s still Speed Seduction® in my book as long as you’re not playing the mastur-waiting game (wait before calling her, wait before asking her out again, wait until Date No. 3 or 6 or 8 before hitting the mattress with her, etc. etc. etc. ad nauseate-um).

But don’t label it “FRIENDS”. THAT IS DANGEROUS AND DESTRUCTIVE. And furthermore,  when you do this you are making HER reluctance (if it is even there at all) into YOUR reluctance.

Let me translate: when YOU don’t know how to feel comfortable patterning this girl, you project THIS discomfort onto her, rather than embracing the skills you need to learn.  You fall back on old ways (this whole “friends first” business).

What did that Rabbi say? Some of the seeds fell on bad ground, and immediately the birds of the air came and ate them.

Now, I have more on this “friends first” topic, but I’ll save it for another day.  That day cometh soon, so keep your antennae and your browsers tuned into RJU.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the biggest blocks to mastering the skills and claiming your results with the women you truly desire is just that – having blocks.

Maybe you’re overweight and thinking you need to lose a few before women will find you attractive, so you’ve stopped Sarging till you tip the scale a bit less.  (Question: did you know that many hot women specifically like larger men?  Why are you denying them the chance to bring pleasure into your life?)

Could be that you aren’t having women over to your place because you’re worried they’ll think you live in a dump.  (One of my students had this worry, then he discovered that women love the view from the balcony of his 1-bedroom apartment.)

Or, could it be worry that women might not give you the time of day because you don’t have much coin in your pocket at the moment?

Let’s hear from someone who has the money concern:

> Hi Ross,

> First off thanks for the legendary seduction pack, it is a must read for EVERY guy, no if buts or maybe’s!!
>
> I’ve done my homework in reading your books and hearing the live seminar sessions, from there its easy to see and understand that you don’t need a ‘massive wad of cash’ to get laid and even on an extremely tight budget, this does not stop me from meeting the women i want…. It restricts my options when i try to escalate because i end up with an eye on the numbers and the most dominant thoughts on my mind just bring themselves to the front which kills my states from within every time and annihilates my chances with her… but I have to be real here, we live in a capitalist world, and a lot of things revolve around money… My cash flow crisis is a temporary mid term setback, but a man still has needs that he shouldn’t have to pay to get….
>
> Anyway moving on swiftly to matter at hand….The long and short of it is i have been successful at bringing the kind of women i want into my life applying the 3 S’s but escalation is proving a major stumbling block on empty pockets, or at least i just haven’t learnt how to skip over that one yet… I have applied all the advice in the seduction pack into my daily routine, and meeting new women is a fun process for both me and the girls i have tried it on……not to brag but I have not yet had a woman slap me for starting a conversation….no matter how crude the chat up line….
>
> What advice can you give me for handling this , ” I’m broke, no woman will want to come near me” mentality or similar scenarios you may have encountered?  RJ if you’ll forgive the pun…..I need to know how to turn these women out with turning my pockets inside out and looking like a charity case to these modern independent women that will gladly treat me, if only i know the right way to put it…..
>
> help
>
> down but not out

RJ here. I can’t tell what you mean by “escalation”. And if a woman is hot for you – if you’ve captured and led her imagination and emotions in the right way – escalation can be, “why don’t we go somewhere a little more quiet where we can relax and focus in?”

You don’t have to spend money on a date – that’s all crap in your head. And if some women DO want a guy with $$$ to go more than a few rounds with them in bed – oh well.  There are plenty who won’t care so much.

The women are waiting.  So what in the name of Ben Franklin are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

From time to time, whether it’s in my Coaching Program, one of my private discussion groups, or here on my blog, I’ll ask my students that simple, yet timeless, all-encompassing question:

How’s it going with you and the ladies?

You all tell me your stories.  And it shows me a lot about how what I teach is helping more smart guys like you overcome your challenges with women, master the skills, and get more moist pink abundance, more vaginal victory, more rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle, more, more, more, more, more!

And yet, there’s another theme: it doesn’t work every single time with every single woman, and sometimes this stuff does require a little effort.  You know what, that’s correct.

It gives you something much, much more important.

To make my point, let me share with you a few snippets of feedback from one of my coaching clients who recognizes the relationship between persistence and relaxation:

> The breakthrough (with her) was when I gave myself permission to just practice,
> not give a f@@k, and not focus on outcomes, as it really relieved
> the pressure, and the resources I had inside of me came out. I had,
> up to this point, been so focused on outcomes, and that had screwed
> me up and would often make me feel like a loser and unattractive. I
> wasn’t focused on the PROCESS, which is precisely where I needed to
> be focusing.

RJ: Exactly so: fear and anxiety and tensing up FUCK US UP. Stay relaxed in the immediate present.

> Also, probably the biggest lesson for me was, no matter WHAT
> happens, that’s no indication of what’s GOING to happen, unless you
> DECIDE that it will. And thinking back, I can only remember one
> time when I closed the very first woman I talk to in an evening.
>
> Being PERSISTANT when things didn’t go according to plan was KEY for
> this being a really awesome night for me.

Being persistent AND relaxed.  Let me fill in the “stuff between the lines” for you. When you know you’re doing the right things and making the right moves, it puts your mind at ease because you know you’re headed down the right road.  At the end of every road is a destination.

Every time you take a step forward, even though the answer to “Are we there yet?” is “not yet” you can rest assured you’ve gotten just a little bit (maybe MORE than a little bit) closer.

So instead of beating yourself up for being a loser with the ladies, instead you say “That was great practice.  Now I’ll do even better with the next one.”

Hey, I’ll take it.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever felt a complete collapse of energy when you don’t achieve the results you wanted?  Particularly when you make your move with a woman and she shuts you down cold?

Some students who have experienced this say it gets to the point where they can almost see the future – they can perceive or predict rejection before it even happens.

Now does past rejection give us the ability to see the future?  Not really.

What happens is you want to move forward, but you also want to be totally certain before you take a step. Since these two things are not logically possible you have two conflicting desires bumping up against one another.

The resulting “friction” is what causes the suffering and the perception of “perceiving rejection”.

The solution is to release the need to be certain and then to feel the raw physical sensations of uncertainty without the internal dialog or imagery. Just track the raw sensations in your body, noting every ten seconds out loud if they are “Same” or “Changing” (veterans of some of my Speed Seduction® seminars are familiar with this technique).

Once you have the raw physical feeling separated from the imagery and dialog, it no longer feeds the limiting ideas in the imagery and dialog – there is no more fuel to power the engine of your ongoing “story” that has kept you limited, so the imagery and dialog just tend to drop without you having to attempt to drop them.

And that is your “get out of rejection jail” card…

This:

1. Frees you to create a NEW story about how you respond, what you can do, etc.
2. Frees up that raw energy to power the NEW story.
3. Quiets the internal “noise/friction” in your system so you can perceive what is going on with other people: the accuracy and speed of your intuition and calibration will skyrocket WITHOUT EFFORT.
4. Quiets the noise for your EXTERNAL communication so that what you say to others will not have to push out through your noise/friction. This means your messages can be delivered with far less “push/voltage/intensity” so they don’t creep people out/blow them out of the water/break rapport etc.
5. Changes your vibe to one that is grounded, quiet, flexible and attractive BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH.

That’s not bad for one simple process, is it?

For those of you who are familiar with my Magick/PI stuff, can you imagine what this cleaned up state/cleaned up energy could do for your sigils and other forms of ritual work?

Hmmmm…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I can promise you this: when you untangle yourself like this, it makes you MUCH more appealing, much more efficient a learning machine, creates a charisma INDEPENDENT of external validation or your social skill set, creates an INFORMED, INTELLIGENT motivation and enthusiasm that doesn’t rollercoaster up and down based on how things turn out on any particular day or with any particular woman.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

So there’s a woman you’ve been seeing, things seem to be going great.  And now, you’re stepping things up – or trying to.

When you try to kiss her, she leans away.

When you ask her to come back to your place, she tells you she needs time to get to know you better.  Even though this is now the third or fourth time you’ve met up, and, as far as you can tell, things go great until you try to make a move.

Ah.  Resistance.  What is causing it?

Who knows…

It could be she has serious intimacy issues.

It could be she is fucking someone and feels guilty about being intimate with you.

Or it could be you simply haven’t sufficiently captured and led her imagination to the point where she is feeling the feelings inside that let her know she wants to kiss/grope/fuck a guy (you).

One thing you can be sure of: for whatever combination of factors, she has NOT yet felt the flow of feelings inside; the flood of feelings on the inside that lets her know: I HAVE TO HAVE THIS MAN.

You see, the key to dealing with resistance is to understand the three levels of dealing with any response:

1. The beliefs that enable you to stay calm and utilize what YOU see as “resistance”.
2. The energetic control to keep your intent focused and strong.
3. The actual patter or words you say.

Could be, she needs to feel more comfort and connection with you.

Are you are trying to “date” her; to shove Speed Seduction® into the dating frame?  That triggers both her “check list” for a guy and her own fears about being labeled a slut, etc.

One quick thought: if she pulls back when you go for the kiss, are you touching her in some way before you go in for the kiss?

As I tell guys, the CLOSE starts the minute you first talk to her. Which means, early on, establish some comfort in touch.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Making the transition from a life by default – where you simply accept whatever success with women happens to fall into your lap because you don’t this part of life handled – to becoming a Speed Seduction® Master can have its moments of overwhelm and frustration.

One of the biggest causes: now that you’re seriously laser-focused on meeting more women, getting laid more, finding a girlfriend or wife, etc. you’re paying attention to every interaction or Sarge and evaluating yourself.

What’s more, you second-guess yourself as in “Cripes, why didn’t I just go for it, I mean, was she or was she not giving me the doggy bowl dinner look?”

I certainly understand. It can be confusing to take on new learnings and, more importantly…

….An entirely new relationship to frustration and confusion.

I want to say that again, in another way.

Learning seduction is not just about learning to successfully seduce women.

It’s also about learning to successfully relate to frustration and confusion.

You can score big victories in one, or the other, or both.

When it’s not yet working with women, you can STILL win in regard to how you handle frustration and confusion.

This is as key a skill set as knowing how to do walk ups, knowing how to get women hot and ready, etc.

When overwhelm and frustration rear their ugly heads, start by doing these 6 things:

1. Chunk down. Start small. Get good at ONE skill at a time. For example, get good at walking up and the introduction BEFORE you try to go any further.
2. Work on changing your orientation to first and foremost NOTICING WHAT WORKED. Remember, it takes training to recognize progress in an area of life that’s been loaded up with negativity.
3. Have a reward system in place. Anytime you do ANYTHING right, however small, reward yourself in some way.
4. Have a weekly reward: I recommend a weekly, good, therapeutic massage(not happy ending!).
5. Keep getting support from fellow smart men who have blazed the same trail you are.
6. Keep a journal to record what you did, what happened, and what you learned.

Try this out and see how your frustration and overwhelm subside.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As I once told a friend of mine who asked me how I could take being “rejected” by women, “I never get rejected. I just discover if a woman has good taste!”

Now, I admit, that’s a pretty extreme reframe. But notice the fun state of mind it created for me.

My actual attitude in any situation involving women is: “I will either get what I want (or better than I imagined) or I will enjoy the process of learning what I need to get what I want or better than I imagined”.

Now, just imagine holding THAT belief in front of you as you consider approaching a woman you’d like to meet.

What it comes down to is the MEANING you assign to approaching women that determines what you will be able to do.

Here is an example:

I have had SO many students tell me they can’t even talk to a beautiful woman.  I always ask them the following question.

“Ok. Suppose that stunningly beautiful woman you “can’t” talk to was standing there and I guy was coming up behind her with a knife raised in the air, about to bring it down on her and stab her. Could you talk to her then and at least yell, “Hey lady! Look out!”

Every guy I have ever asked that has at least said “yes” and many of them have said they would go on to try to take the knife away from the guy.

I always say,

“Congratulations. That’s talking to a beautiful woman!”

They always look at me kind of funny and say, “well, that’s different. I would be doing something good for her, in that case”.

Wow. As if talking to a woman and giving her the chance to possibly enter your world ISN’T A GOOD THING?

Really the only difference is the meaning YOU assign to it.

Instead of the woman being the judge of your value or attractiveness what if you just viewed talking to her as a way to enjoy seeing what she was like and even to see how much fun you could have playing with her?

Or you could go really nutty with your imagination, get really playful, and imagine she was suffocating and there was air in your sac!

I admit that’s extreme, but it sure beats viewing talking to a girl as a life or death situation.

The bottom line: rejection cannot exist in a properly directed mind. There is only the meaning  YOU assign!

Hey…that sorta rhymes! Now write it down, 100 times!

The key here is to stay playful, have fun and assign the right meaning, the meaning that serves you, rather than the one that stops you in your tracks.

When you stay playful, your life will be “playful”.

Ha ha ha. This is fun.  But the rhyming is done. (OOPS!)

Here is an email from a student who let that playful attitude serve him very well:

I really have to thank you for all of your hard work and dedication to redressing the balance in the power of men and women

I have been a student for over six years now and have had some mind blowing results, but the most important thing to me is the fun you can have doing this when rejection no longer even exists in your PREVIOUSLY negative mind.

I’m hope there is no need to give you specific stories as there really are to many to mention and “doing the thing” with women within just an hour of meeting them was unimaginable, until I had your coaching . . .it then became the norm.

I believe that students need to adapt it to their own culture and environment, but that goes without saying and thankfully you give your students the tools to do this.

I have actually found my ideal partner in life now and because of your material it was totally by choice not because it “was the best I could do”.

I am 39yrs old with no money [ too lazy there ] I would say I was only OK looking too , but my partner is just 21 and a HB 10, she has an amazing mind too  [very important]. . . people are all ways in awe and ask ” how do you do so well with women”.

So thanks again and please keep up the amazing work so that you can help people to make themselves as happy as you helped make me

I hope your students never give up on having FUN with this and how easy it becomes with practice (not for the lazy ass or people shut down to fun).

A million thanks
Dave, England”

Dave, you are welcome. And let me say that the key here IS to keep it fun. If you start taking any of this too seriously, you will cut down the power of the techniques and get in your own way.

If you have ever seen me teach, I am constantly joking around but I take what I do very seriously. I just don’t have to approach it in a serious way.

I also very much appreciate your point about having found a life partner totally by choice and not because it was the best you could do.

When men come from true power and choice, that is when they can be truly loyal to a woman. Not because they gave up, but because they at last had the tools to STEP UP to the quality of woman they have always truly really wanted.

Peace and piece
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

There’s a big argument/debate on whether you can ever be “kind” to women.

Could she view this as a sign of strength (you are confident enough that you present yourself from a place of kindness and warmth) or weakness (that it makes you a pushover, an AFC, or worse)?

My answer:

Uh uh uh…depends Depends. Depends.

If it reeks of need or pressure (aka desperate supplication or other AFC behaviors), they don’t want it.

If it’s freely given or given from a place of abundance AND you have established authority and respect, it’s usually a-ok.

Most unappreciated “kindness” is unappreciated because:

1. You didn’t establish respect/authority or get any investment from her in the interaction/transaction BEFORE the kindness.
2. She’s a twist and just doesn’t trust any kindness. Ok. They are out there. Best to run away or play the villain only a VERY short while. But aware, please: if you stare into the abyss to get your cues and clues on how to respond and behave, the abyss also stares long and hard into you. And what it gazes at it molds and shapes. So don’t look long. You can glance briefly at the sun but I wouldn’t look too long nor make a habit of it. Get my metaphor?
3. It wasn’t really kindness but need or pressure.
4. She’s a super-twist and not only doesn’t trust kindness, she WANTS to be punished. Run, RUN, R-U-N away.
5. She doesn’t like the psychological pressure of having to live up to the ideal you think of her as; putting her on a pedestal gives her cramps, a nosebleed and a nasty migraine, so she kicks you in the face as she steps off to be human.
6. You are giving her the kindness you THINK she wants or that you enjoy giving and not what the kindness she really needs. If she craves physical affection and you buy her gifts it isn’t her fault that you aren’t paying attention.

Given the right context and a reasonably ok psyche (and it isn’t that rare) most women will soak up appropriate, NON NEEDY, NON PUSHY kindness.

Some are twists.

Some just crave excitement and drama and dominance more than the cuddlies, wuddlies and warm fuzzies.

The most confusing ones crave one over the other depending on their mood of the day or time of the month.

So, women, any given woman, are/is as unpredictable as each is unique in her own way, but there are some ground rules that always apply.

1. Screen your woman.
2. Establish boundaries, self-respect/authority in her world.
3. Those who require punishment or who never trust kindness need to be left behind.
4. Get a good initial read, if you can, on whether they more strongly prefer excitement, drama and being dominated to being cared for and looked after, or in what proportion they want each. I prefer a woman who is a good mix of both; if she doesn’t like excitement she’s probably a lousy fuck. If she can’t take kindness, then I can’t open my heart to her and the sex becomes nothing more than an energy dump; fun,but numbing and draining.

Hint: Learn to read the chakra at the hara or t’an t’ien. which relates to power and will issues and you will get an idea of where they are at. And EXPECT the unexpected because with women, it IS going to happen.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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