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The Seven Pillars Of Seduction Success (Part 2)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 25th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday in Part 1, we looked at various aspects of mental training and behavior rehearsal that constitute the first part of Speed Seduction®.

So now, let us delve into the second part.  These next Pillars have to do with mastering some simple introductions to women – having two or three things you can always say in any situation to open women, two or three basic ways to open women in any situation.

PILLAR #3: Creative Ways To Engage Women

Once the mental training is down pat, we begin to develop two or three ways to engage women in a more creative and imaginative way once you do open that first conversation. So just have two or three different ways of doing that.

PILLAR #4: Ability To Sexualize

You can memorize all the patterns in the world – Discovery Channel, Twin Brothers, Snack Quiz, Blow Job, Boyfriend Destroyer – but these don’t amount to a can of beans until you are able to sexualize – to use sexual metaphor, to use her own responses, to use your touch, to use these various Speed Seduction tools to get her hot and horny. 

PILLAR #5: Escalation

At the appropriate time, you must know how, and have the tools, to escalate physically. This works in conunction with…

PILLAR #6: Her Responses

With Speed Seduction®, knowing how to deal with women’s autopilot responses effectively and powerfully is critical.  Remember: part of the mastery involves knowing how to calibrate.

PILLAR #7: Motivation

Pulling it all together, you need a really good way of keeping yourself motivated and learning from every situation, learning effectively and powerfully.

Because even though you won’t instantly and automatically get laid every time, EVERY situation with a woman gives you something you need to succeed with the next ten women.

The more you have it made, the more you’ll get laid.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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The “Truly Want Them To Be” Close

Posted by Ross Jeffries on November 9th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You don’t always have to say a lot to “close” a woman.  Sometimes you’re in a hurry and don’t have time for chit-chat but you are highly interested in the woman you’re speaking with now and need to move things forward quickly.

I know how much you guys love word-for-word patterns, so I know you will truly enjoy this video clip:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Too Much “Chewing”, Too Little “Doing”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 28th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Fans,

Today I was thinking about some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”.

By “back game” I mean what you do when you are not actively sarging.

This could be doing your daily meditation practice.

It could be keeping a Sarging journal(mandatory).

But it could also be recognizing when you are doing too much analysis with too little data.

Let’s unpack this further.

Let’s say you’ve done 5 sarges.  You got some seemingly good responses and out of those, you’ve managed to set up 1 good, solid meet up.

Rather than focus on preparing yourself for the meet-up, you start chewing on what happened with those other 4.

Now don’t get me wrong; I want you to keep that journal and review every Sarge, noticing first what you did right, and then what could be improved.

But you need to understand that 5 attempts don’t give you nearly enough examples to extract any conclusive direction or data.

You simply need to do less chewing and more doing.

Rather than trying to take things apart at this stage, go and do at least 5, preferably 10 more sarges.

You might find that correcting your “back game” in this way actually brings more leverage than any tweak you may do in the field, because it gives you more good, real world examples to sift.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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The ABS Principle And How It Gets You More Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 25th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key ingredient of achieving greater success with the women you truly desire is something I call the ABS Principle.

It doesn’t mean Anti-Lock Braking System, though once you apply it you’ll find a much smoother path, with less sudden, hard stops, to getting more women.

It also doesn’t means “abs”.  No bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, or biceps here.

Abs-olutely not.  No desperate supplication or AFC-ery here.

You might call it the Anti-Masturbation Breakthrough System.  Actually, I might call it that.

Whatever you call it, the ABS Principle boils down to this: 

Always Be Sarging

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: I don’t go somewhere to Sarge, I Sarge when I go places.

Being a man who claims his choice to meet, seduce, and enjoy rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle must be part of who you are and what you do.  Not an “event” as in “Hey dude, wanna go out and scout some babes tonight?”

Effective goal-setting is also an important part of the ABS Principle.  Forget “impressing that chick” or “scoring with that babe.”  No.  A Speed Seducer® focuses on continually improving and mastering his skills that get him success not only with the woman in front of him now, but also the next ten HB10s he meets.

Why is this so important? When you put alot of energy, enthusiasm and focus into any ONE woman, and things don’t open up for you as you wish, then all of that energy (better used for Sarging in this case) has nowhere to go.

 

Think of it this way: when the girl you play with becomes the girl you want to stay with, you will have more assurance that you are stepping into the life you truly deserve, not settling on a real-hate-shun-ship by default.

How will you find that fine femme if you’re limiting yourself by making Sarging an “event?”

Again: Always Be Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When Vulnerability And Courage Combine

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 6th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you no longer need a guarantee before you take a bold step forward and approach a woman, “make your move”, or what have you, some amazing things can totally open up:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Shifting Vibes (Video)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 22nd, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the premises that I lay (haha) down for my students is that there are four vibes that women find appealing.  A key to effective Sarging is knowing when, and how, to shift these vibes.

Watch this video (where our Chief Furball Officer, Tazzleberry Cat, makes a cameo appearance):

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Generating Instant Fantasy (VIDEO)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 15th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a clip from the 3.0 Course you’ll really like. Notice how I use a non-sequitur to get things going and then quickly move her into a fantasy scenario, with me inserted right into the fantasy WITH her:

Talk about accessing her imagination and erotic emotions in record time…and opening up the most useful levels of her mind.

This is part of the 3.0 philosophy of getting her involvement and investment right away, right out of the chute.

No working for it, throwing stuff against the wall or trying to squeeze out a response.

This accomplishes three objectives:

1. Makes it an active participation on her part, eliminating any buyer’s remorse, resistance, or friction, plus conditioning her unconsciously to actively participate from then on.

2. She does MOST of the work

3. She supplies you exactly the verbal and non-verbal responses that you channel into and incorporate into any memorized patterns or other methods you care to use.

Please give me your comments and feedback. I truly feel sorry for anyone who is competing against you for hot women if you know this stuff and THEY don’t. It really is unfair…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Oh yes, one more thing: this also allows you to screen for women who have the qualities I teach you to screen for in the Speed Seduction®3.0 Course.  Screening is one of the  3 “S’s” 3.0 emphasizes!

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Why Being “On The Make” Might Not Get You Laid

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 11th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At various times here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored we’ve discussed (among other hot topics) sarging without a wingman, sarging when you’re solo and everyone else is in mixed groups, and sarging when some dude keeps cock-blocking you.

Now, let’s say you’re in a smaller, quieter place, more upscale.  The place is very small & everyone is within earshot.  Lots of 3- or 4-sets of ladies, mostly professionals unwinding after a day at the office.

This place is small but a great hunting ground; so you don’t want to risk kiboshing it by being viewed as ‘on the make’.   Some guys might view this as a problem.

I would first ask: how is that a problem?

It can only be a problem if you ASSUME(without evidence) that talking to women is something about which you should be embarrassed, ashamed, sneaky, etc.

Who put the idea in to your empty head that women don’t want guys to come up directly and talk to them?

You view yourself as “hunting” but you don’t want to be viewed as on the make!

No wonder you feel like you have to hide what you are doing.

How about you come up with a better f@@king metaphor than being a ‘hunter’ and women being your ‘prey’?

How would everything suddenly re-organize, shift and change… now…as you start feeling the shift from this advice?

Look guys: the metaphors you use to describe to yourself the actions you are going to take have profound effects from the cognitive layer all the way down to the neurological level of synapses, neurotransmitters, hormones, etc.

SO PICK A GODDAMN BETTER METAPHOR, KNUCKLEHEAD!

 

Here’s one for you: this place is a party, you are the host, there to make sure all feel happy and welcomed. And what a gift it is for them (not arrogantly so), that you give special attention to THEM.

Now, does that beat a poke in the eye?

Listen: the women (all 3 of them over there) are waiting.  What, in the name of Natasha’s nightgown, are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Fractionating, Using Responses And Tugging On The Safe Door!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 8th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a great example of how to combine 3-4 different concepts, tools and techniques together at the same time, effortlessly multiplying the strength and effectiveness of each in a combined “seduction strike force”!

Watch how I bring anchors from a previous round of patterning back into play, and how I use fractionating to “test the safe door”.  And notice the three different methods I give to give the safe door a tug:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Sargeant J. Cat, “Ross’s Favorite Pussy”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 2nd, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’ve had my nose to the grindstone working on the “Showing Up Attractive” and “Sexual Aggression Mastery” courses that we’ll be releasing in just a few weeks.

So, I took a break and took a stroll down memory lane and started checking out old versions of my website on the Wayback Machine.

Here’s a page that was devoted to Sargeant J. Cat, aka “Sargy,” the legend behind it all:

http://www.seduction.com/blog/sargy/

Please note: most of the links on that page are either broken or go back to the Wayback Machine.   For the current Speed Seduction® website, click here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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