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How To Approach And Seduce Younger Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 7th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A lot of you ask me questions about how to approach younger women and get them interested in you.

To begin with: if you are sufficiently intriguing, fascinating, fractionating, etc. she will almost NEVER bring it up if she is the adventurous, curious, sexually open kind of girl. (What kind of girl at any age would you want who does NOT have these qualities?)

Part of solving this younger woman thing is knowing the type of energies you need to have and communicate with and through. EQUALLY IMPORTANT is the proper selection of the right kind of girl.

BOTH have to be there and you have to be willing to pass on younger women who, although juicy to look at and desirable physically, JUST WON’T GET IT.

Sorry, but some younger women can NEVER bridge that age gap. You can learn to very quickly spot them, nod your head and move on.

Now all that being said: I again say that age is not an impossible barrier, but age DOES dictate a different INITIAL approach, at least for me.

I am far less likely to walk up to a 21 year old and tell her directly I find her attractive. I’m going to use a comment/observation/question combined with humor.

I WILL be direct with a younger gal, but not up front. That just scares crap out of them, in my experience.

Also, GENERALLY SPEAKING, younger girls require more leading and have less knowledge of what they like or want.

The larger issue is: what is it that YOU are offering to ALL women, regardless of age? What is that “something” in the way in which you communicate, use your energy, vibe, knowledge of her and her world to create an irresistible attraction layered inside a fleeting opportunity that she MUST reach for NOW or forever miss out?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You’ll find a lot more on this topic, including a 10-minute video module chock-full of specific teaching on how to seduce younger women, inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.

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Andy Sipowicz: Nails His Inner Game

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 15th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Mel Gibson should check out some reruns of a TV show called ‘NYPD Blue’

For those of you who have not heard of this show (which ran from 1993-2005), the main character was Detective Andy Sipowicz… who, to say the least, was not an AFC in how he did his job.

sipowicz-headProblem was, in his personal life and with women, he was a train wreck.  When we first meet Andy, he’s a longtime alcoholic, about to lose his career and estranged from his son.  He sought solace in booze and hookers.

Now, the Sipowicz story is legendary – bald, overweight, middle-aged Everyman twice marries much younger, hotter women, has several encounters with other hotties between the two marriages, and has women chasing him throughout.  I could write a book.  But for this article, I’m only going to deal with his seduction of Sylvia (the “pissy little bitch” I talk about below.)

In the very first scene, we see Andy Sipowicz humiliated on the witness stand when it’s revealed he slashed a mobster’s tires so he could see in the guy’s trunk without a warrant.  When the district attorney prosecuting the case shares her “concern” with Sipowicz because his misbehavior got her case thrown out, his response to her:

(while grabbing his crotch) “Hey, ipsa this you pissy little bitch!”

After a life-changing experience (getting shot by a hit-man during a tryst with his favorite hooker), Sipowicz gets sober by default (Mr. Daniels and  Mr. Beam don’t work at the ICU).

Now seeing clearly, he gets his career back on track, rebuilds his relationship with his son…and eventually asks Sylvia out to dinner.  When she expresses shock and asks why she would want to have dinner with HIM of ALL people, he says “I don’t know, you do or you don’t.”

She decides she does.

Soon, they become an item, and after several delays due to things that “keep coming up” at Andy’s apartment, she spends the night at his place.

What happens next?

Then it’s time to meet her family.  At a birthday party, where the liquor flows as freely as the laughter.  Testing himself, Sipowicz takes a drink.  Then another.  Cut to later that night when he throws Sylvia out in a drunken rage where all his demons (anger, hate, prejudice, self-loathing – sound familiar?) come out.

Over the next several months, Sipowicz gets more serious about self improvement.  He attends AA meetings and works with a sponsor.  Through persistent outreach he starts rebuilding his relationship with his son.  With the support of his partners, as well as a boss who proves more understanding than Sipowicz expected, he works on his negative attitudes and stereotypes and becomes more open and receptive.

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Eventually, he creates another chance with Sylvia.  This time, he doesn’t blow it.  They get married, and at age 48 he becomes a father again.  A second chance at the life that, until recently, he never thought he’d have.

Now, why should Mel Gibson take note?

Here’s why Andy Sipowicz went from “hope-to-die drunk” to fulfilled man with a solid girl-getting game, while Mel keeps sliding in the opposite direction.

  • Rather than dwelling on the past and beating himself up, Sipowicz accepts his own past behavior without passing judgment.  He applies lessons from it that help him become a better man.  (Over and over women tell him: “I know who you WERE.  And that’s an important part of how you became who you ARE.”)
  • Sipowicz kept postponing Sylvia’s first visit to his apartment because he was unsure of his girl-getting game (he couldn’t remember the last time he had sex sober).  Whatever was tripping his inner game, though, turned out it wouldn’t have stopped her from wanting him anyway.
  • Getting sober, and his initial experiences with Sylvia showed him he COULD succeed with women who, up until that point, may or may not have given him the time of day.  He subsequently uses this as an anchor to “pull himself back” when his path to betterment takes an unexpected turn (like when he briefly starts drinking again after Andy Jr., also a policeman, is killed in the line of duty).

Note to Mel Gibson: almost everything I described is in Seasons 1 and 2, which are available on DVD. Check them out.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Andy Sipowicz was not “runway model handsome” and he had a “past” that was less than desirable (with some ongoing areas for improvement) but there are enough women who liked him that it didn’t matter.  It was really his “inner game” that had him “tripping on his Johnson.”  Learn how he turned things around, and how YOU can, too.

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“Why Can’t I Get Women Excited???”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 10th, 2009
Why Cant I Get Women Excited???

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In a recent newsletter, I described the experiences of a student, where a hottie he desired shied from his advances for a long time…until finally, she was begging him to f@@k her. He studied my teaching and applied it to his own situation in the way that worked best for him. He’s persistent, he doesn’t give up easily, and he keeps his eye on the prize.

fotolia 351393 small Why Cant I Get Women Excited???But sometimes, it might feel like success doesn’t come fast enough, or that you have been persistent and you’re still not getting the women you want.

In one of my recent twice-monthly “Ask Me Anything” calls, a student posed this dilemma. Here goes:

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Ross,

It’s like I’ve turned off the whole thing. I have this sense that, “Yes, I know Speed Seduction®, but what the hell?” I’m trying to figure out why I’m feeling burned out about meeting hot women.

I live near a university. The women are all pretty young. There’s nothing wrong with that on a certain level. But I find that after talking to them for a while, I run out of things to say. I don’t seem to be able to engage them on levels that excite them.

Age-wise, I’m between Between George Clooney and Sean Connery. What do I do?

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Great question, indeed. Here is my answer:

The first thing I ask is, what is going to satisfy you? What is the need in you? What are you craving? Burning out or not wanting to be with a certain group of people may just mean there are other needs you need to figure out.

As for engaging them on levels that excite them, that’s damn easy. Just use of the 6 conversational topics I teach step by step in the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course.

I’ll give you one for free right here: connections.

Women are fascinated by this topic/conversational theme.

You can get her talking about:

  • How people connect with their desires and fantasies.
  • How we connect with someone we are really attracted to.
  • How we connect with deeper places in our minds.
  • How we connect to the needs we’ve been suppressing.

Any one of these topics is ripe with opportunities to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, the core principle of my Speed Seduction® material.

There are 5 other conversational themes and topics, equally loaded with opportunities to get her smoking hot and bothered. Find them here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. No shit guys: getting a woman talking in the right direction, and knowing how to use those responses is THE key to rocketing the hottest hotties right into your bed. Kiss the “friend zone” good-bye forever; your passport to p*ssy is right here:

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