The “Boyfriend Destroyer” – Why It Serves The Woman
Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
One of the patterns I teach is the “Boyfriend Destroyer” which you’d use when you approach a woman and she tells you she has a boyfriend.
This pattern has some naysayers. Here are a couple of them:
“Doesn’t that make you a small man, having to go after someone else’s woman?”
“Why would you want to spend time on a woman who’s going to lie to you within 3 minutes of meeting you? Why would you want to be with a woman who cheats?”
“Why would you waste your time on a woman who is taken or says she is? What about these tens of thousands of women you say I can get?”
Well, today I call bullshit on the naysaying with a few facts about “boyfriend destroying.”
It’s just a sad fact that many women who SAY they have a boyfriend either are lying outright, responding out of auto-pilot, or they are stuck in real-hate-shun-ships by default.
The reality is, most very attractive women ARE probably going to be with someone. Most women regardless of their place on the HB scale are “seeing someone” – but does that mean it’s “exclusive?”
If you wait until you find girls who are totally officially “single” you may be waiting a long time.
Think about this:
You can use fire to heat your camp at night. Or you can use it to burn down a building.
You can use a knife to stab an innocent person in the heart. Or you can use it to cut someone’s bonds and set them free.
I believe that not caving in to a woman’s first “knee-jerk” response is a good thing.
I’m creating a space for her to have a new choice, to respond with more freedom and act differently. By doing this, I serve HER.
Listen: if she really, REALLY loves the guy, she will let you know and you aren’t going to get anywhere anyway. So you “Exit, Stage Left” but she’ll probably think you’re a nice guy. Maybe nice enough she’ll introduce you to her actually-single friends. But what you WILL get EVERY time is the practice that sharpens the skills that will get you your next ten successes with women.
Is THAT such a bad thing?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. If you want to learn how to meet women easily, anytime, anywhere, and totally have them eating out of the palm of your hand (and the fly of your pants) despite her “I have a boyfriend” opening statement, just click here.
You’ll be doing you, and her, a service.
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