Sexual Aggression Mastery: From “I’m Aroused” to “It’s On”
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
On a recent “Ask Me Anything” calls for members of the Speed Seduction® Coaching Program, one of our students shared a story about how just a few simple words moved a woman from “I’m Aroused” to “It’s On”.
It went something like this. The student had been spending time with her and had used Speed Seduction® to get her to the point where she went around naked in the room when they were hanging out, but nothing else had happened – no kiss, no nookie, no ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.
He called a friend on the phone, and the friend gave him this advice: “Tell her to take her clothes off, get on top of you, and shut her f@@king mouth.” So my student said to the woman, “My friend tells you to take your clothes off, get on top of me, and f@@k me right now.”
Seems all of the work he had done building connections got her turned on, but when he just gave her a command… within 30 seconds, they were f@@king.
Now, let me make something clear: If you’re doing all the patterns, you’re in the driver’s seat and she’s sitting there passively listening, you can’t expect her to suddenly take the wheel. The deeper in they go, the more you have to be the one who strongly takes the action. On the flip side, women who are knowingly teasing you really need to be told to fuck off. They need that strong hand.
Here‟s the way I’ll paint it for you. What this student was doing up until then DID get her turned on. She was responding and walking around naked, right?
First of all, get this understanding. Any girl who is walking around naked in front of you but won’t make out with you is teasing. She wants you to tell her to fuck off and do as she’s told. Do you understand that?
Now get this. I’m going to get criticized by people who deliberately misquote me. So let me be clear.
I am NOT saying that all women want you to rip their clothes off and tell them, “Get on top of me, shut your mouth and f@@k.” I AM saying that if a woman is walking around naked in front of you and has taken her clothes off, she knows she’s teasing you and turning you on.
If she’s teasing you by taking her clothes off and parading around naked but won’t make out with you, you have the bull by the horns. You can either tell her to get the f@@k out or climb on top of you. That is clearly a case of teasing. She needs to know that you’re strong enough to say, “Get lost!”
Listen to this also: I’m sure this kind of woman is turned on. She’s turned on by the fact that you’re turned on by her teasing, but she’s also turned on by the patterns.
Just because she’s turned on doesn’t mean “it’s on” now. She can be extremely aroused, but what pushes her from very aroused to “It’s On” is a display of strength and not caring on your part. That’s for this specific kind of woman.
Now, let me unpack that and make it very clear.
For some women, doing language patterns and then touching and kissing them is enough to get them from, “I’m aroused,” to “It’s on.” You need to understand that just because a woman is aroused doesn’t mean it’s on and she’s ready.
For some women, doing patterns and being mildly aggressive is enough. It’ll move them from aroused to, “It’s on.”
For other women, they won’t be moved to, “It’s on,” even if they are aroused, unless you show that display of, “Fuck you! I don’t care. Please me.” That’s a subset of women.
I’m willing to bet, in this case, this woman is either very young, has very low “self-esteem” or both, if she’s in that category. She’s excited by displays of dominance and power. I want to make it very clear. The patterns were turning her on, but it wasn’t enough because of her psychology.
Make sense?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. What you have just witnessed here are how various levels, volumes, and varieties of sexual aggression can move different types of women from being aroused to “It’s On.” You need to calibrate which applies to any situation you find yourself in. At our upcoming 3-Day LIVE Speed Seduction® Seminar in Montreal, I will part the curtains on my latest and greatest teachings on Sexual Aggression Mastery, along with Showing Up Attractive and MUCH more.
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