Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
Did you know that there are three key secrets to visualizing and rehearsing success with women? Do this right, and you will leap-frog past your old limiting self-image and beliefs and pull out into the fast-lane of seduction success. This is a fantastic “self-programming” pattern of seduction mastery that can carry you quickly into unstoppable confidence and really boost any affirmations or other work you are already doing.
On last Monday’s Coaching Call, I answered a student’s question about this topic. So as part of my ongoing “Spy On My Coaching Program” series, I thought I’d post the transcript of that part of the call right here on the blog. Please feel free to comment right here, once you’ve read it over.
Mark: I sent an email to the SS list last night. You sent me a reply this morning asking me what I do pre-sarge in terms of finality and things like that. My question revolves around Manny the Martian. Now it’s time to do the walk-up, and I still hold back from doing it.
Ross: What do you do for your preparation period before you go out to sarge? How do you prepare your mind for success? How do you prepare your body and energetic field to be the way you would like them to be with women? Do you have a preparation ritual or period that you go through?
Mark: I do, but it’s not consistent. Therein lies a little bit of the problem. I’ve been doing the affirmations on and off. I tied it in with some brainwave training from the LA seminar.
Ross: That’s very good stuff.
Mark: Yes, I’ve done pretty well. I’m just trying to work out how to tie it in.
Ross: That’s not the same as doing a vivid preparation before you step out the door. Do a ritual where you step into the tonality and body posture. Step into saying what you would like to say, the way you would like to say it. It’s also not the same as rehearsing success.
Let me give you a tip. I want you to rehearse success, very vividly. Stand up and move the way you would stand and move later.
Break down the rehearsal into three parts. The first part is what you do when you’re laying down or sitting in a chair with your eyes closed and listening to brainwaves. I’m all for that. I’m not saying that’s wrong. It’s good, but it’s not complete. I want you to keep doing it.
Separate and apart from that, when it’s time to go out sarging, I would like you to do something different to prepare.
I would like you to get into a nice state by doing some energized breathing. I’m sure I did something on ritual for the group. From the actual posture you will be in, stand the way you would stand. Speak aloud what you would like to say. Look the way you would like to look. Feel the way you would like to feel. Talk to yourself in the way you would like to talk to yourself in your head.
That little bit of rehearsal is the piece I think is missing. People always say, “See yourself in the way you would like to see yourself succeeding.” That’s all really good. I’ve done a video on this before, but I’m going to talk to you about this. I want to encourage you to take on different perceptual positions.
Here’s what I mean by “different perceptual positions.” You’ll immediately understand this very clearly and have a good grasp on it. It will sound very sensible to you as soon as I give you a description.
I know you watch TV shows. On a TV show, when two characters are talking, you see it from one characters perspective. Then you see it from the other characters perspective. Then they do what is called a “two-shot.” A two-shot is when you see both characters talking to each other.
When you rehearse success, take on different perceptual positions as you lie down or sit in a chair. Rehearse success, not only from your point of view, but from the other person’s point of view.
Imagine you can slide inside the girl and through her eyes see what she sees as she looks at you. In her head, she would say, “That guy is really cute!” Feel that flow of energy she has in her body when she says, “God he’s really cute. I want to talk to him.” Rehearse it from that perspective, and add something special to what you do.
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Ok. RJ here again. Was that great advice, or what?
Let me summarize what I taught Mark:
1. Create a preparation ritual
2. There are two kinds of preparation rituals:
A. The first way you are only visualizing and you do this in a relaxed state, seated or lying down.
B. The second way involves moving, standing, and speaking outloud, with the tonality, tempo, pacing etc. that you’d actually speak if you were in the situation.
3. Visualize success from different perceptual positions. Don’t just imagine success from a third party perspective. Imagine yourself succeeding through HER eyes.
Hope you enjoyed this; would you consider it repetive if I shot a video on this subject?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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P.P.S. I’m not sure about this yet-we are brainstorming this. But I may create a Best Of Ross Jeffries Seduction Coaching Collection, Volume 1. This would be a 2-3 DVD/2-3 CD set with all of the VIdeo modules and all of the Coaching Calls, with PDF transcripts and Mp3 audios, from the past 9 months of the coaching program. So you get all the benefits of a complete set of my best teaching and answers to students, in many different formats for you to enjoy, OFF LINE.
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