Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

There’s a song by Eddie Money that goes “I wanna go back, and do it all over…but I can’t go back…” Actually, this raises a good question.  CAN you go back?

Maybe there’s a hottie from your past whose “friend zone” you got caught in, or she’s that former classmate you didn’t (at the time) have the balls to pass a “love note” to.

Maybe she’s a former co-worker you seriously had the hots for, but you didn’t want to dip your ink pen in the company well.  You don’t work there anymore and she still writes on your Facebook wall from time to time… and (per her latest profile pic, anyway) she’s still as hot as she was back when you couldn’t focus on your work for an hour after she walked by your desk, with a current “status” of “Single” to boot.

Or maybe she’s someone who rejected you, and you totally blew it (or you rejected yourself by never making a move) and….ohhh…if ONLY she could experience the new, Sargy you….what could happen?

No matter what, she’s on your mind.  A lot.  So the question becomes…

Can You Bring This One Back To Life…
Or Is It Time To Move On?

Well you have two choices. 

Choice one, stop fretting and make your move.

Or, you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.

Actually, as I look at this, the reason you think about her is you invested lots of feeling in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.

Now listen, and listen up: Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it. It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.

In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.

No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.

I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, fantasizing about this salacious co-worker throwing herself on your desk and cooing “Hey big guy, I thought we were scheduled for a ‘staff’ meeting…here it is… (looks at watch)…. about six after nine in the morning… we have some ‘hard topics’ to cover…”

In the case of the chick you “blew it” with… you replay it in your mind, except you imagine the version where you didn’t trip on your Johnson or whatever else happened that things didn’t progress.

Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.

Remember: you never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve taken a ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and experienced “blast-off”.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Sick and tired of letting sexy, beautiful women pass right in front of you while you sit there virtually paralyzed not knowing exactly what to do or say to meet them?  Knowing later on, you’ll WISH it had been otherwise?  Click here to learn how to make it happen THIS time, instead of (in your mind) later….

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Fans of the long-running TV show, M*A*S*H, will remember the exciting girl-getting exploits of camp ladies’ man, Corporal Walter Eugene “Radar” O’Reilly.

Yes. Really. Radar.

The short, nearsighted, naive, teddy-bear-hugging, comic-book-reading, not-all-that-handsome farmboy from Ottumwa, Iowa. Radar.

You think I’m kidding? You think I’ve lost it?  Let’s go through the exhibits, and I’ll briefly recap what happened and share my feedback where I can.

(NOTE: All images are screen captures and are copyright to Twentieth Century Fox.  They are presented here as illustrations for a research project only.  I strongly urge you to support the actors by purchasing the DVDs, all of which are available for sale on leading retailers like Amazon.)

Here we see Radar, who has been studying up on Bach and Tolstoy to impress a highly cultured new nurse.  While he utilized his girl-getting game as an opportunity to expand his overall horizons, he was doing it to impress the girl – not good.  In the end, he got so bored with the seduction he fell asleep during dinner.  (There is no shortage of women, nor are there a shortage of women for YOU.  Don’t “settle.”)

There’s an unexploded bomb in the compound, and Radar encounters a bombshell of a nurse who has other forms of “explosion” on her mind.  He tries to wink at her, and for the effort, she takes him off to the supply tent.  A fine example of frame control, resetting the mood, and redirecting her energies in a Sargy sort of way.  Well played.

Radar was shy around this nurse who loved poetry.  He came over to her tent one night to share a book of poems, and she pounced on him like a tigress in heat.  Turns out she thought his shyness around her was him being a “heartbreaker” and “playing hard-to-get.”  Question: what women do you know might need just a nudge to pounce on YOU?

There are several scenes where this particular nurse comes onto Radar.  Sometimes he knows what to do and they dance or make out…sometimes he blows it.  I would ask, what would he need to get his game “on tap” so he can draw from it at-will?

Not his finest hour.  This Korean woman claimed (falsely) that Radar fathered her baby.  Sick of being teased by the likes of Hawkeye, Trapper, and Frank, Radar, in turn, falsely claims responsibility.  (Good thing Hawkeye had the blood test results in-hand to bail Radar out!)

But, two minutes later, the same giggly, flirty nurse from two shots up encounters Radar by chance.  Very excited to see him, she asks him out and he accepts.  Hawkeye recommends Radar wear the paratrooper scarf that seems to drive women wild.  Radar thinks about it.  (Awareness of your “style” that drives women crazy for you – and into your bed – is a critical factor.)

This nurse is fed up with Radar dropping off the mail and shuttering out the door. Her exact words: “When are you going to make a REAL delivery?” He resists because she outranks him.  (However, he soon gets accidentally promoted.  She then REJECTS him because she prefers the “underdog”)….

….However, once the mistake is corrected and he’s restored to Corporal, Radar drops off that package she was asking about earlier.  (Lesson: it’s who you ARE that is more likely to attract women NOW, than who you WISH you were.)

Radar spent an entire episode being shy, trying to figure out how to get this new nurse to notice him and using half-assed pick-up lines to attempt conversation.  Turns out, the whole time her eyes were wide open to what he offered.  All he had to to was tell her he was interested! Here you see him at the officers’ club with the “prettiest girl in camp.”  SCORE!

Radar’s on his way back to the 4-0-Double-7 when he encounters this sizzling hot farmgirl who grew up not too far from him.  If this is an indicator, I bet when he got discharged, his homecoming was pretty sweet.  (Gee, how many double entendres are in THAT sentence?)

Here’s the thing.  If Radar can do it, so can you.  Over and out.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When Radar needed mentoring and guidance on how to work it with the ladies, who did he turn to?  Hawkeye, whose own girl-getting game was par excellence.  We learn from those who have succeeded before us.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

The dreck that’s pumped out into the mass media by the “romance industry” would have you thinking you have to look like a movie star, sing like a rock star, be chiseled like an Olympic star, and have enough money to take a space shuttle ride to an actual star, to get the babes you really want.

This is why so many guys resort to the 5 Bs – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.  And also why many guys put off their girl-getting game for years while they hunker down in the gym building the “sixth B” – biceps.

Frankly, it has me SEEING stars.

Look: I’ve taught thousands of guys how to apply Speed Seduction® to cut through the “dating game” and score with women who, up till now, you thought would never give you the f@@king time of day.  I practice what I preach and… I’m 51, lanky and ugly as sin dipped in shit and I am never hard-up for women.

But it wasn’t always this way.

Where do you think I was when I started all of this, 22 years ago?

1. Living at home, moved back with my parents at age of 29.
2. Uglier than sin dipped in shit. (Age has only made me SLIGHTLY more graceful.)
3. NO money.
4. Driving a beat up Datsun b210 with NO f@@kin’ paint job left to speak of.

Didn’t stop me, though.

Chances are, things are “less than perfect” with you.  So f@@king what?

Let me ask one question: what would it be like if it just so happens that “one thing” about yourself you really don’t like, happens to be THE thing that gets many women hot… but you didn’t know because you didn’t take charge, fire up your girl-getting game, and FIND OUT?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Fed up having to settle for low quality, average women, or worse being alone?  Sick and tired of getting rejected, ignored, humiliated, overlooked, shut down or standing there frozen and speechless by beautiful women?

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

All human beings experience a fair amount of self-doubt from time to time.  Especially when it comes to approaching women.

Ever found yourself ten feet away from a chick who was the best looking babe you’d seen all year (or at least all week), there all by herself in the cafe reading a book, looking like she’d probably like it (or at least wouldn’t slap you silly) if you went up to her right now. 

But you don’t do it.

Instead, you have this endless, pointless conversation in your head and find any excuse to avoid putting yourself out there.

Eventually she pays the check, closes the book, and walks out. 

Whew – at least you didn’t get rejected. By her at least.  You just want to…

…Tell Your Doubting Voice To “Shut Up Already”
So You Can Get Some Action

Here’s the difference between a Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training (MIT) vs. the Average Frustrated Chump (AFCs): the MIT has learned to recognize when the “doubt delay dialogue” is happening (or about to happen), and stops those feelings dead in their tracks.

How do YOU Get this?

You see, developing a “monitoring” state or awareness that checks in and recognizes when you are beginning to have less than useful responses; THIS awareness is a great gift. It’s quite magickal.

You see, NO ONE is in a good state ALL the time. That’s not what we want to aim at.

What we DO want to aim at is knowing our own unique patterns of thinking, feeling, acting and being able to recognize quickly when we are going in a less than useful way; interrupt it effectively, and get back on track.

This skill isn’t very sexy; it’s not like being able to levitate, turn invisible or walk through a wall. But it is very, VERY powerful.

I’ll tell you what IS sexy: the results.  It’s sexy when she puts that book aside and turns to you, and you use the vibe as a down payment for an all-expenses-paid-for-two journey on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Quieting the rancor of self-doubt is based on a belief: that your feelings and thoughts and responses CAN be put in your awareness and CAN be brought under a good measure of direction and control. And it’s based on a value that doing so is VALUABLE, even necessary.  Click here to learn what gets you this awareness and control…

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.

There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.

There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.

And, then, there is the deeper magic.

The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.

Truly freeing them.

As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.

That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.

Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:

Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.

So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.

She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.

By itself, that is sexy.

Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.

“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”

So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.

You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.

There is no-thing for them to resist.

These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.

And the two elements don’t add up.

They MULTIPLY.

So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.

It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.

Now, add to that:

Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.

Language skills.

The energetic touch secrets.

I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.

None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.

And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.

You can have it now, in a heatbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.

Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what: YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.

You just have to be quiet enough to remember.

And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.

No matter what is holding you back, now is the time to break free of the chains, get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A terrible scourge is ravaging the land… a malady so insidious, so pervasive, so malevolent… stifling Sarges before they see the light of day and causing an outbreak of lonely nights for smart guys everywhere.

The “romance” industry is rejoicing in their profits windfall.  Rosie and her sisters have never had such a lucky streak as they are on now, because of this nefarious ill wind.

What am I referring to?  It’s an epidemic known as Oneitis.

Simply: Oneitis is a state where a man’s entire energy gets placed, or sucked, into ONE woman.  Symptoms include anxiety, worry, scarcity, and un-clarity, not to mention picking daisies and pulling the pedals and mumbling, “She likes me, she likes me not.”   Oneitis will have a man betting his entire girl-getting game on ONE chick who he’s not even dating yet.

(Remember: dating is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with, not that one you met yesterday who you’re hoping to run into today so you can ask for her phone number so you can call her sometime to see if maybe she’d like to…. excuse me…. I’m gonna be sick just THINKING about it.)

Why am I issuing this public Sarge health warning about Oneitis today?

In response to a recent issue of “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets,” a student told me about this chick he’s into.  He says they are “just friends” and never do anything more than talk on the phone.  She moved away recently and they’re 5 states apart, yet these endless phone calls  continue.  He says it’s the best relationship he’s had with a woman. Because he cares about her so much, he doesn’t even want to look at another woman.

Huh?!?!?!

This statement strikes me sad, and perfectly illustrates the evils perpetrated by this scourge, Oneitis. Oh my stars and garters!

If you’re in a situation like this, you are coming from SUCH poverty. It’s like a man who has lived in dark shanty or hovel his whole life, with no running water.  At random intervals, someone comes along and offers him a few fetid drops of mucky water probably scooped out of a drainage ditch. And he steps out of the hovel and mentally carries THAT image as the best he can have.

Look: when you are Sarging on a chick, remain interested in the woman, but not invested in scoring with her as the “end goal.” Your goal is to not only succeed with her, but also hone and sharpen your girl-getting skills that will get you laid ten times over by women you, up until now, never dreamed would actually give YOU the f@@king time of day.

Let’s band together and send this dastardly evil, Oneitis, back to the dark hole it crawled out of!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Sick and tired of letting sexy, beautiful women pass right in front of you while you sit there virtually paralyzed because you’re “stuck” on this one chick who runs hot and cold?  You’ve got Oneitis.  I have the cure – click here to get your Oneitis-busting prescription!

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Yesterday, I shared with you Part 1 of my student’s Sarge report.  We left off with him and his hot, enticing new acquaintance at the bookstore, with him laying the groundwork for irresistible arousal.

So let’s jump to the third meeting….

Part 2: She Taps The Brakes

At their third meeting, riding upon the strong connection already established in the last two meetings, he kissed her and they started making out.  Then – here it comes – her last minute resistance.  My student guessed (correctly) that sex wasn’t on the dessert menu that night.  Maybe this was due to her personal values, her fear of seeming too “easy” or in it for “just one thing.”  Who knows?

Rather than being daunted, he gave her another chance.  He took her out and used the anchoring he did in their previous meetings to rekindle her sense of security and romanticism that she had lacked for a long time.  This time, everything went perfect and even the last minute resistance was easily skipped this time.

When she said, “I don’t want to give you the wrong impression, but it’s not going to happen,” my student calmly replied, “Did I ask for that?” This made her seem like she was the only one thinking about sex, so she relaxed.  Everything went great from there.

Well… this is good stuff!

So guys, what can we learn from this?

For me, three things stand out:

1. A woman’s first (or current) response is rarely an indicator of what’s “final.” You have the power to influence that to help her find her way to you – assuming she is, indeed, open and willing.
2. Notice how my student confidently deflected her concerns and put her at ease. For another example of this, check out this story of how I got laid by putting on TWO pairs of pants.
3. Negation is a powerful thing. You should check out this article, too.

Get your ass back here tomorrow when we go “long term” in our view on all this…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Whatever you can get a woman to imagine, is perceived by her as being her own thought and therefore is not resisted. Therefore, first capture and guide a woman’s imagination and you can then get her to do almost anything you want… and she’ll think it’s her own idea! CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In past articles on this blog, I’ve delved into how to handle things when a woman you approach figures out you’re using Speed Seduction® patterns on her.

Well, wouldn’t you know… women are using my techniques too!

Here’s an example of how some chicks get this stuff naturally, particularly when it comes to overcoming shyness:

Last week, I was at one of my favourite local hangouts, chatting up a group of women I know from seeing them around the neighborhood.

Anyway, one of them was regaling me of tales of her sexual adventures. This story was about being at a club with some of her girlfriends, when she spotted, “The most handsome man I have ever seen.”

She told me she approached him as follows. Not feeling inspired by any “famous first words,” she overcame her uncertainty by taking a bold step forward. She walked up to him and said,

“I just wanted to tell you….I think you are…the most handsome man in this place and…I just wanted to say “hi”.

She did it brilliantly. Even used the pauses NATURALLY. She did the fake shyness bit quite well too, looking down and away at times and then right in his eyes (she recreated the whole thing for me, as if she were reliving it!)

What do we take away from this?

1. We CAN learn from the chicks in our lives!
2. If WOMEN are using this stuff, then why shouldn’t YOU?

Alright… that’s the lesson of the day. The most beautiful woman you have ever seen is out there, waiting for you. What are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Once you master Speed Seduction®, your days and nights will be filled with adventures that start with that first “hello.”

I show you many ways to say hello…to success with women, in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

All too often, I hear guys complain with a variation of this theme:

“I just wish I could find a girl who’s right for me. I’ve had so much bad luck with women that I don’t know if I’ll EVER find a woman I want to be with.”

Or, “I’m never going to have this much fun again with someone so hot ever again” (often uttered right after “losing” the “best” woman you’ve ever had, so you think).

Really, now?

Tell you what: let’s break down some numbers.

As of yesterday (April 9, 2010), the United States Census Bureau estimated there are 6,813,600,000 people on Planet Earth.

About half (or 3.4 BILLION) of them are women.

Now, let’s say that only 1 in 1,000 are available, within your age range, or otherwise Sargeable by you. You’ve still got 3.4 MILLION women.

And let’s assume, conservatively, that you can have chemistry with 1% of these women. All said and done, that leaves you 34,000 women who are available to you.

If you were to approach one woman per day until you approach all 34,000…that’s enough women for the next 93 YEARS.

Have you seen at least ONE hot woman today you could approach? Is there some hottie you’ve wanted to put the moves on, but you just haven’t brought yourself to do it yet?

Look up from above your computer monitor, if you’re in a public area, such as a coffee shop or other place where you’re using the public Wi-Fi. If you’re a student in a computer lab, same thing.

Is there at least ONE woman there, RIGHT NOW who looks like she might be worth saying hello to? If not, there’s a 50/50 chance you’ll see one within the next half hour.

Me, I like those odds. And if I don’t get anywhere with the next woman I meet (or claim my choice that I can do better and “Exit, Stage Left”), I’ve got DECADES worth of women who are still out there.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Now you know: almost 100 years’ worth of opportunity is available to you. The “right woman” for you IS there, you just haven’t let her know yet.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Last week here on my blog, I explained why it’s so important to stop c@&k-blocking yourself and denying yourself the opportunity to experience joy and pleasure with women because you think you’re worried she might think you’re more “not” than “hot.”

I received an e-mail from a fan who read my post and told me his dilemma. He’s 31 years old, has never gotten laid and doubts he ever will. He and has a sense of worthlesness and insecurity that he’s never “shaken” since he was a teenager who got picked on a lot in high school.

Because he got laughed at by the pretty girls he was attracted to back then, he’s still “stuck” in a pattern of being unable to approach women due to his sense that “relationships are meant for other people, not me.”

For him, it’s not about whether he’s good looking enough, it’s about what happened in his past that trips him up today.

Reach Out And Take The Key That Sets You Free
From Your Life-Sentence Of Involuntary Celibacy

I don’t know this guy’s life story, but I’d wager a dollar that his real issue is NOT where the “block” started but how, up until now, he’s been entangled in it and FEEDING it and REAFFIRMING IT.

Let me re-frame the conversation: Imagine if all of the worthlessness and insecurity he’s ever felt or experienced could be converted/refined/recycled into PURE energy for his peace of mind, balance, informed enthusiasm, and vision of the man he has become already in other areas of his life?

What if he could learn, from a place of clear eyes and new vision, without the old filters and responses (those memories of the past) standing in the way and “jumping in his line of sight” every time he “swallows hard” and “goes for broke” and FINALLY takes a “shot” at approaching a woman?

Listen: it’s not always about what you have, but rather what you do with it, that can make all the difference.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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