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PUBLIC SARGE HEALTH WARNING: The Scourge Of Oneitis

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 22nd, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A terrible scourge is ravaging the land… a malady so insidious, so pervasive, so malevolent… stifling Sarges before they see the light of day and causing an outbreak of lonely nights for smart guys everywhere.

The “romance” industry is rejoicing in their profits windfall.  Rosie and her sisters have never had such a lucky streak as they are on now, because of this nefarious ill wind.

What am I referring to?  It’s an epidemic known as Oneitis.
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Simply: Oneitis is a state where a man’s entire energy gets placed, or sucked, into ONE woman.  Symptoms include anxiety, worry, scarcity, and un-clarity, not to mention picking daisies and pulling the pedals and mumbling, “She likes me, she likes me not.”   Oneitis will have a man betting his entire girl-getting game on ONE chick who he’s not even dating yet.

(Remember: dating is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with, not that one you met yesterday who you’re hoping to run into today so you can ask for her phone number so you can call her sometime to see if maybe she’d like to…. excuse me…. I’m gonna be sick just THINKING about it.)

Why am I issuing this public Sarge health warning about Oneitis today?

In response to a recent issue of “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets,” a student told me about this chick he’s into.  He says they are “just friends” and never do anything more than talk on the phone.  She moved away recently and they’re 5 states apart, yet these endless phone calls  continue.  He says it’s the best relationship he’s had with a woman. Because he cares about her so much, he doesn’t even want to look at another woman.

Huh?!?!?!

This statement strikes me sad, and perfectly illustrates the evils perpetrated by this scourge, Oneitis. Oh my stars and garters!

If you’re in a situation like this, you are coming from SUCH poverty. It’s like a man who has lived in dark shanty or hovel his whole life, with no running water.  At random intervals, someone comes along and offers him a few fetid drops of mucky water probably scooped out of a drainage ditch. And he steps out of the hovel and mentally carries THAT image as the best he can have.

Look: when you are Sarging on a chick, remain interested in the woman, but not invested in scoring with her as the “end goal.” Your goal is to not only succeed with her, but also hone and sharpen your girl-getting skills that will get you laid ten times over by women you, up until now, never dreamed would actually give YOU the f@@king time of day.

Let’s band together and send this dastardly evil, Oneitis, back to the dark hole it crawled out of!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When You Can’t Get Her Off Your Mind (Even Though You Know Better)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 28th, 2010
 When You Cant Get Her Off Your Mind (Even Though You Know Better)

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever had it happen where for some reason, you just can’t stop thinking about a particular chick?

Like, you spend hours visioning what your next meeting (or even phone call) will be like, exactly what you’re going to say?

ca 63290464 180 When You Cant Get Her Off Your Mind (Even Though You Know Better)Then, you find yourself agonizing over the right time of day you should call her? Suddenly worried that she might see what you put on your Facebook wall and fretting that she might interpret your status a certain way (that keeps your willy dry)?

Normally I ask, when I get questions like this I ask, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most,

Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman
on the whole freaking planet???

However. in this case I think you realize that she isn’t. It’s just that there’s something inside of you keeping you fixated on this one chick.

First, you’re probably placing too much importance on this one chick. Have you f@@ked her yet? (It’s a yes or no question; either your Junior Explorer has explored her woman cave, or it hasn’t.)

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, define “importance”. Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect with.

A lot of times guys find their “stuckness” can be exacerbated by being confused by that woman’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other deeply frustrating and seemingly (to you) irrational actions. Sound familiar?

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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