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“What Do You Do For Fun?”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 7th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Within the walls of our 3-day seminar rooms, burned into the discs of our recorded teaching products, and locked snugly inside our instant-online-access Secret Training Collection…

… you’ll hear a lot about new directions, what happens below me, and how I close off the past so that today is the last day of the way I used to be.

Some skeptics say, “pretty much any intelligent woman is going to pick up on these double entendres and think you’re stupid.  Not for me, thanks.”

That’s a little misplaced, especially when many of my students get vaginally-victorious results just by asking women what they do for fun.

Exactly right. 

As I keep saying, there are certain questions and themes that are most likely to open up the trains of thought, waves of emotion, flows of feeling that lead a woman to feel strongly attracted, aroused, etc.

Knowing how to get these themes introduced into a “harmless” or “normal” conversation is a key skill.

Here are a few of my “tried and true” seduction questions:

  • “When you really want to cut loose… escape… indulge yourself..what is it you love to do? And what’s something you’d like to do… but haven’t found a way to try (pointing to myself subtly).”
  • “If you were to meet someone… when you just… feel… that… you know… and it’s not just that but also… you know… it’s ON… now… today(nodding my head)… what do you think is the one thing about you that would keep this person coming back for more….beyond just a one time thing”
  • “Do you think men understand women? I don’t know if they do, but I think I can explain the psychology of men to women in just one joke…”  (I then tell them one or more suggestion laden filthy jokes!)

Finally, here’s how a student of mine explained, how HE made it work:

Personally I like to ask them about what they do for fun.  1 chick I was sargin went into a long drawn out description of how she loves to ride a motor bike. She was going thru all the motions as well, really describing it and acting like she was on a bike as she pretended to go around a corner making the noises.  You could actually see her reliving the scene out in realtime. It was even exciting for me to listen to her describe it so I was kinda getting her to relive what she likes to do most and she gets all those feelings of excitement back as she’s thinking about it and describing it.

I thought it was pretty damn cool it was like as if she was entertaining me :)

Keep learning.  Keep mastering.  Keep Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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“She Was Visibly Hot, And Not So Bothered!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 31st, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As the latest building block in the “Wall Of Proof” I’ve mentioned to my Facebook followers that I’m building, containing REAL results that REAL students like you get when applying my teachings to claim ultimate success with the women you truly desire, please read the following:

OK, so I tried just a few things I read on your website with a coworker just to see what would happen.  She is a mom with school kids through high school.

When I get to the office, I stopped by her desk.  I didn’t even say hi, I just said, “The best thing about having kids is the worst thing about having kids, (long pause) wet (very slight pause, barely noticeable) moist (same barely noticeable pause) sloppy kisses.”

She totally responded to it! I mean, I set the stage with the whole kid thing, but she still filled her thoughts with whatever she wanted… :)   Of course I showed disbelief that she thought I was making a sexual comment, “What, I’m talking about my kids, where are you going with it?!”  Then I switched to small talk and snuck in maybe three or four phrases in the next couple of minutes, such as “wide open” “feel so comfortable,” “hard” and I can’t remember what else. I was winging it.

She was visibly hot and not so bothered!  It was crazy, I didn’t even try that hard, just messing around, but yet I was able to create a partial scene and let her mind fill it.  I just left her hanging there, I didn’t want to take it too far.

What I found so interesting is that throughout the day, whenever we had normal conversation, she would just gaze very intently at me, very hypnotic!  I would even just stare back at her just to see when she would break the gaze, expecting her to feel uncomfortable at some point.  She would just lock into a gaze. Her body language and eyes weren’t really telling me, “I want to eat you.”  It was more of a, “you did something to me, I really like it, and I want you to keep doing it.”

She is a lady that keeps her space, is very guarded and discreet, so I was shocked with the amount of eye contact and her physical proximity. She even started sharing about her personal life, and telling me about her husband and wishing he could be home more often (travels a lot and gone 3-6 months at a time), talking about how when he’s home he just wants to play golf and hunt. And she was just very… intense.  It was crazy!

What’s even crazier is that the the only knowledge I have about the seduction scene is reading your blog!  I can’t believe it, I can only imagine what the paid stuff teaches.  I haven’t even read The Game, only a book review that led me to your website!

What do you have that’s specifically sales oriented. I’m in sales and if I can influence buyers to a sale in a 15 minute period like I partially seduced my coworker in just a 5 minute conversation, I am very interested.

Alex Rodriguez, real estate investor
El Paso, TX

See what I mean?  The real power of Speed Seduction® is the ability to master the skills and then apply them to your own unique situations with women.  That sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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“So Hard In Your Mouth”?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 18th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?

Why, yes, my horny disciples.  Yes indeedy do!

Here is an example:

Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.

In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.

Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).

She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”

I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH.  When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”

She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”

I said, “That’s right.  French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”.  (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”

Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened.  As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.

At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.

(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray.  Once I hook ‘em, I gotta overlook ‘em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)

In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:

“So hard…”

“Hard inside you”

“New direction/nude erection”

“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”

“Suck seed/succeed”

“Go down”

“Put it in your mouth”

When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself.  Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!

Have fun and let me know how it goes…

Piece and peace,
RJ

P.S. I am seriously contemplating designing an on line program dedicated to the topic of different ways to quickly sexualize your interactions with wonen: verbal, vibe and touch.  What say ye to this?  It would probably run about 5-7 video modules, plus, when I create it, some live video broadcasts with Q and A. Maybe sell it for $97.

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“I’m Not Going To Sleep With You!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 28th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

It often comes up that a woman who has recently gotten out of a long-term relationship will be reluctant to sleep with you.  Even though she wants to, really bad.

A student of mine received an e-mail from a woman he had been Sarging and things were really heating up.  A little confusing with a “WTF” aspect to it, for sure.  But, check this out and then I’ll tear it up:

“I’ll be really honest with you here. I enjoy talking to you and I think you would be great in bed.  But there are a couple reasons why I’m not going to sleep with you. One – I am still very in love with my ex boyfriend. Two: I really enjoy talking about sex with someone that I’m not sleeping with. It’s just so much more honest. I’m sure that makes sense. See you Thursday, looking forward to it.”

It’s right in front of your face: this chick has ALREADY made up her mind to sleep with you. 

She needs an excuse in her mind so she can feel blameless; “well, I TRIED not to sleep with him and even told him “NO” but I just couldn’t help myself..it just HAPPENED”.

Note what she said, “I think you would be great in bed”.

STOP! How could she “think” that without FANTASIZING about it?

Just say to her,

Hey…I’m glad for your honesty. Whatever we each and BOTH feel, I don’t want to do anything unless it is BOTH something we are BOTH thinking and dreaming about and totally want to do. So let’s just relax, enjoy each other’s company and only in whatever ways are comfortable and we BOTH want to do.

This takes the pressure OFF. Then keep right on Sarging..when you start to undress her and she resists just say…“We BOTH can’t help ourselves!” then fairly aggressively peel her panties off and enjoy the “lift-off” of the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Remember: a woman’s first response to you should rarely be taken as her “final answer.”  More likely, she’s responding to what’s in her mind and her world AT THAT MOMENT.  In 24 hours from now, 1,440 minutes will have passed, each with a reason why it’s possible  she’ll think differently.

Sound like a lot to manage?  Not if you have this on your side and in your corner.

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Supermarket Pickups: Seemingly Innocent Conversation Using Suggestions And Commands

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 7th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Watch this video (right out of my Coaching Program):

answersupermarketsuggestions

Is it possible to talk about something that sounds completely innocent, while subtly steering the conversation toward your bed (and her in it?) How do you use a seemingly innocent conversation to embed commands (fascination, connection, attraction, list) that get her hot and bothered?

I may do a mini video on this topic soon, in fact.  In the meantime, be sure to leave a comment…

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Your “Opening Statement” That Makes The Case For A Threesome

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 30th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Want to have two chicks at the same time?

So many of my students either have, or want to, that I’m thinking of adding it to a “bucket list” of must-haves that every smart guy must experience at least once, if for no other reason than to know he “went there.”

Problem: many women won’t “go there.”

Why?  Oftentimes it’s societal “rules.” It breaks a taboo to engage in any sort of group sex, or anything other than one man and one woman doing it.  You’d think that the ticket booth at the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle only sells tickets in pairs.  Not true.

Sometimes, she’s skiddish.  Or afraid of unanticipated consequences.  Or maybe she really doesn’t want to touch another girl, and she isn’t sold on your “promises” that it will be her and her best friend working on you, but not each other.  Maybe she’s worried you’ll like her friend better (it could be a competition or ego thing).

The “Warming Question” That Breaks The Ice And Gets You Closer To The Triple Play

Now: the following is something I almost never just hand out.  So you’ll want to write this down, print it, bookmark this post, whatever the f@@k you have to do so you don’t lose it.  Ask this question:

“If you could go somewhere where no one knew who you were, and nothing you did would ever get back to anyone you did know, what kinds of experiences would you like to have, with what kind of person, with what kind of feelings?”

Then add:

I find when I LET THOSE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS run through YOUR MIND, it’s the kind of thing that let’s me realize that sometimes YOU WANT TO SUCK SEED in stripping away from every day life, now and again, and FEEL YOUR OPENING to something novel..some new..A NEW DIRECTION you can IMAGINE TAKING INSIDE.

Now…when you ask that question you will get the following kinds of responses:

  1. A vivid response with a vivid description.
  2. A vivid response with a non-vivid description. They just go inside, access the thoughts and the states. Often they blush or look embarrassed
  3. A non-vivid response with a vivid description(they describe it vividly but for some reason they don’t access the feelings-this is most rare)
  4. A confused response. They don’t get what you mean
  5. A defensive response.

I’m looking for 1 & 2. 3 can be worked with as well. 4 is possible if they also show a willingness to understand. Forget 5.

Ever tried this (or something like it?)  How did it work out for you?  (Leave a comment below).  Or, go out and do it and then report back here how it went.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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VIDEO: The I – You Shift In Action

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 2nd, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

So many of you have asked me for demonstrations of how specific principles of Sarging work.

In this video (just 4:14), I show you how I use what’s known as the “I – You Shift” to plant commands and suggestions.

Click here to watch, then leave a comment to tell me what you think:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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