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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
In this video(which is #3 of 10 in my Youtube Beyond Dating Tips Playlist) I discuss the nature of approach anxiety-what it really is-and how to destroy it so you can enjoy the ability to approach and pick-up(and seduce) hot women with ease.
I have a radically and fundamentally different view of approach anxiety; I don’t view it as being about fear of rejection or even fear of the approach
Rather I view it as neurological friction; the result of two equally powerful and conflicting desires arising in your neurology at the same time.
What are these?
The desire to move forward and talk to the woman(or women) and the equal and opposite desire to stay right where you are and not say a word until you are certain that what you are going to say and do will work.
Let me give you a metaphor to understand.
Suppose I gave you a radio-controlled toy car. And you gave it the command to turn left and turn right at the exact same moment.
What would the car do?
I think you know the answer.
It would freeze up and spin its motor until it burned out or the battery ran out.
Is this beginning to make sense?
A huge breakthrough will occur when you now realize that approach anxiety isn’t really that at all. It’s internal conflict manifesting as neurological friction and cognitive confusion.
Now there is one more complicating factor and that is the meaning you give to the feelings of neurological upset.
If you conclude that the anxious, or rather FRICTION feelings means that you face some external threat-that you are about to be rejected, defeated or humiliated in the external world, then you are going to create secondary anxiety about that.
Now, in addition to the internal conflict, you get to add in a nice dose of fight or flight syndrome.
So what is the solution to all of this?
Watch the damned video. And if you’ d like to go directly to Youtube to watch, and so you can help me spread the word by rating and commenting on it, then it’s How To Destroy Approach Anxiety And Approach Women With Ease.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Hey, could you please do me a favor and help me out? If you’ve found value from this article, and/or the video, could you please help me spread the word by Twittering the video’s Youtube URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8R4tJjXqJ7k.
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