“I Got Her Number, So Why Can’t I Make Myself Call Her?”
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
In my one-on-one teaching with students, I often run into the many ways guys get tripped up by what they were incorrectly taught before. For example, guys are taught that after you meet her, you’re supposed to get her phone number, then wait two days to call her so you can invite her to meet you three days later for coffee, where you’ll chat for an hour and then….?
Let me be the one to clear this up: that’s complete, total, and utter bollocks.
But unfortunately, because these misconceptions are so prevalent, it can seriously trip up your game with women. Case in point:
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I have this feeling of not having the energy to call women that give me their phone numbers after our initial meeting. It’s like, the feeling is that I like the excitement of the approach, the smile on their face when they finally surrender their phone numbers. But something is holding me back from calling them and getting them to surrender themselves to me.
It’s like the feeling of not knowing what’s on the other side of the room, or not knowing the outcome that I am really looking for. At the same time, it’s like rejecting myself by not moving forward to do something about it. Can someone explain how I can “break out” of this and take things to the next level?
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Let me ask again. When you approach a woman, why is your end game to get her number? Why not go for the whole enchilada, then and there?
The goal of Speed Seduction® is getting her invested and involved in the erotic interaction with you, right from the start, in the first two minutes of conversation. Doing the approach in hopes of getting the phone number squanders the opportunity.
The desire she then feels for you should be an overwhelming signal to her that she must go for it with you, as quickly and as totally as she can, or risk missing out on an incredible chance to have her wildest and deepest desires and needs met – by you.
How much a smile indeed will be on her face when she surrenders herself to you…and THEN says “this was awesome, here’s my number, call me and let’s do this again next week.” I bet it will beat a poke in the eye!
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Over the past 20 years, I’ve been able to peer deep down into the code of how women think, feel and move their way through their subjective emotional world.
Instead of worrying about what to do when you get her number, tap her “Operating System” and the “Machine Language” of her psyche to enjoy mind-blowing success, satisfaction and skill with women. It’s all in my Speed Seduction 3.0® Course. Get yours today:
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However, you also have to keep an important point in mind: sometimes, the closer you get to the skills you need for massive success with smoking-hot women, the more frustration you might encounter, Because suddenly you are in the game, in situations you only dreamed of before.
