Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Once again, so-called “Valentine’s Day” is coming up. Once again, the Romance Racketeers are rubbing their slimy hands together with rapacious glee.

All over, guys hoping to “wow” that special someone are making reservations at swanky restaurants, snagging seventh-row seats at expensive shows, buying diamonds and jewelry and chocolates and roses, and all that rot.

(That’s right…they’ll go straight down the drain.)

They’re spending extra time at the gym, racing against time trying (and failing) to blast away the remaining holiday pudge in hopes of being in “tip top shape” for the “big date” – the EVENT that’s 13 days away from today.

Who knows, it might pay off.

She might even kiss him on the cheek along with cooing “Awwwww, how sweet!” when he springs the “big surprise” on her.

WOW. Sounds awesome!

Since Tuesday is a “work night” in many parts of the world, she’ll probably want to call it a night around 9 or 10, so she’ll send him away with another peck on the cheek and an urge to “call me, please” with a subtle hint that she “might be available” this weekend.

This is how the 14th will go for the Money Man.

Here’s the thing, though.

She’ll be peeking out the window watching for the moment Mr. Chocolates And Roses And Expensive Dinners And Shows drives off into the sunset.

At the taillights’ last gleaming as he speeds off, thinking he’s a “lock” for a hot make out session this weekend… she’ll nibble on one of the chocolates, then pull out her phone and dial up the man who, within the next 45 minutes or so, will be in her bed, tasting her sweets.

This privileged, skillful gent with money in his pockets is the Honey Man.

The Vaginal Victor On V-Day!

And the best part: he keeps his money AND gets her honey.

Which scenario sounds better to you? (That’s what I thought.)

So join me at 12:00 Noon Pacific on Tuesday, February 14 for this year’s “Give V-Day The Finger” Live Video Broadcast Event!

Here’s the link to lock in your spot now:

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Peace, piece, and see you there,

RJ

P.S. There will be a limited time replay. So if you can’t make it at noon Pacific on the 14th, sign up anyway. You’ll STILL get access to the special opportunity we announce:

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Just the other day a student of mine shared an observation with me.

The moment a woman starts with “When are you going to take me out on a date?” or “I want you to wine and dine me” he immediately, instantaneously, inexorably, and irrevocably loses interest in her.

From what he tells me, it’s not because he has taken me up on my 60-day challenge or refuses to be in thrall of the romance racketeers.  Even though he does, indeed, embrace the former and reject the latter as smart men do.

As he puts it:

“There are no logistics hero action figures in the toy aisle!  Many action hero figures, though.”  

A “date” requires logistics.  Wining and dining is nothing but logistics: reservations at the restaurant, buying the wine, selecting the best after-dinner spot to enjoy the wine, transportation to/from.  And much more.

Another student told me about a street pickup he did last week that went nowhere.  She told him she is unsure of her schedule because she looks after kids, doesn’t know when she gets off work, but here’s my number, give me a call, we’ll work something out.  He’s losing faith as these phone numbers are not leading to “dates.”

Let’s review the latter case.  First I asked him:

How long did you talk with her? What states did you generate/evoke with her? How did you link these to you and to taking further action with you?

Now I’ll say it again: this isn’t about getting the behaviors you want from women: phone numbers and dates. It’s about evoking in them the emotional states and processes (fantasy, fascination, connection) that you want linked to you.

THEN the things like phone numbers and dates become logistical details.

See the difference?

If you aren’t thinking in these terms, you aren’t doing Speed Seduction®.  All that wining and dining isn’t leading to a whole lot of 69-ing, is it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Speed Seduction® 3.0 is your roadmap that zooms you from “zero to action hero” in your ways with the women.    No more will we negotiate with her i(Don’t-Actually-Answer-My)Phone to become lucky enough to buy her dinner.  Onward!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Just got this great e-mail from a student of mine who has immersed himself in our Buddy To Bedmate course and, most recently, stepped up to the plate by claiming his copy of Nail Your Inner Game.

Now, he will tell us, in his own words, how these courses have turbo-charged his girl getting game:

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Hey Ross,

Thanks for free Buddy To Bedmate stuff….I’ve been absorbing as much of it as I can reading through all of the pdfs and files…and let me tell ya…this is fantastic stuff!  I’ve been trying out various strategies on some of the ones I know in the friend zone…and although we are not doing the “no-pants” dance…I am getting some very interesting responses.

The trance induction mp3 was very helpful to me.  I have listened to it 3 times…and plan to listen to it whenever I feel stuck and frustrated (I expect this when trying to connect with women…part of the learning process, eh? – no, I’m not Canadian : ) I sense a difference already in my attitude…and the crazy thought trains that used to run through my head like “the clock is ticking”  or “time is running out on me” or “this will never work” or “there are no women I can really talk to…connect with…”  …. well, you get the idea.

I appreciated especially your take on the “inner game”.  As you put it…the “double your masturbating” guy tried to talk on the inner game and had some useful stuff…but it was rather vague and undefined.  I read this year the Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallwey and also the Inner Game of Work by the same author.  At the time I read these….I thought “wouldn’t it be great if there was an Inner Game to Seduction book?”  When I signed up for your Buddy To Bedmate system….I was happy to discover you had really “nailed” this topic!

I bought your Inner Game DVD/CD pack recently…and just watched it last night.  Fantastic stuff!  I especially appreciate your concept of transmutation…I did it today after having a tough time at work…I was all knotted up inside and found the detanglement process very, very helpful.

Now to apply this knowledge in all the right places!  : )

I have found your stuff much more practical than the other PUAs out there.  You should write a book someday -  The Art and Science of Persuasion!

With appreciation,

Ethan H.
Dallas, TX

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RJ here.  Ethan – good on you for claiming your mastery of the skills that will get you more of the women you truly desire, more of the time, and keep you from getting hit with the “F-bombs” that the Romance Racketeers just love to lob at smart men everywhere.

By the way – I’ve written a couple of books – and I do have a course called MindFrame Persuasion. 

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a blast from the past, straight off of YouTube.  In the fall of 1992 (that’s 19 years ago) I was a panelist on the Faith Daniels Show.

Be prepared to see how bad “social programming” was even back then.  After you watch this video, leave a comment with your thoughts.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. That was a 10-minute moment in time, 19 years ago.  So how about 60+ hours of my best, latest, greatest teaching from this year?  Click here to get your hands on it right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s time to break out of the belief fostered by certain folks that in order to have fun or have sex with a woman, you must be open to a relationship or feel you “owe” her one.

It is time, my beloved students, friends, and fans, to shut the Romance Racketeers down.

Look: when you’re out there meeting new women, exploring new avenues, enjoying rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle without excuses, regrets, apologies, and other bullshit so-called “price to pay” for being an HONEST man, the Romance Racketeers lose.

When you and a woman mutually agree to have some fun without complicating things, that means you both get what you want without money and time wasted on fancy dinners, flowers and chocolates, romantic cruises for two, and that rot.  The Romance Racketeers do NOT like this because they’re not getting your money.

But you, as a smart guy who masters the skills, will focus instead on having fun, making out with, and yes, f@@king the women you really want to be with.  Meanwhile the Romance Racketeers can go f@@k themselves, as far as you, me, and all of your fellow Speed Seduction® masters are concerned.

Most of us come from a background of being told to be “a nice guy”. Told, even if what you really want is some awesome sex with a hottie, to still make it known that you want a relationship and even make an effort to try to “find” one.  You know the old saw about “stuff you say to get into her panties”… and the over-generalized connotations around the phrase “Mr. Love ‘Em And Leave ‘Em.”  

Well guess what?  Many women you THOUGHT you never had a chance in Hell with, actually WOULD have slept with you, in fact masturbated while thinking about you, but were afraid to get involved with you AT ALL because they weren’t ready for a relationship and took those hints-to-the-contrary you felt “obligated” to drop, at face value.

Another clue: women who are dating other guys or have busy schedules are probably not looking for a relationship either.  A woman who has a “career first” mindset is unlikely to settle into a relationship, in fact she might get turned OFF by the idea.  But chances are she’s not committed to waiting 5 years to get laid. Have you thought of it from HER point of view?

One last thing: how many women commisserate about wishing they could find “Mr. Right” yet seem to be having a lot of sleepovers with “Mr. Right Now?”  I got news for you pal: she’s not letting Mr. Right Now in her shorts because she doesn’t want him there, even if it IS true that he’s not her “Mr. Right” that she envisions having kids and growing old with.

In fact it just might be possible she’s denying she really likes f@@king him – even complaining about what a “jerk” this “Mr. Right Now” of hers is – because she’s been programmed by the Romance Racketeer Cinema to fear “society” will call her a whore for daring to claim her choice to be a discerning, smart woman who wants to be happy and satisfied like any human being.

You know, just like the Romance Racketeers would paint you a “rake” or a “sex obsessed jerk” (the “bad guy” in any sappy romance flick…you know…the guy who f@@ks the heroine over and over before she finally “lets” the “hero” of the story be seen buying her an expensive dinner in a public place on their way to the expensive show he bought the tickets for) for daring to admit that, yes, you like a woman because she’s good in bed and you like being in bed with her.

See, these Romance Racketeer assholes are making it difficult for the women-folk too.  And that’s bullshit that needs to STOP.

Now STAND UP, cast off their chains, go up to that woman you desire, and show her a BETTER choice.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. With inflation these days, it’s easier than you think to drop a few hundred in just one evening on the stuff Romance Racketeers want you to spend money on… EACH time you want to get laid.  What if you invested that same amount of money ONCE – in YOURSELF – and claimed the skills to get laid 100 times?  Click here to learn how.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Mastering the skills for approaching and seducing the women you truly desire can be achieved with the right tools and knowledge on your side and in your corner.

But with all the BS social programming going on via the dreck spewed out by the “romance industry,” small wonder many smart men who otherwise have the whole world by the balls, are going through life doubled over in constant, searing, skewering emotional (and even physical) pain from chronic blue balls.

There’s a different bullshit idea for every day of the week and it can be downright confusing.

It’s possible you’ve studied PUAs who tell you to go to the club wearing a top hat, make-up, and 5 inch heels and acting like a clown to meet women.

Maybe you’ve bought into “just be yourself and be a friend” B.S.

Could be you’re screwing around randomly typing “37/m/downtown looking for a nice lady for naughty times” in chat rooms, dangling bait from your rod hoping an actual woman nibbles on your worm.

And as a result, the very notion of getting laid, meeting lots of hot women, or finding your life partner (whatever your goal is) seems like a heavy solid oak door, dead-bolted shut, and through the steel-barred window, on the other side you see your success vision sneering, laughing, and pointing while jingling the keys.

If only you could unlock that door.

Well, in just 3 weeks from today, get me fast, get me good, and get me LIVE at our 3-Day Speed Seduction® Seminar in Montreal.

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Now, what’s it all about?

This is YOUR LAST CHANCE IN 2011 to let the legendary founder of the seduction community, Ross Jeffries (that’s me) take you by the hand and guide you to guaranteed, total breakthrough success with the women you truly desire, no matter what your looks, age or school of game, just as I’ve been doing for thousands of men over the past 22+ years.

You will not only learn whatever you need for your success with women, (on your terms, as you define it,) but with my unmatched skills at change work and weaving hypnotic teaching stories and metaphors…

…you’ll feel the changes happening for you effortlessly as I open your mind to new levels of skill, power, and personal transformation.

Come to this seminar and learn to use your language, vibe and touch to get the hottest women soaking themselves in minutes, while they do 80% of the work:

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In your live weekend 3-day Speed Seduction® seminar, you’ll learn to do this through lecture, drill and live “hands on” learning with female volunteers.

You’ll learn my new system to get women invested in you, so THEY do the chasing.

You’ll get executive-level access to the best, most easy to use Pick Up method: The Wonderful World Of Walk Up Wizardry.

Not to mention my latest, greatest teaching on showing up attractive and sexual aggression mastery.

Registration goes up by $200 at 11:59 PM Pacific on Monday, August 22:

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I’m giving you the keys that unlock the doors to your total success with the women you truly desire.

Will I see you in the front row in Montreal?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When you claim your seat today, you’ll get access to some great bonuses that give you immediate, use-it-right-now teaching so you get your pre-work in now and come to Montreal even more prepared for complete transformation of your success with women:

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As I have said over and over, one of the major keys to living the life of your dreams is recognizing and getting off of the auto-pilot that keeps you single and lonely!

Remember, most people are walking around IN TRANCE. And even more importantly, the trances they walk around in… trances of fear… of limitation… of doubt of lack… really do not serve them!

Actually, these trances DO serve someone.

They serve the “power structure” that profits and feeds off of a society of weak, programmed, obedient and fearful robots, who will look to the “authorities” on how to live an “ok” life.

Getting Off Of The “Single And Lonely” Autopilot…
Now… Today!

One of the big pieces of getting off of autopilot and having real choice, is becoming aware of your fixed paterns of perception, response, action, etc.

To develop this “meta” awareness is a powerful tool to peel away old, trapped ways of thinking, acting and responding and believing. It makes it MUCH easier to move up ANY learning curve for any skill set.

You see, technical skill IS important. But many people offer fairly good models for technical skill (how to sell, how to seduce, how to get fit, etc) in different areas of life, yet few people get real changes or the huge leaps they want from following this advice.

Sometimes, the advice is lacking.

But just as often, even with good “advice” and good model for new technical skills, the person trying to follow this advice has a bigger problem: they want to really change an area of life that has been deeply emotionally challenging, evoking lots of fear, self-doubt, personal limits etc.

What can often happen is that the new advice, new skills, new ways of thinking, feeling, acting and believing are filtered THROUGH the old emotions, experiences, beliefs, etc

This means that people seldom consistently will act out the new skills from the right frame of mind. They will be fighting themselves, their old habits, tendencies, etc.

A metaphor I use is, if I give you a pair of glasses dipped in dog doo-doo, EVERYTHING WILL LOOK BROWN.

That is why methods that assist in building clear, unfettered awarness can help us keep old responses, beliefs, behaviors, choices at bay and “in the freezer” LONG enough for new ways to take hold, and long enough for us to move up new learning curves because we can see the new skills, beliefs, responses THROUGH CLEAR EYES.

This is doubly necessary when the new ways are very different from the old ways and require major shifts.

Remember, the further something stands from how you are used to acting, thinking, feeling and believing, the greater the chance for HUGE leaps. Also, the greater the chance for old ways to leap back up, unless you have a practice and discipline to deal with them.

I’ll say that again: practice and discipline. Onward… Anything you do to bring your habitual patterns into your awareness(without anger, fear or reaction) is useful.

This is why I am challenging you to go from one extreme to another and to pay attention to flows of feeling that trigger all of it; the awareness of feeling flow is key to knowing when you are slipping into old patterns of behavior and is also key to designing in NEW ones!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. While you’re getting yourself off the “single and lonely” auto-pilot that’s holding you back, get ON the auto-pilot that gets you easily, quickly and enjoyably meeting even the hottest, women, anytime, anywhere and never being stuck for what to say.  This course is just ONE of the SEVERAL bonuses you’ll find inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.  Click here to “crack open” the vault, right now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I think I’m going to puke, and it’s not even Monday yet.

Makes me think of the classic film, “The Matrix”.

It was that scene, just at the part where Morpheus was offering Neo the choice between the red and blue pills.

He explains to Neo that Neo has always felt that something is wrong. He can feel it when he goes to work, when he drives his car, when he pays his taxes.

That Neo is, “A slave”. And that he was “born into bondage”.

The greatest bondage of all, of course, is being immersed in a system of programmed thinking, feeling, responding and acting that you THINK is natural, but is, in reality, nasty social programming designed to shrink your wallet, batter your ego, give a whole bunch of folks a free ride on your dime, and make a select group of folks(or industries) very wealthy.

All of this is the case when it comes to Valentine’s Day, better known to smart men around the world as National Desperate Supplicators Day.

As Ayn Rand once said, “Wherever someone’s serving, there’s someone being served”. And Valentine’s Day doesn’t even serve the women on the receiving end as much as it DOES serve all the businesses that get your hard-earned cash.

According to DailyFinance.com, retail sales in the USA for Valentine’s Day in 2011 are expected to top $18,600,000,000. That’s EIGHTEEN FUCKING BILLION, SIX HUNDRED GODDAMN MILLION DOLLARS. ***

That is more than the annual defense budgets for most major countries, and more than the GNP of most third world nations!

It’s a holiday where you, the guy, get to lean hard on 2 of the 5 B’s that most guys are taught to use to have “success” with women.

Just to review, these are:

• Bullying
• Begging
• Buying
• BS
• Booze

Come to think of it, Valentine’s Day actually involves not only Buying and Begging, but BS as well. Because even many women KNOW it is a BS made up holiday. They know, on some level, you KNOW you are being coerced when you pelt them flowers, gifts, etc. (At least I fucking HOPE you know you are being coerced. God and and all the Norse deities and Pippi Longstocking help you if you DON’T know this and actually believe you are spontaneously expressing your “true feelings”, aka, desperation).

Now look; I ‘m NOT against being genuinely giving and being generous, IF that is what you do as an expression of who you are. NOT because you are trying to buy a woman’s gold-plated poontang.


But barfing up the cash to give to restaurants, jewelers, flowershops, etc because some dumb-ass made-up holiday was created TO MAKE YOU DO SO is just f@@king putting no value on what you inherently can offer as a man. And a Speed Seducer® NEVER needs to spend a dime, to show a woman a fantastic experience of having feelings she’s always longed to feel.

So, my suggestion is this: throw that bouquet in the trash. Burn that sappy card. CANCEL THE DAMN FANCY DINNER RESERVATION.

And join me on Monday, February 14 for my “Give V-Day The Finger And Claim True Vaginal Victory In 2011!” Live Video Broadcast.

I’ll show you how you can totally destroy all your stuck, limiting, fucked up programming and LIVE LIKE A FREE FUCKING MAN:

http://www.RJSpecial.com

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Here’s more reason to attend on Monday.  The person who asks the best question during the Q&A wins a free access pass to my Secret Training Vault AND a 15-minute, one-on-one phone consult with me.  Everyone else gets a reward or a bonus, too, but you’ll have to be there to find out.

http://www.RJSpecial.com

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*** Statistic per DailyFinance.com

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here are a few worn-out, wasted, and woe-begone cliches you’ve probably heard before.

“Men and women must be in love before they have sex.” “Women will most likely have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another 6 months, because they believe love takes time.” (Is this why the “third date” is assigned so much importance?)

As you continue to master your girl-getting game and achieve more and more tight trim triumph… as you peel away the layers of doubt and beliefs that haven’t served you… please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed. As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is what makes Speed Seduction® unique and special: it requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

Well, my belief is that you can NOT have a truly “loving” relationship WITHOUT sex. So there.

Forget about such stupid generalities as the “all important third date” and other calls to mastur-wait-ion. Those who preach these ideas base them on THEIR limits.  Just because THEY need to go on “dates” and follow the “rules” to get the chick in bed, YOU should too.  That’s how they’d have it.

I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. Some never do.

Look, the real issue is: will doing as OTHERS say help YOU go where you need to?

What is the process – the methodology – by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?

Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”

The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”

More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction / suck-sex requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.  The best way to do this is twofold – reprogram the belief mentally and through ritual.  Explore my Nail Your Inner Game and Magick/Psychic Influence courses.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

An interesting thing, this.

Through the media, the “romance industry” tries to create an “ideal” for how guys should look, act, and be in order to “fall in love” and “find their soul mate.”  To summarize: it atttempts to “program” us into resorting to the “5 Bs” (bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze… and biceps… alright, someday I’ll start calling it the 6 Bs.)

But then this same media shows you examples of guys who are not all that bright, not all that good looking and with “issues”, and really just plain, who successfully use the same techniques that got Finch his show-stopping home runs with Stiffler’s Mom.

Okay: today we’re going to talk about real life.

What would it be like when instead of jumping through hoops, playing the waiting game (eh, I mean dating game – but same thing), and having to agonizingly process every step until she “lets you” in… your girl-getting experience looked a little more like this:

• You effortlessly approach a “bitch pack”, without a wingman or even a specific plan, and not only have them all hanging on your every word, but the choicest of these choice females finds herself irresistibly drawn to you so much that even if her friends were to try to cock-block you, it wouldn’t work;
• Instead of your credit card getting all the action (from floating all those lavish dinners, ski trips, expensive show tickets, and other forms of bribery), YOU were getting all the action, in many cases without spending a blessed penny;
• While those other guys at the party are showing off trying to “impress” the ladies, you’re huddled in a quiet spot, and soon will be heading out with, the very chick these other guys will later say at the after-party (where likely no women will be present) “dude…that one chick…in that red dress…man, I would have NAILED her!” While YOU are nailing her back at her place.

And most of all:

• Women who, until recently, would have had it with you at “hello” because on first sight you didn’t meet their “ideal man” criteria, are now saying “You’re not the kind of man I’m used to…. I don’t even know why I like you… but I really, really do!”

You think you could “like” that?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. How about if you had the ability to not only powerfully get the women you really want, but also take many of those same skills and apply them to everything else you do – work, business, sports, friendships, family – and have other people wondering why they’re THRILLED to do your bidding, even though they’re not quite sure why?  Click here to learn more about this.