Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Everyone has a “type” of some sort.

Some guys prefer women who look or act a certain way; for some it helps if they have many interests in common; some find it sufficient just to screen out the loonies and the crazies.

Does it help to make a list of the qualities you want in a woman when building your “radar” for screening?

A student of mine recently set to do just that…and he was asking me, if he were to set aside the physical qualities, and focus mostly on the “core”
qualities, how careful would he need to choose?

Personally, I wouldn’t want a list too long. And also, here is a question: 

What state of mind do you want to be in when you make your list?

If you’ve studied my Magick stuff, a big part of setting goals has to do with making sure you don’t drag your old limiting beliefs and stuck emotions into framing what you are claiming.

(Oooh: I like that: “Framing what you are claiming”).

So, my first challenge:

1) What frame of mind do you want to be in when you are doing this?

2) What practices can you do to make sure you are in an optimum frame of mind?

Next, I have found that it helps me to do two things:

1) Use alliteration when naming the qualities. For example: “Daring, Depth, Dimension” as a 3-cluster of qualities that have to be there.

2) I like using groups of three or four, alliteration or not. As in:

• Feet on the ground
• Head screwed on straight
• Heart wide-open to me
• Pussy dripping wet, in all ways eager to please me

Use this as a basis for building and calibrating your radar and you’ll find your focus shifting toward more of the women you truly want to be with.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the initial phases of seduction, a little “tension” can be good.  “Give her a little of what she wants, then pull back and make her work for more” is a generalized way of putting that.

But what if you’re the kind of person who, when shown affection or appreciation, responds with higher levels of the same?  What if you do so to the point where the other person gets burned out on your presence?

This can be challenging indeed when resisting the urge to be affectionate is difficult, or otherwise no fun.

So, what to do? 

I would say, first and foremost, get a full experience of the actual physical feeling of giving affection and apreciation.

What is the feeling flow in the body?

Pour all of your attention into that, turning off the internal talk and imagery.

Every few seconds, note out loud if the feeling is the same or if it is changing.

Feelings can change in many ways: intensity, shape, duration(short bursts or long waves), direction of flow, continuous or separated by patches of empty or much lesser intensity.

Do that for a couple of minutes.

This will give you great awareness so that when the feeling/urge begins to arise you can have awareness and choice.

Also, look at how much of your desire to nurture, give affection is done because it is more comfortable than say, being commanding or aggressive or strongly sexual.

Don’t get me wrong; you can be tender and affectionate in your sexual expression too.

And, above all, look for women who will lap it up. There ARE women who want kindness and connection and safety rolled into and surrounding and perfusing through their sexual connections.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Within the walls of our 3-day seminar rooms, burned into the discs of our recorded teaching products, and locked snugly inside our instant-online-access Secret Training Collection…

… you’ll hear a lot about new directions, what happens below me, and how I close off the past so that today is the last day of the way I used to be.

Some skeptics say, “pretty much any intelligent woman is going to pick up on these double entendres and think you’re stupid.  Not for me, thanks.”

That’s a little misplaced, especially when many of my students get vaginally-victorious results just by asking women what they do for fun.

Exactly right. 

As I keep saying, there are certain questions and themes that are most likely to open up the trains of thought, waves of emotion, flows of feeling that lead a woman to feel strongly attracted, aroused, etc.

Knowing how to get these themes introduced into a “harmless” or “normal” conversation is a key skill.

Here are a few of my “tried and true” seduction questions:

• “When you really want to cut loose… escape… indulge yourself..what is it you love to do? And what’s something you’d like to do… but haven’t found a way to try (pointing to myself subtly).”
• “If you were to meet someone… when you just… feel… that… you know… and it’s not just that but also… you know… it’s ON… now… today(nodding my head)… what do you think is the one thing about you that would keep this person coming back for more….beyond just a one time thing”
• “Do you think men understand women? I don’t know if they do, but I think I can explain the psychology of men to women in just one joke…”  (I then tell them one or more suggestion laden filthy jokes!)

Finally, here’s how a student of mine explained, how HE made it work:

Personally I like to ask them about what they do for fun.  1 chick I was sargin went into a long drawn out description of how she loves to ride a motor bike. She was going thru all the motions as well, really describing it and acting like she was on a bike as she pretended to go around a corner making the noises.  You could actually see her reliving the scene out in realtime. It was even exciting for me to listen to her describe it so I was kinda getting her to relive what she likes to do most and she gets all those feelings of excitement back as she’s thinking about it and describing it.

I thought it was pretty damn cool it was like as if she was entertaining me

Keep learning.  Keep mastering.  Keep Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Speed Seduction® is the system, the strategy, and the skillset that gets smart guys like you more success with the women you truly desire. And it’s not just for those who are looking to get laid, either.

When you are looking to get laid and have lots of hot, sizzling action with incredibly sexy women, Speed Seduction® gives you the the tools to get her irresistibly aroused so you get what you want, faster, and more often. (Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better… NOW!)

If you’re looking to find a girlfriend or life partner, Speed Seduction® cuts through the “dating game” so you get there faster (life’s too short for bulls#&$ games, pal) by quickly identifying and succeeding with the women (and ultimately the one woman) who is most compatible with who you are and what you give to the world.

Does Speed Seduction® work for married couples too? This student is asking…

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I am having a hard time having sex. With my wife. I’ve been married for a while, we have kids and are busy raising a family. We used to f@@K like crazy when we first got married, but with time, things have cooled off a little.

I want to have the crazy wild sex with her again like we used to have… before one of your students gets to her and has sex with her that is! How can you help me?

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A few things to keep in mind. (This is for everyone, not just you guys who are married or in committed relationships.)

First of all, attraction, romance, and love don’t “just happen.” People don’t just “magically” find their “soulmate” and live happily ever after. If you believe this, stop watching sappy romantic movies and get your a@% out in the field Sarging on real, live women. NOW, before it’s too late.

Mutual attraction, chemistry, and “romance” are generated by the interactions between people and the way they react to sensory inputs. A Seduction master uses the vibe and feedback that women give him to tap into her psyche and guide her responses toward the results he wants.

Second, people change. In the years you’ve been married, since the kids have been born and are now growing, things have changed. You’ve changed. She’s changed. She’s not the same girl you married – even if she’s just as hot (or even hotter) than she was the day you first created attraction with her. Believe it.

View the changes (in you, in your wife, in the world, in your lives) not as a challenge or a detriment, but as an opportunity. A chance to do something new… explore exciting new avenues of carnal pleasure. Approach her (and your sex life) from angles you’ve never tried before.

The results will sure beat a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I’ve heard the objection many times. Some people say that the girl-getting patterns and phrases I teach smart guys to use when getting a woman irresistibly aroused are so obvious that chances are, the guy will get “busted” and “shot down.”

Like, the use of emphasis and nonverbal cues that I teach you to use while saying “it’s on” and “below me” for example. Today I was asked this question by a student:

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Many of your methods are so “obvious” that chicks can tell what a guy is doing, so he “gets caught” and she has a negative reaction.

For example, your method of stacking realities with quotes of alluring sexual content — she KNOWS what I’m doing and why I’m saying it, so she doesn’t buy into it when I do the “weasel phrases” or position it as something “someone else” saw or read someplace. No, she blames me for being a pervert.

How can I calibrate the interaction so I know if I will get a negative reaction? Can I counter-object and “save the Sarge”?

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I’ll let two of my students answer this one.

At my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles, we discussed this question and one of my students said something I couldn’t argue about.

When the woman noticed his innuendo and asked what he was up to, with a friendly smile he matter-of-factly told her, “Right! It’s called ‘flirting’ and it’s what a man does when he meets a woman he’s into.” (Note how even in his retort, he plants a suggestion.)

The woman who “caught him” shrugged and said with a little grin, “Oh ok…I was just asking.” By staying true to who he is and what he gives to the world, this student was able to resume the Sarge without skipping a beat.

During a conversation with a sexy woman about reality TV shows on getting women, another student mentioned my name as a leading pick-up artist. The woman said, “Oh, I know who Ross Jeffries is. Do you actually DO that stuff? Waaaaait a minnnute … you DO do that stuff! I can TELL!”

My student’s response: “As someone who knows what they want when they see it in front of them, doesn’t it make sense to get more of what you want? If I wanted a woman who is perfect for me and vice versa, wouldn’t I be doing both of us a favor by learning all there is to know about making you happy?”

She agreed and dropped the subject.

No, actually, she asked about Speed Seduction® again.

At 3:00 AM, with a dreamy grin on her face, after a steaming-hot two-hour makeout session with the guy, is when she asked.

Don’t let little objections get in your way. Counter them with truth and integrity and use my teaching to claim more of who you want in your life (and in your bed).

Peace and piece,

- RJ

P.S. With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation - even when she catches you in the act!

Claim your copy of this system that gives you the tools to counter any objection!

Come to my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles on January 22 – 24, 2010 and learn how to have the hottest women soaking themselves in minutes … And Begging To Bang You!

If you register BEFORE December 23, 2009, you can bring a friend for FREE! Claim Your Seat Right Now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s just five days until this Sunday’s (November 22) “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries“.

For about the cost of dinner for two, which you’ll be paying for less and less of to get laid once you start maximizing my teachings in your girl-getting game, I will work directly, live, and in-person with a select group of students to help you master your success with women. A few lucky participants even get to come up on stage for one-on-one teaching and coaching.

Why do I do it? It’s because Speed Seduction® gets you the women you really want without resorting to bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze.

I opened up my e-mail this morning and received the below from a student:

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I think your techniques are incredible. You really are a master of Human interaction. I borrowed a friend’s Speed Seduction® Course along with some seminar stuff and vaguely studied the techniques. I put it into action what I could remember.

I improved the rapport I have had with the women in my life, which has been life-changing for them, and for me too. I really understand their energy better, which helps all in the long run. It can even help make positive change in the women in our lives, help them understand themselves better, as well as make our lives better. I have seen it and done it because of your help. Well done, Ross!

Most weekend fights in bars are caused mainly by men who can’t get laid. If these same men were educated on how to understand women better and how to approach them and create better relationships with them, and if women were to understand that they could in fact talk to men, because they, ‘might touch them at a deeper level’ (get it!!) We would be in a much much better place as a society as a whole. We continue learning.

I must thank you Ross. Good luck, and keep teaching men how to be men.

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On my blog, I wrote an article about the transition from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Amazing Fascinating Champ with women. In it, I explain that how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you – and even how you used to see yourself.

Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. By taking action and claiming your vibe, your future, and your results with the most incredibly hot, amazing women (both inside and out), you will find that life is not only richer, but a lot more fun. And THAT sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Repeat this to yourself: My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

P.P.S. Let me help you claim these results now. Join me in Marina del Rey this Sunday (November 22) for my next “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries.” We have a few seats left, don’t miss out. (And if you can’t make it, you can pre-order the DVD.)

P.P.P.S. Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then you need to claim your copy of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System and become the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

I know you want to get women hot, bothered and ready to get into bed without bullying, begging BS or booze.

As I tell my students: “when you know Speed Seduction(R), dating is for women you are already sleeping with.”

Anyway, in this video, I show how to rapidly accelerate the sexual response once you create those feelings using your touch.  Sexual escalation at its best and most efficient.

Please share what you learned and what you’d like to know more about below. Your comments are most welcomed.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Get your copy of my flagship course, Speed Seduction 3.0, and make guessing, games, dating and trying to buy a woman’s favor a thing of your past.