Closing: Why Can’t You Seal The Deal With Women?
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
How do you move closer to your destination? Take a step toward it.
How do you eat the giant elephant? One bite at a time.
Claiming your results with women you truly desire is not much different.
If you’re just starting out, a “newbie” who has had a bit of success using the techniques but feeling a little intimidated because you haven’t yet effortlessly landed the terrific threesome with Debbie and her succulent sorority sister Sarah, think about what HAS happened for you.
You’ve made the decision that today is the last day of the way you used to be.
Perhaps you personally haven’t changed all that much, but the way you see things and the world in general HAS changed – for the WAY better.
With increased confidence that comes from seeing SOME success, you feel like the world is your oyster and you will grab it by the balls and squeeze until they crunch. (Ha ha ha. I don’t think oysters HAVE balls, but I dig the picturesque metaphor in any event.)
What comes up many times for “newbies” who have gotten better at approaching and conversing with women: challenges mastering the Close, sealing the deal with women.
Hint: stop thinking about the “Close” as a separate stage, but as something that starts before you even walk out the door and continues with each further step of comfort, openness, challenge, excitement and desire you create in and with her and with the first initial friendly/warm touches/physical contact, which should be happening early on.
HINT HINT: If she isn’t comfortable or is frozen with that initial, friendly, non-sexual touching, RUN.
HINT HINT HINT: learn to screen women. What personality traits must be there in her for you to want to move forward? Can you mentally rehearse getting up from the table, smiling, shaking your head and saying, “No way” and just walking out the door, feeling 10 feet tall and humming out loud, “ANCHORS AWAY, MY BOYS! ANCHORS AWAAAAAY!”
Newbies: this is important, that last hint. Do it.
Start acting like you have choice and standards even if you currently don’t and your dick for the past ten years has been dry as nun’s pussy in the Sahara desert! It’s the most paradoxical, counter-intuitive mindset, but it W-O-R-K-S! Start believing, feeling, act-as-if you ALREADY have a world of choice.
And most of all, remember my rule: When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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One of those questions really struck me as something I’d like to discuss with you today.
