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How Mixing “Love And Sex” Can Squash Your Suck-Sess

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 4th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here are a few worn-out, wasted, and woe-begone cliches you’ve probably heard before.

“Men and women must be in love before they have sex.” “Women will most likely have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another 6 months, because they believe love takes time.” (Is this why the “third date” is assigned so much importance?)

As you continue to master your girl-getting game and achieve more and more tight trim triumph… as you peel away the layers of doubt and beliefs that haven’t served you… please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed. As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is what makes Speed Seduction® unique and special: it requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

Well, my belief is that you can NOT have a truly “loving” relationship WITHOUT sex. So there.

Forget about such stupid generalities as the “all important third date” and other calls to mastur-wait-ion. Those who preach these ideas base them on THEIR limits.  Just because THEY need to go on “dates” and follow the “rules” to get the chick in bed, YOU should too.  That’s how they’d have it.

I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. Some never do.

Look, the real issue is: will doing as OTHERS say help YOU go where you need to?

What is the process – the methodology – by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?

Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”

The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”

More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction / suck-sex requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.  The best way to do this is twofold – reprogram the belief mentally and through ritual.  Explore my Nail Your Inner Game and Magick/Psychic Influence courses.

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“I Don’t Know Why I Like You!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 10th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

An interesting thing, this.

Through the media, the “romance industry” tries to create an “ideal” for how guys should look, act, and be in order to “fall in love” and “find their soul mate.”  To summarize: it atttempts to “program” us into resorting to the “5 Bs” (bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze… and biceps… alright, someday I’ll start calling it the 6 Bs.)

But then this same media shows you examples of guys who are not all that bright, not all that good looking and with “issues”, and really just plain, who successfully use the same techniques that got Finch his show-stopping home runs with Stiffler’s Mom.

Okay: today we’re going to talk about real life.

What would it be like when instead of jumping through hoops, playing the waiting game (eh, I mean dating game – but same thing), and having to agonizingly process every step until she “lets you” in… your girl-getting experience looked a little more like this:

  • You effortlessly approach a “bitch pack”, without a wingman or even a specific plan, and not only have them all hanging on your every word, but the choicest of these choice females finds herself irresistibly drawn to you so much that even if her friends were to try to cock-block you, it wouldn’t work;
  • Instead of your credit card getting all the action (from floating all those lavish dinners, ski trips, expensive show tickets, and other forms of bribery), YOU were getting all the action, in many cases without spending a blessed penny;
  • While those other guys at the party are showing off trying to “impress” the ladies, you’re huddled in a quiet spot, and soon will be heading out with, the very chick these other guys will later say at the after-party (where likely no women will be present) “dude…that one chick…in that red dress…man, I would have NAILED her!” While YOU are nailing her back at her place.

And most of all:

  • Women who, until recently, would have had it with you at “hello” because on first sight you didn’t meet their “ideal man” criteria, are now saying “You’re not the kind of man I’m used to…. I don’t even know why I like you… but I really, really do!”

You think you could “like” that?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Going The Distance: Do Long-Distance Relationships Work?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 3rd, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Today, the movie Going The Distance opens in theaters.

For those who haven’t heard, it’s a “romantic comedy” (yet another attempt by the romance industry to turn smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps or AFCs) about a man and a woman who meet, have a “summer fling” and then travel back and forth between San Francisco and New York City to see one another.

I am not telling you to NOT see the movie.  If you do, try to have compassion for the male character, Garrett, who according to the IMDb.com description of the movie “…has always had a problem with commitment and understanding what women want… he learns the hard way that he cannot speak the female language…” (FYI, I’m in Los Angeles.  Garrett, write to me, let’s do some private coaching.)

Second, I am not telling you to NOT ever engage in a long-distance relationship. I AM going to caution you about some of the realities associated with long term relationships.

Why “Going The Distance” Might Get You Further Away
From Suck-Sess With Women, Near And Far

Long distance relationships sometimes work.  Here’s something to keep in mind, if you are thinking about placing yourself in one.

You’ll be doing a LOT of communicating by email, phone, and IM.  Now, it’s one thing IF you have already been f@@king like weasels BEFORE “long distance” and “relationship” become part of the same statement (like, if one of you gets a job in a new city, the other can’t move because of THEIR work, but you together decide to try to make it work).

But if you declare yourself “in a relationship” with some stranger (and yes, she is a stranger) you met on the internet PRIOR to f@@king, you run the danger of her merely enjoying the fantasy attention.  I see WAY too much of this happening anymore.  One of two things will happen.

  1. When you guys “take the plunge” and decide to meet in person, you might get an email from her the day before your flight where it becomes clear to you that all that “ooooohh” and “aaahhhh” and “I waaaaannnttt yyyooouuuu” she was typing in the “naughty box” was just her acting out a fantasy.
  2. She’ll find a man locally who can please her, and she’ll hit the power-off button on you, since at that point you’re just “words on a screen.”

Remember: you never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first SERIOUS physical pass, so I don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER we’ve “gone the distance” in the sack.

And one question for you: if you are in a long-distance relationship, is it really a relationship, or a crutch so you don’t have to risk “going the distance” with the wonderful, willing women who are HERE, NOW?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If I were on the writing team for Going The Distance, I’d add a scene where Garrett goes to my website and orders Speed Seduction® 3.0.  It would make for a pretty short movie, though, as he wouldn’t have had to work nearly as hard to claim the success with women he deserves.   Ready to “go the distance” with your girl getting gameClick here to learn how

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