Going The Distance: Do Long-Distance Relationships Work?
Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
Today, the movie Going The Distance opens in theaters.
For those who haven’t heard, it’s a “romantic comedy” (yet another attempt by the romance industry to turn smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps or AFCs) about a man and a woman who meet, have a “summer fling” and then travel back and forth between San Francisco and New York City to see one another.
I am not telling you to NOT see the movie. If you do, try to have compassion for the male character, Garrett, who according to the IMDb.com description of the movie “…has always had a problem with commitment and understanding what women want… he learns the hard way that he cannot speak the female language…” (FYI, I’m in Los Angeles. Garrett, write to me, let’s do some private coaching.)
Second, I am not telling you to NOT ever engage in a long-distance relationship. I AM going to caution you about some of the realities associated with long term relationships.
Why “Going The Distance” Might Get You Further Away
From Suck-Sess With Women, Near And Far
Long distance relationships sometimes work. Here’s something to keep in mind, if you are thinking about placing yourself in one.
You’ll be doing a LOT of communicating by email, phone, and IM. Now, it’s one thing IF you have already been f@@king like weasels BEFORE “long distance” and “relationship” become part of the same statement (like, if one of you gets a job in a new city, the other can’t move because of THEIR work, but you together decide to try to make it work).
But if you declare yourself “in a relationship” with some stranger (and yes, she is a stranger) you met on the internet PRIOR to f@@king, you run the danger of her merely enjoying the fantasy attention. I see WAY too much of this happening anymore. One of two things will happen.
- When you guys “take the plunge” and decide to meet in person, you might get an email from her the day before your flight where it becomes clear to you that all that “ooooohh” and “aaahhhh” and “I waaaaannnttt yyyooouuuu” she was typing in the “naughty box” was just her acting out a fantasy.
- She’ll find a man locally who can please her, and she’ll hit the power-off button on you, since at that point you’re just “words on a screen.”
Remember: you never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first SERIOUS physical pass, so I don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER we’ve “gone the distance” in the sack.
And one question for you: if you are in a long-distance relationship, is it really a relationship, or a crutch so you don’t have to risk “going the distance” with the wonderful, willing women who are HERE, NOW?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. If I were on the writing team for Going The Distance, I’d add a scene where Garrett goes to my website and orders Speed Seduction® 3.0. It would make for a pretty short movie, though, as he wouldn’t have had to work nearly as hard to claim the success with women he deserves. Ready to “go the distance” with your girl getting game? Click here to learn how
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