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What Do Men Think Of Women? (TV Appearance)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 21st, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a blast from the past, straight off of YouTube.  In the fall of 1992 (that’s 19 years ago) I was a panelist on the Faith Daniels Show.

Be prepared to see how bad “social programming” was even back then.  After you watch this video, leave a comment with your thoughts.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Do You Have To Pay For Her Drink If She Asks?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 16th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

All things aside, are you, as the gentleman, still obligated to pay for the lady’s drink?

Let’s dig into this.

So you’re at a social with a cash bar (and you can run a tab).  You’re just having fun, being playful, chatting up different women.  Then, you focus in on one woman, and vice-versa.  You approach her.

She seems attractive and bright.  She’s been drinking a bit, not too much and not surprisingly since this is a social with a cash bar, but just enough for a slight buzz.

You say and do Sargy things and the seduction seem to be progressing nicely.  This night just might have an Act 2 – a torrid, steaming-hot sex scene.

At the end of the night, it’s time to pay the tab. You pay yours.  She starts complaining that her friend had invited her, implying that she doesn’t want to pay her own tab.  You assume she wants her friend to pay.  Remembering how “booze” is one of the 5 Bs that desperate supplicators resort to, you don’t volunteer to pay.  Eventually, her friend comes back to where you are and pays the tab.

Outside in the parking lot, she puts you to the fire for not offering to pay for her drinks. Maybe you should have expected this.  (Thank you VERY much, social programming and Romance Racketeers, for f@@king things up AGAIN for both you and her.)

Now, she seems like an attractive enough woman that most other guys would offer to pay for her drinks. Instinctively you sense this might be the turning point that determines whether you a) go home with her, b) go back out Sarging, c) call it a night.  So what do you do?

A student of mine, when faced with this exact scenario, told her, pleasantly but matter-of-factly, “I’m not going to buy your affections.” It became clear she wasn’t going to give him her number, much less a ride on the O-Train, so he did the ol “Exit, stage left.”

I think he did fine. I would have suggested he say, also, “Do you really need the external validation of a guy’s buying things for you, to be reminded of your own value and worth?” Then shake his head and walk off.

Onward!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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The Keys To Success With Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 19th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Mastering the skills for approaching and seducing the women you truly desire can be achieved with the right tools and knowledge on your side and in your corner.

But with all the BS social programming going on via the dreck spewed out by the “romance industry,” small wonder many smart men who otherwise have the whole world by the balls, are going through life doubled over in constant, searing, skewering emotional (and even physical) pain from chronic blue balls.

There’s a different bullshit idea for every day of the week and it can be downright confusing.

It’s possible you’ve studied PUAs who tell you to go to the club wearing a top hat, make-up, and 5 inch heels and acting like a clown to meet women.

Maybe you’ve bought into “just be yourself and be a friend” B.S.

Could be you’re screwing around randomly typing “37/m/downtown looking for a nice lady for naughty times” in chat rooms, dangling bait from your rod hoping an actual woman nibbles on your worm.

And as a result, the very notion of getting laid, meeting lots of hot women, or finding your life partner (whatever your goal is) seems like a heavy solid oak door, dead-bolted shut, and through the steel-barred window, on the other side you see your success vision sneering, laughing, and pointing while jingling the keys.

If only you could unlock that door.

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Peace and piece,
RJ

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Yes, You CAN Score With Younger Women (Despite What “They” Say)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 17th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Many of my students have heard a permeation of the following: “Women will have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another six months or so, because they believe love takes time.”

Maybe there’s variance in how many “dates” before the woman will mount the baloney pony, or how much “time” she needs to fall in love, but you get the idea – social programming has women thinking they’ll be perceived as whores unless they make you mastur-wait for sex, or some sort of flakey if they allow themselves to fall in love too soon.

Here’s another one, the main topic of this lesson: Pretty much all younger women say they don’t want to be with older men.

One student (in his mid 30s) encountered resistance from a 20-year-old coed he had been Sarging almost a week and who he’d already made out with…who out of the blue sprung this on him: “I keep saying, I’m not supposed to be with anyone over 27.  So why am I even having any conversation with you at all?”

Leading me to ask, what’s the difference between a 27 and a 28 year old man?  And really, what’s the difference between 27, and, say, 33?  How about 27 and 53 for that matter?

Here’s what I say:

Forget about what people write with such stupid generalities. It is based on THEIR limits.

In the past I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. On the other hand, some never do.

If “pretty much all” younger women say they’ll “never” be with an older man, then what’s up with all these middle-aged and even elderly men scoring so much young tight trim?

What about this trend (that you see discussed in more and more magazines lately) of “Do-Over Dads” in their 50s and even 60s starting second families (sometimes first families) with younger women?

Must be plenty of younger women perfectly willing to settle down with/marry and ACTUALLY HAVE KIDS with considerably older men, right?  (And if it’s his second family, doesn’t that mean he probably has a son about HER age?)

Look, the real issue is: will listening to what other people say is the “right way” help you go where YOU need to?

What is the process-the methodology-by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?

Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”

The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”

More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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How You “Show Up” Truly Attractive

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 15th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Society has taught us that we need certain things, such as status, looks, and money, to be considered “attractive”.  But who really benefits when we believe this?

Click the Play button to watch this video, then leave a comment to tell me what you think…

Peace and piece,
RJ

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He Who Dates, Masturbates

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 11th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters In Training,

I really want to keep up the conversation about how our language around “dating” keeps us “dating” our hands.

So here is another clip for you.  I hope it gets you thinking. Please give me your feedback and comments.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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The 5 “Bs” And Global Responses

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 25th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

The terms in which we’re programmed from early on to think of “dating” is what’s tripping so many smart guys up.

Click the Play button below to learn more and then comment to tell me your thoughts:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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