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Dump The Slump (You’re Not A Chump)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 6th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Just because you’re in some sort of slump – with women, with life, with whatever you want to achieve – you’re not automatically an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump).

To break free of a slump, you are going to have to do a few things.

First you are going to have to ritually break the response of fear.

Then you are going to have to vividly build in new representations of the way you WANT to be.

Finally, you will need to develop a way to monitor yourself so if the old response comes back, you can immediately send your brain in a better direction.

Breaking The Response Of Fear

This requires a bit of ritual work.

What we are doing is invoking the power of movement, breath, energy, and most important PERSONAL SYMBOLOGY to create massive and rapid change.

See, it works like this: simply cognitively understanding your problem and the solution is not enough.

If you want to make a major change you must:

  1. Change your beliefs linguistically in the left brain.
  2. Change your beliefs SYMBOLICALLY in the right brain.
  3. Change your body physiology, breathing and “energy”.

Doing these things will assist you with both breaking the fear AND giving your mind a new direction in which to go.

When Stuff Comes Up Again

Occasionally, when you make these changes, your old memories will present themselves again as an opportunity to “clean them up”.

It is important to realize that the person you were THEN could not have responded otherwise. It IS true that the person you were THEN had these issues.

You may find memories of your old limitations trying to rear up from the abyss.  Now, you don’t have to see yourself making new choices and having new behaviors, though you can if you want to.

Simply merging the image of your new self and your symbol with the images of the old you will re-inforce the lesson that the problems occurred with the OLD you and YOU are now different.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. How would you like to win on both ends of the spectrum: satisfied when things don’t go your way and fulfilled and happier when they do?  This, and much more, will be covered at our March 2012 Magick Seminar.

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“I’m Scared I Might Be Screwing Up!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 31st, 2009
 Im Scared I Might Be Screwing Up!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Happy Halloween! I know a lot of you are getting ready to head off to your Halloween parties and Sarge on all the hotties in their kinky nurse and exotic dancer costumes.

sexy librarian th Im Scared I Might Be Screwing Up!Quick tip: Taking a woman to a “haunted house” is a great way to get her in bed, as many of my students have reported. She’ll want to hold you close, which gives you an automatic “in” to use touching patterns to get her hot and bothered and back to YOUR house after. Remember, with Speed Seduction®, you observe her body language, behaviours, and language patterns and use this feedback in your seduction.

I’ll tell you what’s scary – when you’re Sarging like crazy but you’re not getting the results you expect. I got a note from a student yesterday and couldn’t hold back. Here is what he said:

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Hi Ross, you know, when it comes to women, it seems like there’s lots of ups and downs. I’ll hit a “winning streak” where I meet lots of women and have hot make-out session after hot make-out session and get laid several times in a few weeks. Things work out really well and I even end up dating some women for a while. But then other times I’ll go a month or more without a date or even a successful pick-up. I feel like I’m wasting my time when this happens.

This is scary, like what am I doing wrong?

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You know, I get this question a lot. I could sugarcoat it, or tell you that you just have to have faith and the “right one will come along.” No, this is where the continual process of honing and mastering your Seduction skills comes in.

Everyone goes through ups and downs in their Sarging. Even Babe Ruth, the “Sultan of Swat,” went through slumps in his baseball career where he kept striking out. But he also went through phases where every time he stepped up to the plate he hit it out of the park. This is why baseball players have a batting AVERAGE.

When you approach any woman, do it not for how you’re going to succeed with this one woman, but how you’re going to master the experience so you can succeed with her AND the next ten women who are even hotter and wanting you more than she is.

Remember this: when being a powerful Speed Seduction® master becomes who you are and what you do, your “batting average” with women will be MUCH higher. Sure, you’ll still have ups and downs, but most of them will be in bed with the women you truly desire.

Peace and many hot juicy pieces to come,

RJ

P.S. Women’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, last minute buyer’s remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other (up until now) deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions, can be scarier than the most gruesomely-lifelike Halloween costume. But there’s a better way.

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