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Why Are You Pulling Her Impacted Erotic Wisdom Teeth?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on November 18th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Do you believe…I mean REALLY believe…that when you offer your gifts to the world and in particular to the women you desire, it IS a
gift?

Do you believe that women want these feelings and that you can have many of them responding to you in a great way?

Because if you do, why would you bother with a woman who is clearly deeply uncomfortable with herself, with men and with sex?

I bring this up because two days ago I got an e-mail from a student who shared a report on a “Five Minute Sarge” with a (seemingly) EXTREMELY INTERESTED woman, that abruptly crashed and burned when a) she said she had to first check on her child’s babysitter’s schedule and she wouldn’t know her schedule till tomorrow, and b) when my student then did Plan B and said he’d call her the next day once she had the schedule, the woman said, “uhhh….can I call you instead?”

Bottom line: she liked the attention that comes from SEEMING open and adventurous, with all her flirting and use of words like “babe” and “love” with guys who hit on her, but when it came time to put the game behind her name, she clammed up faster than a statue with lockjaw.

If these things happen to you, I ask now: why are you doing “emotional dentistry” trying to pull her impacted erotic wisdom teeth?

It is not, you see, that you only attract the crazy ones, the flaky ones, the cock-teases. More likely you are only approaching/talking to women who SEEM very open to be in some way approached, rather than women who are desirable to you AFTER you’ve spoken to them and screened them.

Let me put that another way: screwy women (of all types) are often very desperate for male attention, and so, in that respect, they SEEM friendly and open to talking. So guys who have issues with approaching will be drawn to these girls, who SEEM friendly.

When in reality, these ladies are not truly friendly at all. Rather:

  1. They have very bad boundaries.
  2. They desperately need rescue/attention/validation

Another metaphor; a predator in the wild will usually seek out the weak/sick prey animals rather than tackling the healthy ones.

What if you try this instead:

  1. Work on approaching/talking to women who may not be giving off “talk to me” signals. Create the approachability in them by how you approach, rather than waiting for them to look approachable.
  2. Determine, once you do get talking, to screen out ANY woman who gives off any kind of signal or communication that she is not comfortable with sex, sexuality, or that she is angry, emotionally closed, etc.

Watch your girl-getting game skyrocket with your ability to approach and seduce any woman, anytime, anywhere thus turbo-charged.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Approaching more women who may seem cold, aloof, not necessarily interested, not just waiting for you to come up and lay the mack down – that’s a colder environment than when she says “babe” and “love” and makes goo-goo eyes, right?  No, it’s different when you have Speed Seduction® 3.0.  Click here to heat things up starting now!

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The Sarge Brought Back To Life!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 5th, 2010
 The Sarge Brought Back To Life!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution
: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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