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Your New Courses Are Here!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 26th, 2010

… and here they are!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Right now, click this special link to get your exclusive copies of the Speed Seduction® Language And Conversation Course and Speed Seduction® Technical Manual:

http://www.seduction.com/aug10newcourse/

You’ll also find links to buy both courses, bundled together at a discount. Most of you who commented on my blog on August 7 said you wanted “both” and/or asked for a bundle discount, so I have delivered what you asked for. It’s right there…waiting for you.

Here’s that link again: http://www.seduction.com/aug10newcourse/

P.S. – Questions? Need assistance with placing your order? E-mail us at orders@seduction.com or call (323) 252-1531.

“See you” on the other side!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When You Ask Her Out (But Don’t Actually Ask)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 20th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

It’s an oft-told story…

Boy meets Girl in an “everyday” setting.

Girl smiles and giggles oh-so-cute and Boy sees the door open and beckoning.

Boy strikes up a little convo.  Girl’s answer to his innocent-yet-obviously-leading question (the one where he asks her out without actually f@@king ASKING) leaves him stumped even though it’s plain-as-daylight stuff.

Let’s hear from a student who felt like he just got “traded down to the minors” off such a seemingly innocent response:

The other day, I went to a local clothing store because I needed to pick up a couple things.  I was greeted by a cute, bubbly sales associate.  I said hi and bought a belt and a few other things (I was there for that in the first place).  I commented on her style, then I left.  But – as if opportunity was raining down from heaven, I had forgotten my cell phone, so I went back and said I lost it!

She asked for my number so we could call it and hear it ring.  Lo and behold, it fell off while I was trying on the belt and landed under a rack with fall jackets on it.  Heard it ring and picked it up.  Then I asked where she lived, and her name, and if she had plans for the evening.  She said she was going to relax at her place.

I didn’t know what to say, so I left (with her phone number, and her name). She seemed interested in me, and I was wondering what I could do to get in contact with her, and get her to meet me. Can you help me?

Let me start with the Captain Obvious answer: call her and and f@@king ask her out.

Don’t try to figure out if she really seemed interested… or just being all cute and flirty to loosen up your wallet by tightening up your Johnson (something that, uh, RARELY happens in the real world and is, uh, NEVER done on purpose).  Besides, your memory of actual events is probably distorted by now over hot you think she is… and how hot you wish, hope, and pray she was FOR YOU.

But think about what you’re asking her (or the next woman, when you go back for cuff links):

You asked where she lived (which DOESN’T MATTER until you go back to her place for some EEE-RRR-EEE-RRR), her name (was she wearing a nametag, as a sales associate in a retail store?), and what she was doing tonight (other than breathing and eventually sleeping?)

Were THESE the questions she was being called upon to answer while sidelined from making money so she can pay her rent?  What did her responses tell you about her “vibe” and what inspires her, so you could use it to anchor her emotions and get her excited and irresistibly aroused at-will?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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VIDEO: Putting Her Into Trance

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 5th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Coming to you from Trondheim, Norway.

Many of you have asked me for “here’s-how-it’s done” demos of how to use my girl-getting techniques, so here we go.

Watch this short clip of me putting the lovely Alexis into trance, using the information and feedback she gave me during the Sarge.  Be sure to leave a comment below.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This clip is from my recent LIVE 3-Day Seminar in New York City.  Our next live seminar is just a week away – August 13-15, 2010, in London.  Find your reasons to join me by clicking here to learn more and reserve your seat (you can bring a friend, too.)

P.P.S. Can’t make it to London?  No worries, we’ll catch you next time.  In the meantime, you REALLY should consider this (click here).

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Radar O’Reilly Reaches New Heights With Women!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 16th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Fans of the long-running TV show, M*A*S*H, will remember the exciting girl-getting exploits of camp ladies’ man, Corporal Walter Eugene “Radar” O’Reilly.

Yes. Really. Radar.

The short, nearsighted, naive, teddy-bear-hugging, comic-book-reading, not-all-that-handsome farmboy from Ottumwa, Iowa. Radar.

You think I’m kidding? You think I’ve lost it?  Let’s go through the exhibits, and I’ll briefly recap what happened and share my feedback where I can.

(NOTE: All images are screen captures and are copyright to Twentieth Century Fox.  They are presented here as illustrations for a research project only.  I strongly urge you to support the actors by purchasing the DVDs, all of which are available for sale on leading retailers like Amazon.)

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Here we see Radar, who has been studying up on Bach and Tolstoy to impress a highly cultured new nurse.  While he utilized his girl-getting game as an opportunity to expand his overall horizons, he was doing it to impress the girl – not good.  In the end, he got so bored with the seduction he fell asleep during dinner.  (There is no shortage of women, nor are there a shortage of women for YOU.  Don’t “settle.”)

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There’s an unexploded bomb in the compound, and Radar encounters a bombshell of a nurse who has other forms of “explosion” on her mind.  He tries to wink at her, and for the effort, she takes him off to the supply tent.  A fine example of frame control, resetting the mood, and redirecting her energies in a Sargy sort of way.  Well played.

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Radar was shy around this nurse who loved poetry.  He came over to her tent one night to share a book of poems, and she pounced on him like a tigress in heat.  Turns out she thought his shyness around her was him being a “heartbreaker” and “playing hard-to-get.”  Question: what women do you know might need just a nudge to pounce on YOU?

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There are several scenes where this particular nurse comes onto Radar.  Sometimes he knows what to do and they dance or make out…sometimes he blows it.  I would ask, what would he need to get his game “on tap” so he can draw from it at-will?

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Not his finest hour.  This Korean woman claimed (falsely) that Radar fathered her baby.  Sick of being teased by the likes of Hawkeye, Trapper, and Frank, Radar, in turn, falsely claims responsibility.  (Good thing Hawkeye had the blood test results in-hand to bail Radar out!)

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But, two minutes later, the same giggly, flirty nurse from two shots up encounters Radar by chance.  Very excited to see him, she asks him out and he accepts.  Hawkeye recommends Radar wear the paratrooper scarf that seems to drive women wild.  Radar thinks about it.  (Awareness of your “style” that drives women crazy for you – and into your bed – is a critical factor.)

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This nurse is fed up with Radar dropping off the mail and shuttering out the door. Her exact words: “When are you going to make a REAL delivery?” He resists because she outranks him.  (However, he soon gets accidentally promoted.  She then REJECTS him because she prefers the “underdog”)….

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….However, once the mistake is corrected and he’s restored to Corporal, Radar drops off that package she was asking about earlier.  (Lesson: it’s who you ARE that is more likely to attract women NOW, than who you WISH you were.)

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Radar spent an entire episode being shy, trying to figure out how to get this new nurse to notice him and using half-assed pick-up lines to attempt conversation.  Turns out, the whole time her eyes were wide open to what he offered.  All he had to to was tell her he was interested! Here you see him at the officers’ club with the “prettiest girl in camp.”  SCORE!

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Radar’s on his way back to the 4-0-Double-7 when he encounters this sizzling hot farmgirl who grew up not too far from him.  If this is an indicator, I bet when he got discharged, his homecoming was pretty sweet.  (Gee, how many double entendres are in THAT sentence?)

Here’s the thing.  If Radar can do it, so can you.  Over and out.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When Radar needed mentoring and guidance on how to work it with the ladies, who did he turn to?  Hawkeye, whose own girl-getting game was par excellence.  We learn from those who have succeeded before us.

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VIDEO: Making Her Want To Be Seduced

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 3rd, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Recently on my blog I’ve shared clips from a recent 3-day live seminar, where I demonstrated Sarging techniques with the help of the lovely Dorota.

Today, I show you (in detail) how language builds a woman’s desire to be seduced.  Click below to watch now, then leave a comment sharing your reactions:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When You Wait, It’s Too Late

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 28th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A few weeks ago I was at one of my local hangouts in LA, working on some e-mails on the WiFi while checking out the bevy of bodacious babes that were swarming the place….and Sarging on a few of them.

ca_30355876_180My concentration got interrupted by a scene caused by a very desperate looking fellow.

See, this is the type of place where, after you finish your food order, you take the tray up and dump your garbage in the trash receptacle and then leave your tray.

Apparently, he had gotten some hot chick’s number and had accidentally left it on his tray when he tossed it. He left the restaurant, then realized his mistake, and came back hoping to get the phone number back. He was pleading with the manager for help. Coincidentally, the restaurant staff had just emptied that particular receptacle and taken its trash out to the dumpster in the back.

So he said to the manager: “No problem, I’ll just go into the dumpster and dig it out. No problem. It’s the one on top right?”

Manager’s flat-out, no-bullshit, no-messing-around response: “No, you won’t.”

Cut to the chase: guy who thought he was about to score with some babe, walks out dejected, knowing he “blew it.

Yeah, I’d say he blew it.

He blew it from the moment he set “scoring the digits” as his goal. If this chick was so hot (and hot for him), what stopped him from scheduling a follow up meeting with her, then and there? What stopped him from making his move, then and there? Why did he take what was happening RIGHT THEN and willfully postpone it until an undefined “later” that might (and now DEFINITELY will) never come?

Too many smart guys are programmed into following “dating rituals.” Wait to get her number…wait two days to call her…then wait two days to see her…wait till the end of the date to give her a kiss…then wait till the next day to call her to say it was great…and then wait a day before calling back to ask for the next “date.”

Look: “wait” on THIS.

It’s true, the women ARE waiting. For you. So, champ, what are YOU waiting FOR?

If she’s here, now... and she seems interested, now… make your move, NOW. If she says no, fine, move on. But when she says yes (and she’s more likely to say yes because the vibe in the air that has her intrigued RIGHT NOW will dissipate if you go away and try to come back later), the results will sure beat a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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A Student’s Journey To Juicy Joy: Part 1

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 17th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Last week I shared a video lesson called “Kill The Mystery” where I explained what it really means when a woman says the “C” word (as in, “chemistry”). Based on the barrage of e-mails and blog comments I’ve received, it really struck a nerve.

ca_26670266_180In fact, one of my best students sent me a Sarge report on how he applied Speed Seduction® in his interactions with a woman to stimulate  desire, overcome her resistance, and ultimately create an amazing experience that will enrich the rest of his life.

Over the next 3 days, I am going to share with you exactly what went down and how it all worked out, with a few of my own observations.  So without further ado….let’s get started:

Part 1: A “Power-Packed” Approach

Recently, my student was introduced to a woman by her best friend.  Using what I teach, he engaged her in some playful banter, focusing on the fun and enjoyment of the interaction.

On that first night they met (when they were surrounded by friends), he established a deep, emotional connection, using techniques such as getting her to open up about her feelings, hopes and dreams and evoking bright images throughout detailed descriptions and well-chosen adjectives. Ultimately he anchored her love for coffee to help her recall the feelings of comfort and relaxation she seemed to need (she had recently gotten out of a real-hate-shun-ship and had been quite busy in life).  Then he “closed” her by scheduling their next meeting, a more personal, one-on-one interaction.

For their next meeting, they went to a bookshop with a nice cafeteria and spent 5 hours talking about their dreams and passions.  Through it all, he maintained a constant and subtle teasing pattern, to remind her he wasn’t a “friend” to take for granted, but a non-needy man who was enjoying time with her.

OK… so far, so good!

What can we take away from the first leg of this student’s journey with this woman?

ca_90911846_180First, he is clear on the ultimate goal.  Of course, he’s looking to succeed, get laid, take things to a whole ‘nother level.  However, he remains interested in her, but not invested in the result.  He focuses on enjoying his time with her, not “how can I get this chick in bed right now?”  This is critical.

Remember: when you are Sarging on a woman, the ultimate goal is not to succeed with this one woman, but to hone and sharpen the skills that will get you results with her AND the next ten women who cross your path.

Note, also, how he uses the information she gives him  to capture her vibe and anchor her passions.  With Speed Seduction®, it’s all about using her vibe as a roadmap that leads straight to the Cape Carnal-Veral shuttle pointed at her poonanny.

Tomorrow, we’ll delve into what happened on their third meeting….for now, leave your comments below!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’m covering all of this, and much more, in my upcoming seminars.  The next one is next weekend, in New York City.  Have you signed up yet?  We’ve just filled a number of seats and pretty soon I will need to close the doors to maintain the interactive nature of the seminar.  Don’t be left out in the cold ==> http://www.rjseminar.com/nyc/

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LIVE DEMO: The Power Of The Sarge, In Action

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 1st, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

At my recent live 3-day seminar, I did a series of live demonstrations, with female models, on how to apply my girl-getting teachings as pertain specifically to the Sarge.

Watch this video clip (just 4:41) to see it in action, now, and then leave a comment to tell me what you think:

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What To Leave Out Of Your Sarging!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 25th, 2010
 What To Leave Out Of Your Sarging!

Leave your comments below!

RJ

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The Sarge Brought Back To Life!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 5th, 2010
 The Sarge Brought Back To Life!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution
: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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