Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I just wanted to give you a VERY important-no, make that CRUCIAL-heads-up notice.

In less than two weeks (right after Christmas) we will be opening the doors to “Sexual Aggression Mastery” and “Showing Up Attractive”-the first complete structured course I’ve put out since the Secret Training Collection, this time last year. This represents my latest, greatest teaching and material for practicing and mastering the seduction/persuasion arts.

To get the full story, click here:

http://www.rjforwardattraction.com/launch/

“See you” there!

- RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Mastering the skills for approaching and seducing the women you truly desire can be achieved with the right tools and knowledge on your side and in your corner.

But with all the BS social programming going on via the dreck spewed out by the “romance industry,” small wonder many smart men who otherwise have the whole world by the balls, are going through life doubled over in constant, searing, skewering emotional (and even physical) pain from chronic blue balls.

There’s a different bullshit idea for every day of the week and it can be downright confusing.

It’s possible you’ve studied PUAs who tell you to go to the club wearing a top hat, make-up, and 5 inch heels and acting like a clown to meet women.

Maybe you’ve bought into “just be yourself and be a friend” B.S.

Could be you’re screwing around randomly typing “37/m/downtown looking for a nice lady for naughty times” in chat rooms, dangling bait from your rod hoping an actual woman nibbles on your worm.

And as a result, the very notion of getting laid, meeting lots of hot women, or finding your life partner (whatever your goal is) seems like a heavy solid oak door, dead-bolted shut, and through the steel-barred window, on the other side you see your success vision sneering, laughing, and pointing while jingling the keys.

If only you could unlock that door.

Well, in just 3 weeks from today, get me fast, get me good, and get me LIVE at our 3-Day Speed Seduction® Seminar in Montreal.

==> http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Now, what’s it all about?

This is YOUR LAST CHANCE IN 2011 to let the legendary founder of the seduction community, Ross Jeffries (that’s me) take you by the hand and guide you to guaranteed, total breakthrough success with the women you truly desire, no matter what your looks, age or school of game, just as I’ve been doing for thousands of men over the past 22+ years.

You will not only learn whatever you need for your success with women, (on your terms, as you define it,) but with my unmatched skills at change work and weaving hypnotic teaching stories and metaphors…

…you’ll feel the changes happening for you effortlessly as I open your mind to new levels of skill, power, and personal transformation.

Come to this seminar and learn to use your language, vibe and touch to get the hottest women soaking themselves in minutes, while they do 80% of the work:

==> http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

In your live weekend 3-day Speed Seduction® seminar, you’ll learn to do this through lecture, drill and live “hands on” learning with female volunteers.

You’ll learn my new system to get women invested in you, so THEY do the chasing.

You’ll get executive-level access to the best, most easy to use Pick Up method: The Wonderful World Of Walk Up Wizardry.

Not to mention my latest, greatest teaching on showing up attractive and sexual aggression mastery.

Registration goes up by $200 at 11:59 PM Pacific on Monday, August 22:

==> http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

I’m giving you the keys that unlock the doors to your total success with the women you truly desire.

Will I see you in the front row in Montreal?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When you claim your seat today, you’ll get access to some great bonuses that give you immediate, use-it-right-now teaching so you get your pre-work in now and come to Montreal even more prepared for complete transformation of your success with women:

==> http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In just a few short weeks I’ll be teaching my last live Speed Seduction® seminar for 2011. From Sept 9-11, we’ll be in lovely Montreal, Canada, amidst a sea of lovely French Canadian ladies, teaching you my latest and greatest girl-getting breakthroughs.

My Last Event…YOUR First Look

Listen: while it’s true that this is my last seminar for 2011, it is your first chance to see my newest teachings on “Showing Up Attractive – Secrets of Stealth Attraction” and “Sexual Aggression Mastery – The Effectively Sexually Forward Male.”

These teachings will form the basis of the two structured, online courses I’ll be offering toward the end of September/early October. But you can start learning and applying the powerful lessons on September 9-11.

Find out more here: http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Act Before Monday And Save $200

Also, a quick reminder that the registration fees will be going up soon. After Monday (August 22) at 11:59 PM Pacific, they will increase by $200 for each level. All the more reason why you want to claim your seat – and your results with women – now.

Here’s that link again: http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. There is nothing like the total immersion that takes place in a live event to guarantee you speeding along your path to total seduction mastery. So get your ass to Montreal, anyway you can. One more time, learn more here:

>>> http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Get Your Copy Before the Price Goes Up…

Time is running out to get your hands on the Speed Seduction® Total Immersion 2011 Seminar Footage Collection at the special launch price, PLUS the two free bonus courses:

>>> http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminarvault/

As A Reminder, Here’s What You’re Going to Get
When You Step Up Today…

We’ve gone all-out with the amount of water that will gush through THIS fire hose.

Here’s what you’ll get:

• Over 50+ hours of live, unedited seminar footage that you can start consuming immediately upon registration. No plane ride, no hotel, just grab a cup of coffee and GO!
• My best and latest breakthroughs that will drastically amp-up your success with the women you truly desire
• Specific demonstrations of how these techniques work on actual, live, REAL women (not paid actresses, for Crimany’s sake!) that let you see how YOU can apply the skills to meet and seduce more of the women you want in your life
• You’ll get front-of-the-line access to my “Showing Up Attractive” and “Sexual Aggression Mastery: The Effectively Sexually Forward Male” courses, which I will separately release in late September, for FREE when you act RIGHT NOW
• And another great, very very very VERY limited time opportunity to get 3 one-on-one Skype sessions with me for the price of two. This offer appears ONLY to those who buy this seminar collection, and I will only accept the first ten of you who take me up on it.

Here’s the link to the web page again:

>>> http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminarvault/

I am really proud of this training and I can’t wait for you to give it a go and share your results with us.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The biggest question we’ve gotten since Friday is: “I’ve already got a recorded product like Speed Seduction® 3.0 What’s my advantage/benefit to getting this collection too?”

That’s a fair question… and the truth is…

My teaching and my methods are always improving and changing and for sure, Speed Seduction® 3.0 is a fantastic course and remains my flag ship product. But remember it reflects my knowledge from 2007. And, 4 years later, I understand even more about what turns women on, what makes you attractive before you even open your mouth, and lots, lots more about how to get physical with women when it comes time. So by all means, enjoy 3.0, but also enjoy the upgrades to your learning, skill and power with women that this collection contains.

>>> http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminarvault/

P.P.S. Don’t forget… the price is going up {to $397} after Tuesday, August 16 (which is still a steal . But the price will go up AND those two bonuses will be going bye-bye. I’m serious. My web guy has already created the version of the sales page that removes those two bonuses, all he has to do is hit the Upload button and they go POOF!

>>> http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminarvault/

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In today’s installment I want to talk about the changes in orientation of thinking that are a big part of showing up attractive.

As I said last time, learning to have a good relationship with uncertainty is important, and in a sense, that helps in orienting a person toward having a fun learning frame when approaching women.

But today I want to talk about a few more shifts in thinking that are very empowering and useful.

Orientation Shift # 1: To First And Foremost Notice What Is Working And What You Are Doing Correctly

Here is a key understanding you need to really get: in an area of life where you have had significant challenges and limitation, it takes training to recognize progress.

If you’ve spent years ruminating and dwelling on mistakes, you have trained your mind to first and foremost notice mistakes. And sometimes only notice mistakes.

This can be a serious handicap to making progress and mastering skills.  Because unless you do everything 100% right and the woman you are Sarging responds totally the way you want her to, it is very likely you will view the entire exercise as a failure and slide right back down the learning curve.

So when students come to me for private coaching or a seminar or are part of my on line coaching program, I always require that they first tell me, however large or however small, what they are doing correctly and right.

Don’t under-estimate the power in this shift in thinking and orientation.

Orientation Shift #2: A Bias Toward Action And Experimentation Over “Thinking Things Through”

Too many stuck guys think they can find “answers” by running more content through their internal dialog loop.  Or they will spend 100 units of “analyzing” for every one unit of experiment.

I encourage you guys to take on an empiricist orientation toward learning. Which means that you recognize that information about the reality outside of your own skin can ultimately only come down to experiment in the real world.

Try on this affirmation for size: “When I don’t know what to do, I find out by consistent experiment in the real world. “

Orientation Shift #3: De-Thingifying Your World/Looking At And For Process And Activity

This is perhaps a bit more difficult to understand, but the understanding yields amazingly great benefits. In fact, without this understanding I would say your ability to use Speed Seduction(R) will be restricted. Once you get this understanding, everything flows much easier.

Here’s the idea:  our language encourages us to turn into “things” that which is really ongoing activity and process.

Want examples?

Think of the term “attraction”.  There’s a big idiot in this industry who likes to say, “Attraction isn’t a choice”.

No; “attraction” isn’t a “thing”.  It’s a neurological activity that takes place inside of the person who is doing the activity and therefore having the experience. Outside of that neurological activity and process, “attraction” can’t even be said to exist.  It’s not even about a “quality” in you. It’s about the ongoing activity IN THE OTHER PERSON.

Whether it is attraction, love, confidence or any other “thing” you’d like to have or experience, the reality is that what is actually taking place is an ongoing process; a flow of activity with components, sequence, varying levels of intensity, etc.

This is a crucial understanding in which to participate.  Because once you get it, you begin to be able to see the the processes and activities that drive the people with whom you wish to play, influence and seduce.

And rather than thinking of the experiences/activities./processes that it would benefit you to command as “things” or “qualities” or events that happen TO you, they become what you create.  And that is where real power can be enjoyed.

Let me know your thoughts on this. And please, please, do me a favor and tweet and Facebook this post (use the buttons above).   It will really help me get the word out to those who need to see the intelligence and power of this teaching.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Would you like me to do a live video broadcast seminar on this subject?  Only those who Tweet and Facebook (using the buttons above) will get the invite!  So get out there and tell people!

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Another aspect of showing up attractive is learning to develop a good relationship to uncertainty, anxiety, and not knowing what the fuck is going to happen.

Many guys come to me wanting “confidence” with women. But what they are really saying is they want what I call “performance confidence”.

What is “performance confidence”?  That’s easy to explain.

If you’ve done something very well 5,000 times, it is reasonable to expect you will do well on the 5,001st attempt.

The challenge for many guys in this game is that they want the performance confidence, PRIOR to doing any performing.

So they wind up never performing, never being confident and never getting any real world skill.

Or any moist pink relief either.

Love Your Anxiety As You Love Yourself, And Soon You Will Be Loving Your Neighbor’s Wife Too!

The solution I’ve found that works best is to reshape a student’s definition of “confidence” into what I will define here as “acceptance confidence”.

Acceptance  confidence has the following components:

1. The skill of being present with the raw, physical sensations of anxiety, without fighting them, resisting them or trying to make them change or go away, but also and equally without feeding them by telling yourself that your anxious feelings mean you are going to fail or it is time to run away.  Don’t feed, don’t fight AND don’t flee!

(Let me just add that very few humans can be present with raw physical sensations like this. It takes training and practice. But it opens up some wonderful choices in life that few people will ever experience and that alone makes you very, very attractive on some interesting and non-verbal levels. More about this later)

2. The skill of deciding what you are going to do, once you experience the anxiety, without fighting or feeding or fleeing.  It basically comes down to a simple acknowledgment of what is going on and then a choice . As in, “I don’t know what is going to happen with this girl, I don’t like that I don’t know, and let’s go talk to her, have some fun, and find out what she is like!”

3. A deep realization about the meaning  and information content of “anxiety”.   Your experience of internal anxiety has zero information value about what will happen with that girl you’d like to meet. It is not a sign you are about to fail or be humiliated in the world. It has no information value about anything happening outside of your own skin. It is only a sign of an internal neurological event.

4. Finally, taking on some powerful beliefs and attitudes about learning.   Since I’m such an awesome teacher, here are the main ones:

A. I will either enjoy getting what I want, or enjoying learning what I need to get what I want or better.

B. I can, will and do decide what I learn from each and every event, choice, action and situation.

C. When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

D. When I don’t know what to do, I make the choice and take the action that moves me even closer to the kind of person I am already more and more becoming

Once a student has mastered, in action, the essentials of acceptance confidence, then and only then is he ready to take on rehearsal confidence, another key component of showing up attractive. And I’ll probably talk about that in the next post.

Your comments and feedback are essential to this series continuing. So please post them below!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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