How Positive Thinking Can Destroy Your Success With Women
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I’m more convinced than ever that 90% of the success and satisfaction you can enjoy with women is influenced far more by what is between your ears than what is between her legs.
Now, don’t get me wrong here.
As you are about to learn here, I do NOT believe in “positive” thinking when it comes to women, money, or anything else. In fact I think “positive thinking” is one of the most destructive illusions that has ever been peddled.
Here’s why.
Positive thinking usually just amounts to “shut your eyes, ignore that fact that you are failing or are miserable, and pretend things are going the way you want them to go”. Just “believe” and you will achieve.
How “Positive” Advice Multiplied My Personal Suffering With Women
I can’t tell you how frustrated I used to get at all the “positive” advice I got from friends and relatives back when I was a 20 year old virgin, desperately trying to end my loneliness and get my freak on.
What kind of crap did I here?
“Just love yourself and then women will love you”. Yeah, right.
“You’ll find someone”. Well, eventually, maybe. But who wants to wait? And who wants “someone”?
“Just be nice. Women love nice guys”. Don’t get me started.
The Real Problem With “Positive” Thinking
The problem with “positive” thinking is that it is oftentimes an invitation to ignore the reality of your situation, to turn a blind eye to what you need to learn, and to keep on repeating mistakes. It’s tied together with another destructive “mind virus” that is part of our culture: “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”
How About A Dose Of Informed Enthusiasm Instead?
What I would actually like you to do is junk positive thinking entirely and instead work on developing what I call informed enthusiasm and intelligent motivation.
Informed enthusiasm simply means that you’ve trained yourself to spot where you are doing well, across many different levels; some obvious and some not so obvious. And, additionally, you’ve developed an incredibly effective way to remove confusion from situations that don’t’quite go your way and to see exactly what you need to do differently the next time.
Intelligent motivation comes from knowing that, while you may not get what you want right away, you certainly will learn what you need to get what you want, or better. It’s a totally reality-based confidence in your ability to learn from each and every encounter and situation with women.
If you’d really like to learn how to totally reform your thinking, beliefs, attitudes and perceptions about women, and develop a lighting-fast, super-efficient learning system check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program. This is my best breakthroughs from 20 years of research from helping guys from all around the globe go from stuck to stardom in bed with women.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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